Layah

I really hope I don't offend any of our more reserved members with this. READER DISCRETION ADVISED My absolute favorite part of any sexual encounter is those few split seconds before my partner cums. Whether he's in my mouth or deep inside me, I just LOVE the feel of his hardness throbbing just before and during the explosion that I made happen. It's that throb that gets my juices flowing!

I think a good way to get a feel for if the lady is for real or not (other than recos) is to get to know her a little either through PMs, chat room or texting (if she allows casual communication). I've had extensive chats with several clients to the point of feeling as if I already knew them before meeting. I also found that it heightened the anticipation of meeting for both parties and made the actual encounter much more exciting! :p

I've had this type of discussion several times since I began my career as an SP. Opinions have always varied across the board just as they do here but one thing has remained constant, at least for me, and that is...there is no set dress code for an SP. Anyone who has met me has most likely realized within the first few minutes in my company that I'm a very casual, laid back kinda gal. Generally, I don't dress up for my in calls. Don't get me wrong, I'll never open the door wearing ketchup stained rags with my hair in rollers but I won't be professionally coiffed in a ballgown either. I tend to wear something comfortable that I'd wear every day. I'm a jeans and T-shirt girl. Sometimes a sporty track suit or sports bra and tight yoga pants. Unless my visitor has made a special request, I rarely wear anything fancier than that. I do however pay special attention to what I'm wearing underneath. ;) Matching bra and panties is a must for me. Some may poo-poo me for my wardrobe choices but, in my opinion, if my gentleman caller has an ideal image in mind, I trust that he'll vocalize it beforehand. Inviting a stranger into your home can be very unnerving as can being that stranger entering into the woman's home. I feel that a nervous man, especially a neophyte hobbyist, may be a little intimidated by a SP with a skin tight dress and spike heels (for example). Outcalls are a little different. Granted I very rarely offer outcalls unless it's for a gentleman I've already built a rapport with. It's a safety issue for me. When discussing the specifics of the date, I always ask if they have a preference in regards to my attire right down to how they'd like my hair. Just like when RSVPing to any party, I inquire about the dress code. To answer the question about how I like my men to dress... I like them comfortable. As long as the package inside is clean, I don't give a rat's patootie what the wrapping looks like. Just do me a favor and please try to not look prettier than me. :p

'm only finding this post now. :( Thank you so much. Would it be a terrible inconvenience to re-post or move it to my recommendation thread? http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=L&t=132839

I've been contemplating whether or not I should add my 2 cents on the topic. I had pretty much decided to stay silent because I was afraid I'd be judged but then I realized that I really don't give a flying.... Let me elaborate. I've spent the past year and a half really getting to know myself. It was a laborious and surprising journey but at the end of it I found out that I like me. I have many wonderful qualities. I'm a good person. I respect myself as well as my body. I accept others as they are and don't judge them if they have beliefs or exercise practices that I personally don't feel comfortable adopting for myself. I've read mostly negative remarks about SPs who offer 15min sessions and the men who love them. If that's how they feel, fine. Nothing they say or feel will change the price of tea in my world nor will I lose sleep over it. At the end of the day my clients are happy and I have no problem looking myself in the mirror. As you may have guessed, I do offer 15 minute sessions. Granted, I don't offer them all the time because it's a pain in the rear to take the time to get freshened up and primped when the client probably won't really have time to notice that I look good. I only offer this option Mon-Fri from 10am - 2pm. The clients who request this option are looking for some sexual attention under the radar so they come see me during their lunch break. The time it takes to drive to me and back to work afterwards uses up a good percentage and stopping quickly to actually pick up something to eat takes up even more. How much time is left for hanky panky? About 15 minutes I'd guess. In my experience, it's rarely about money as was suggested earlier in the thread. In my opinion, these comments were completely uncalled for. I take great pride in what I do and I do it well. I can and have given quite amazing quickie sessions. I have a considerable amount of respect for myself as well as for my body and I would never be found on a corner. As for getting what you pay for, I've had clients tell me that I gave them a much more satisfying experience than they've had elsewhere and I did it in half the time or less. Granted the quickies are nothing compared to a full session but they do have their place in our community. One last thing... I'm curious. This reads as if to say unless you've been "trained" by agency (and I'm not familiar with this training. My old agency didn't offer any classes) you aren't an escort. If this is indeed what you were trying to convey then what are these un-trained ladies to call themselves? I have so much more to say on the subject and about the comments that have been posted. However, in the interest of peace I'll digress but before I do I'd just like to ask everyone to please remember that we're all human beings with our own unique thoughts, ideas and preferences. Suggesting or making insinuations about another's character based on how much time they decide to spend with a SP or on a SP for offering options/services that you don't feel comfortable offering (or for any reason) is just plain not right. Afterall..... We cum dumpsters have feelings too! :icon_mrgreen:

Thanks for the mention and the compliment! And yes I do accommodate smoking fetish....and rather enjoy it!

I can definitely relate. I've had experiences on the job, both positive and negative, that I really wished I could have shared with someone. Although I have opened up to 1 or 2 close friends about my "other life", I don't go into detail about any of it with them because I can see that they aren't comfortable with it. Luckily, I've found a few clients that I sometimes chat back and forth with through text messages. I can share my stories with them and they can tell me theirs as well. It's great and really helps with the feelings of isolation one can get. Have you ever thought of joining one of the social groups here on CERB? They're great for meeting people with similar interests... Hey, if you're ever dying to talk to someone, you can always PM me. I'm always interested in hearing a good story! :p

I was waiting to cross the street at a busy intersection downtown. I looked across the street and recognized a client waiting on the other side. He noticed me too. When the light changed we passed each other and seeing as we were both alone, smiled and nodded at each other and continued on our merry ways. The next day, he texted me and booked an appointment. ;)

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=132839 I volunteer. :p

I fit that description perfectly. I'm only 5'0" tall. Check out my albums and if you like what you see, pm me.