First off -- WOW! Thanks for all the replies!
While I am discrete, I have no problem providing the information (name, number, etc.). I would expect no less and completely understand the safety issue. As I 'window shop' prior to my visit, I'll just do as others have suggested and contact the SPs well in advance. Maybe some will allow me the opportunity to prove that I'm a gentleman without references. :-)
Thanks again, all!