Mark7890

@ "coupleotttawa" & "rockhard" - did you guys get any reply? I'm in the same boat, trying to find more info about these parties and looking forward to joining one this year.

I'm planning to go but won't go through the trouble of putting on a special costume. After all, I'll take it off anyway, ha ha I understand we get there a bit before the appointment time, meet the ladies and then retreat with the chosen one. If there's anything I should know (besides the costume thingie, I'm not getting that) let me know - my first CMJ HP.

Initially I wanted to do a reco but then I didn't know what I could say. Glad I didn't. At this point, it's clear that I won't share and the guys here were great. I did get all those PMs but I think people understood why I won't share more details and stopped asking. Mind you, one or two were pretty close with their guesses :-) Overall, looking back at this, it's not worth it - as another member mentioned, the comfort is not there and you're better up paying a reputable SP. But having the experience once is ... priceless isn't it. Additional Comments: Wow, talk about sharing knowledge. I guess learning never stops. So I am familiar with the shopping over the border process and I used it quite a bit for... goods but this is the first time I heard of someone buying hmm... "special services" in the US and comparing the price and quality with what's available locally. Good stuff. First time I heard about the table showers too - girls, anyone willing to import the procedure in Ottawa? I volunteer for a test :-)

This forum is a gold mine. I worked late tonight and I thought I'll catch up with my messages before going to bed. I would like to thank you all for your contributions. I would also like to say sorry to those who contacted me by PM - sorry guys, I won't share the info. on the ladies or the places visited, for obvious reasons. I read all your messages (and I had more PMs than replies to this tread, ha ha) and hope you'll understand. Keep up the good work, Mark

Yep, I think this was what happened. I'm pretty sure the place is registered but really it doesn't matter now. I was curious how frequent it happens and I'll definitely be better prepared next time (both mentally and with some change in my pocket).

Phaedrus, I totally agree - some change is needed. The trouble is the first time I needed $140 change and I don't think I ever have that much money on me, let along when I go to see my therapist :-)

Hi, 1st was a Spa 2nd was an independent. Thanks Whiteman & Phaendrus - I can say that I finally understand how that door fee works. It would be nice if the girls would explain that over the phone but I guess it might not be possible sometimes.

Based on what I read since then (mostly here), you are right, that fee doesn't include anything else. As for the other part of your comment, let's see how it goes the third time :-)

Hi guys, A longer tread and question at the end about the blurry line between the MP & SP services. It seems that I'm an an area where I keep crossing this line. So I'm still a relatively new comer to the hobby and I look at these experiences as TOFTT type learning. I'm glad they were all positive so far :-) This happened twice to me in as many appointments booked since I started: I called a reputable service, set up an 1hr appointment and showed up with the exact fee. First time, the lady let's me in the room to shower and get ready. After few min. she returns, gives me a nice short massage, we chat/connect, overall have a good time and then... boom: she's asking me if she can come closer in order for me to "do her". Stupid me, I'm thinking that by "do her" she means giving her a massage. So I make room for her and stand up and start the massage. We have a great time but she kinda starts enjoying it a lot; she gives me the usual compliments (are you a masseur, etc), I put it on the fact that she's polite. But then as I approach the lower body she opens her legs. She looks great (I do my research here, he he), she is nice to talk to and you know, I like her. I don't have enough control and I let my hand slide down. I ask her is she has a condom, she says yes. I lift her on my arms and take her to the drawer where she retrieves the condom. Then back to the massage table for the real action. We have a great time, this time we shower together, we joke, we laugh. Now I paid the fee before entering the room. She's not asking yet about any money. I'm thinking I shouldn't walk out without tipping her and I ask her about the fee. It turns out the additional money she wants would make the total amount paid comparable to the fee of the SPs who advertise here. Overall, you know, I had no problem paying (though I wish I knew from the beginning so I could come prepared) but I have no other money on me. No problem, they have an ATM machine on spot. So yeah, this is how I learned the hard way what the "door fee" is. Actually, I'm still not sure what this door fee covers... Second time was few days ago - again, I walk in with exact money. The lady is welcoming, I get undressed, she starts a nice short massage and when I turn over she makes a compliment or two. The she's asking me what would I like her to do. Hmm what do you mean? Just a happy ending. She reveals that she does it all and I mean ...all. She repeated it (I must have looked stunned, ha ha) and gave me example. Now I am not looking for "all" some of the stuff I don't even want to try and to top things off, again, I don't have extra money on me for anything else. She's a bit disappointed and she continues with the hj. Everything was great overall we laughed, had a bit of fun. I'm not complaining - my point is that it's tough enough with the "door fee", not knowing what the total fee for a hj will be (I later researched and saw examples how it's $X if the provider is dressed but $Y if undressed, etc.) but when SP type services come into the picture as well, the budget planning gets really messy. So, how usual is it to go see someone who advertises as an MP and end up with SP offers? The first time I described above it really caught me unprepared. Do you have any advice for me on how I can get out of situations like this? Thanks guys Additional Comments: sorry for the typos, I swear I read this thing twice... I guess it wasn't enough

Fine - you guys convinced me. Apple will be the girl I'll see this week :-)

Thanks for your reply - I did get feedback via PM and it was positive. For some reason she's not reviewed here and I agree that's not working in her favor. Thanks everybody for helping with this.

Hi guys, Marika advertises on BP as a 29yo located near Carlingwood. The thing is, her pics look more like 45 - nothing wrong with the age but why start with a lie. Maybe I'm missing something, I'm a total newbie so I guess that's possible. Could not find anything here about her. Thanks