JayDC

I've wondered about this as well. What if something on the "menu" requires preparation, and is not something that all clients would request; how would this be handled?

I've noticed that a few have age restrictions on some ads/sites. I was more thinking that SPs wouldn't expect to get many calls from < 20 clients, and therefore wouldn't list it as a restriction. No harm in asking though. When I'm asked to "tell a bit about myself", what exactly do they mean by this? My interests, pasttimes? Or what I would like in an encounter?

Firstly, I understand how annoying it is when information has to be repeated to those who neglect to search the forum. I will do my best to avoid discussing topics which have been beaten to death here. I have never seen a service provider before, and I'm a bit unsure of how to proceed. I'm quite young (19), and I would prefer to see a lady that is at least 23. Preferably 25-30. I understand that a lot of SPs have adversions to seeing very young clients. Are there many reputable ladies that would see somebody my age? To the SPs here, have you had many (if any) clients under 20? I've also read here that many SPs require references. While I can appreciate the importance of one from a service provider's perspective, it creates a bit of a paradoxical situation. I need experience to get experience. Considering more intimate acts like DATY, does this sort of thing have to be planned out with the lady or can it be spontaneous (presuming she offers it)? The thought of it with an SP is great, but I may find it unappealing when I'm actually with her. Would this be considered offensive personally to the SP if it had been discussed but then turned down? Lastly, would it be possible to contact an SP through email/PM? Since I'm new at this I'd probably come off as quite awkward over the phone. Thanks.