I posted about this last year, as Claraydeb (for which the password's been lost and the site's password retrieval system isn't working, hence the new account.)
In 2012, after about 10 years away from hobbying, I was stunned and delighted to find kissing/lfk/dfk to be on many menus.
A few months ago I was flabbergasted to be with a provider who let me CIM.
I always thought there were certain limits that would never be broken, CIM certainly being one of them. Certainly a provider would NEVER do that. Now several do.
Now I'm thinking again, and wondering what will change next.
There's really only one limit these days - using a condom for vaginal sex.
That will NEVER change. Right?
And yet...
I think it will, one day. I think one day they will invent a spermicidal cream that's 99.9% effective at blocking babies and STD's. And when that happens, we'll see providers offer sex without a condom.
I don't really know what will happen of course. I've just seen things that were unheard of and non-negotiable, become part of today's experience.