Layah

I'm a huge fan!!!

I hope I didn't give the impression that I offer services to whomever. That isn't the case. I do also book longer appointments where I've had the pleasure of getting to know my guest and found it to be a wonderful experience. I guess what I'm getting at is that I'm happy to offer different options for different needs and that I don't feel cheap or used when it happens to be a shorter encounter.

Apparently twice. Dang android app!

Sorry. Somehow posted in wrong thread.

Wrong post

Personally, booking two 15-minute sessions is better for me business-wise than one 30-minute session. Also, from what I'm told, I can offer up a damn nice sizzling hunk of steak in 15 minutes. All of the comments suggesting that quality gets compromised in favor of cheaper/shorter appointments and that SPs who offer 15-minute sessions are somehow less professional, blah blah blah...strike me as not only judgemental but also unfair. I love being an independent SP for many reasons but one of the top reasons is making my own rules. I've built my business so that it works for me and not in a way that is designed to please everyone else. It's fine to disagree with the way others do things, everyone is different, but to pass judgement and make assumptions on their character is, in my opinion, unacceptable. I've seen some mention about how impossible it is to make a "connection" in such a short time. I'm sorry if this sounds bitchy but most of the SPs I've known are in this business for the money, hence the word business. I've never actually met any who are looking for a connection. Same goes for the gentlemen who seek out our services. It has been my experience that they're mostly looking to get their jollies off. In fact, many of them are already in relationships and not seeking anything deeper than a lovely time with a woman who stimulates them physically and sometimes mentally. Those who are single seem to be looking for the same thing. If a deeper connection is found that's one thing but I can't see myself seeking it out at work. That's just my opinion and like assholes, we all have one. I just can't wrap my head around trying to form a "connection" with clients. Not saying anything against it, just that it's not something I understand. P.S. Just for the record, I don't book everyone who calls. I have a maximum number of clients I see in a day regardless of the length of time they each book. This reduces some of the possible risks to my emotional and physical well-being.

I may be totally wrong but I believe some do it this way so it feels more professional vs. handing over a wad of cash. Personally, I like the envelope system when dealing with clients I already know because we have built a certain level of trust. Not as comfortable with new people because I don't have much of a clue what they're like. I'm not the type to start counting out cash in front of them but I am able to get a pretty accurate idea of what's there if I see the bills. Ideally, I don't like having it handed to me. I prefer to have it placed on either my kitchen table or nightstand. Then again, I just moved into a new place so I'll have to choose somewhere else. (I haven't entertained here yet as I'm still getting settled in.) For outcalls, my preference is the bathroom counter because the first thing I usually do is stop there to freshen up and make sure I look alright. The majority of my outcall clients are from out of town so having my donation left on the bathroom counter also allows me to count it discreetly. But that's just the way I'm most comfortable. My preference is right for me but most assuredly isn't right for everyone. We all have our preferences and one isn't better than the other, just different.

Officially, 30 minutes is the minimum time I offer for incalls (1 hour if Outcall). However, I sometimes offer quickie sessions for a few hours to mix things up. I've also made an occasional exception for a regular guest. Because we've already met several times and gotten to know one another, it doesn't feel weird to me at all. To each their own is how I see it. Some ladies have restrictions that others are totally comfortable offering as a regular service. Some ask for higher rates than others. Some bill based on service while others set a flat rate based on time. Who has the right to judge which is right/wrong? How can one's character be determined by how much time they buy/sell with/to a SP/hobbyist? If Bob is horny and just wants to blow his load and it only takes him 2 minutes to pop his top, why pay for an extra 28 mins? I just really wish we could stop chastising and judging opinions that differ from our own. Live and let live. Cum and let cum.

Personally, I'd prefer to see a client who chooses the ladies he sees because his interest was piqued by them and not based on the cheapest price. I've been asked more times than I care to count if I'd lower my rate or if I offer specials/discounts for this or that. I understand quite well that money is often tight for most people but if you can't afford a lady's requested donation, either save up until you can, opt for less time or shop for a more economical encounter. While undercutting can have an affect on other ladies (myself included), the positive side is that it creates options for hobbyists who can't afford the higher priced SPs. There is a silver lining in every shit storm ladies and gents. You just have to look for it. :-)

I would change a few things about my appearance. I'd firm and tone all over and give myself some boobs. Why not just get a boob job? Because it's just not me. I want everything on my body to be 100% real.

Personally, I have no problem with a gentleman asking me for pricing information provided it is done respectfully and politely. For example, questions such as "How much for a BJ?" are unacceptable to me. Asking what my donations are, how much for my time, how many roses they should bring, etc are all good in my opinion. As a side note, when a lady gives you her pricing information, it is in extremely bad taste to attempt to haggle. If she says $200 and you only have $175 opt for lesser time instead of trying to convince her to take a lesser amount. Many of us are insulted by such inquiries.

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great open enthusiasm

to her meal.

him hungrily and

the gathering crowd.

"Coitus for all!!

OMG! Bring me some? Pleeeeeaaaase!!! Lol

the chastity belt

If past lives exist, I definitely met someone I have some type of tie to from another lifetime today. Just felt so easy, familiar and comfortable. Thanks FB for making me giggle like a child when you tossed me as if I weighed no more than a feather.

Congratulations ladies!!! I know one of you personally and am so proud of you! Lol *HUGS*

If it's advertised she should NOT be offended. If she is, suggest she change her ad.