mister_crufty

You're in luck. The 2013 edition of the 'Duo List' is right here.

Walk Off the Earth is absolutely ridiculous...I love their version of Little Boxes too. Such a talented group.

What an interesting song. Really not what I expected when I first saw the images on the video. It's got this dreamy quality but the low bass kick kind of hits you in the chest even with just headphones. I want to put this through my big system at really high volume. It kind of builds and develops as it goes on too...that seems to be a common quality of goosebump songs...they've got to sort of climb...take it to a climax. Like sex. Thanks for sharing.

You ladies are all going into my little black book. :-) Now I'm wondering about double pen (or its closest equivalent) for men. I've always enjoyed things up my ass but never had anyone else do it to me. As some of the ladies above have commented...orgasms with something in your ass are ridiculous. I'm not sure how it would work logistically but I imagine legs in the air, one lady with a strap on and maybe another lady in 69? I mean, there's lots of ways for two guys to get on a girl but I'm not sure of the other way around simply because the guy getting pegged would also have to be thrusting at the same time. I guess it's time to do some online research. To the Porn Cave!!

It's amazing to me how quickly my views are changing after such a short time on this site. I was a pretty conservative, vanilla kind of guy who had never really considered anything more that straight up guy-girl sex. Maybe it's seeing everyone being so open about different things but I find myself actively fantasizing about things like this. FMF isn't much of a stretch for most guys I guess but I'm finding myself thinking things like, "Another guy in the bedroom helping me work over a hot lady? Why not? Bring it on." I think it's more like I'd love to help fill someone's fantasies than an active fantasy of my own if that makes sense? Like, I don't fantasize about it for my own pleasure but more because it might totally rock some ladies world. Does that sound weird? Especially providers. I wonder if maybe they can get a little jaded...seen it all, most encounters are kind of ho-hum with the occasional great one thrown in. I don't know if that's the reality but I kind of fantasize about being the great one. The surprise. I've sometimes SPs comment that I look different than they expected so I guess there might be a feeling about what the encounter will be like before it happens. So you book a couple date and show up on a providers door with another super hot guy or girl and just try to rock her world. Give her an experience to remember. I'm not talking about some sort of ambush by the way...obviously it would all be discussed in advance...I'm just talking about trying to REALLY exceed expectations. Starting to think I don't have any of my own kinks or obsessions or desires...I want to learn what the other persons wants and then deliver that to them. Turning people on is a huge rush. It's a great avenue for imagination and creativity. So double pen, hells yeah. Giddy-up. It was only Ghostbusters where you weren't supposed to cross the streams but they did in the end anyway and it all worked out right?

But...but...I had just made some popcorn that I was going to eat while I sat back to enjoy the flame-war. Dammit Kubrickfan...why do you have to ruin all the fun? ;-) :-D "Can we all just get along?" - Rodney King

Some great ones up there, especially some of the "breakup songs". Brought to mind a story of teenage love. A friend of mine had just been dumped by his girlfriend and was feeling really down and we just sat there listening to sad songs while he had a good cry. The one that really got us both was . We both bawled our eyes out.

I know there's a few song threads out there but a friend and I were discussing songs that really give you a chill...hair rising on the back of your neck, goosebumps, etc. I think everyone has a few. One of hers was . I've got two that I can think of off the top of my head. . and . That one really hits me because I grew up sailing Lake Superior and remember how vicious the storms can be. Knowing first hand the terror of being in a small boat in a bad storm makes the song that much more chilling. The sea has no mercy.

That is a fabulous policy that I wish more people (including myself) would follow. Reminds me of this XKCD strip.

Well, as someone who has been accused of trolling when I wasn't trying to do anything of the sort, I definitely understand how easy it is to be misunderstood in writing. I'm often a bit of a harsh arguer and can be a real pit bull with words, treating discussions as a competitive sport. I recently was involved in a thread about responsibility where I felt that I did something very different from my normal pattern. I tried to be very gentle with my arguments, posing alternative viewpoints and information rather than attacking the other person. I can't take credit because many others were involved but I feel it really came out well and that many people in the discussion came to understand each others views much better than before they started. When I read this article and looked back at that thread, I saw many of the patterns he discussed and how effective they could be.

This! Even more than us guys, the women probably gain so much more in terms of safety and knowledge from other providers. I love the fact that there is an SP only area here for the women to share tips and warnings. I really worry about some of the scary dudes out there. I know the REALLY dangerous ones are somewhat rare and hopefully fairly easy to avoid but you read the news... I've met so many lovely women here and I hate to think of something happening to any of them. Keep safe ladies.

I hope you don't lose faith because I think what you're doing is important. I've fallen victim to a couple situations where the experience was DRASTICALLY different from what I expected and it really sucks. I'm kind of a timid guy and I don't really have the experience yet to know what to do in that situation. I'm one of those guys who paid anyway but just because I didn't know what else to do. Having seen some of these responses I know in the future to just walk away but having a board like this which has integrity and standards is incredibly useful. I'd rather avoid the disappointment and confrontation in the first place. It's not easy to take the high road but I believe there will always be a market for a quality product. Your key differentiator is the standards you enforce and without those, your site would be no different than any other.

I've been a big computer geek for 30 years but believe it or not, this is the first online forum I've ever been a part of. Probably explains some of my early growing pains. What I've found here is far more than just information but a true sense of community. I get the feeling that many members are close friends who care deeply about each other, even if they've never met in real life. I've only been here for a month or so and to some extent, I already feel deeply a part of this place. There are familiar faces, people whom I recognize and when I see they've made a new post, I rush to read it because I know that there's going to be some new piece of wisdom or humor to enjoy. And people know me too. I've never been popular or one to stand out in a crowd but here, many people actually know who I am. I certainly wouldn't claim to be popular here (perhaps the opposite for some) but certainly some people seem to like me and enjoy what I have to say and that feels pretty special. I'm sometimes hesitant to tell a lady my handle when I call her but I always do because I am what I am and there's no point trying pretend otherwise. CERB and the ladies I've met here have changed my life more than I could possibly describe. When I came here I was an early 40s unhappily married guy with emotional baggage, a big mouth, sexual insecurity, OCD and PE (although I rock the MSOG;-)). In many ways I'm still that same guy but because CERB accepts me just the way I am, I'm confident and comfortable in my own skin and I feel like I'm becoming a better man every day. Because we're all here and we all have our damage and we're none of us perfect. Feels a bit like family.

As someone who has made many newcomer mistakes in this community myself and been given a chance to learn from them, I would certainly vote for the second chance/forgiveness route.

Never mind her pictures....I'm just imagining her voice and accent in my head...OMG so hot...I LOVE UK accents. I think we Canadians sound a bit dorky to them unfortunately. ;-) Except for the Québécoise...yum!