Well, I for one am grateful for the rage of opinions in this thread. For someone new to this experience the more I can hear of similar male experiences, and the observations and advice given by knowledgeable and sympathetic providers, helps greatly with the learning curve.
In light of the age issue/non issue, what of time limits for sessions? I have heard from some hobbyists that they choose only a hh session for an initial meet, then increase to an h on a return visit. I understand the strategy, but what is the view of the SP? Do you agree with this "game plan", should most of us adopt this approach. What if I mentioned in an initial contact text that a hh would be a great opportunity to see if there is some chemistry? Is this considerate, goofy, insulting or just annoying?
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