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I'm sorry I have to weigh in on this. I think you need to consider the other side of the coin on this issue. Many guys have expectations about certain things during an encounter. I'll use kissing as an example because it's easy. I understand that kissing may be important to you. I do not post a menu for reasons discussed ad nausea but I encourage gentlemen to ask for things that are important to them. So I get a PM asking my restrictions which I gladly answer. Then I get a follow up asking "ok so kissing is ok?" What should I say. I can say yes (and I have) but the guy comes in and hasn't done what he needs to do to get kissed (hygiene is huge obviously). When I don't kiss he gets upset as he specifically asked for kissing. He isn't wrong but I now have to explain ymmv. Is it not easier to just respond "kissing is sexy but it is ymmv"? Especially if the gentleman isn't a seasoned hobbyist? Just my opinion

I don't dance regularly these days but I do go often enough to wonder how this is a thread. Am I right in reading this as looking for anyone to come talk or are guys wondering how to get a certain girl to talk to them? I don't want to sound short or belittle the connection dancers and clients form but let's be honest here - girls are there to make money. It is in their interest to talk to everyone. I think we develop a spider sense when it comes to species but that doesn't mean we don't try as many guys as we can. I think. Maybe that's just me? I will NOT talk to you if - you're incredible drunk - you're being aggressive - you're talking to another girl or another girl has just left That's about it. Guys in suits don't always spend money and louts who so manual labor aren't all cheap. What awful stereo types. Hope nobody's experienced them.

I love to spend. I spent a long time making do so now that I'm in a position where I have everything I need and some put away I enjoy myself. My past taught me I don't need a lot to be happy so I see lots of things as treats lok

I would think that 50% is high. However, I think this is an issue that needs to be discussed. You won't have chemistry with everyone. I'm not going to lie and say every time I see someone it's amazing. Chemistry is very important. I suggest sending a few notes to anyone you're interested in, personalities show more in PMs than advertisements. Recs are important but not a huge deal in my opinion, every experience is different. Worst case scenario you meet a girl and you guys don't have an awesome connection - it doesn't have to be a huge disappointment. It never hurts to communicate with her. You might find she doesn't want to disappoint you and is playing it safe. You never know. Be clean. Be respectful. Communicate. You'll get good results. Promise. :)

I had no idea that was the case. The dancer in me has to know - what do they do instead?

Ice cream! Summer here yet?

Hey guys! It's that time again! Looking to have some gang bang fun which means I will need 4-5 lovely gentlemen to help get me off :smile: This will take place on Thursday March 6th at 3:30pm. I have no decided on location yet but it will either be Queen/Kent or Coventry/417. The rate will be $180 for about an hour (we sometimes go a little over). Important: I have tried organizing these in the past with mixed results. As a result I unfortunately have to change the way I do this. If I have not seen you or you do not have a great reference from a well known SP I will need a 50% deposit. I'm sorry, I know it sucks but I had to do it :sad: Hopefully this is an opportunity to get some of your fantasies met. I know I love it and I always have a blast! If you need more information I can be reached on cerb or via text or call (I wont always answers calls, especially if I'm out) 613 415 5533 Insert shameless blog plug....go look at my blog! lol http://www.anonymous0slut.com

I only advertise on cerb. I was told my friends when I started that BP would not attract people whose company I would enjoy, I have no reason not to believe that with what I've read here. If cerb stops working for me I'll have to look at other alternatives but I like if here so I hope that doesn't happen :)

Homemade jam and salsa. It was so good though lol

For my 22nd birthday I did 22 acts of kindness. I honestly haven't told anyone about it lol I was kind of shy about it. Basically, I figured I was lucky to have made it twenty two years and I wanted to do one nice thing a year for that privilege. I wrote then all down in a book somewhere but I don't have it anymore :( what I loved about planning it was that I made sure that everything I did was free or close to it. I didn't have much extra money then and most of what I saw online required money. It was challenging but so rewarding to find ways to do the most with what I had. So what did I do.. I bought a beer for the town drunk, paid for a candy bar for the clerk to give to the next kid that came in, left change in a school yard, wrote a letter to someone that influenced me to thank them, send a handmade craft ( it was a sign with a pretty quote) to a random person out of the phone book she ended up being in a nursing home. I baked for neighbours and cleaned my ex's car etc I was out if town this year and super busy with work but I regret not doing it again. I want to make it a tradition

I should add this is when a guy is obviously being rude on purpose.

What is the one piece if advice you wish someone had given you when you started hobbying ?

Both. It depends on my mood. I usually ignore but occasionally my smart ass comes out.

You go in my book. This year I'm super organized with my cute pink agenda. At the back of said agenda I have two lists "don't see" and " probation". No call no show? Don't see. Simple. Lol Word gets around about who makes ncns a pattern as well so that helps. It's frustrating and one of the only things I hate about this type of business

Oh my goodness that made me laugh. What an awful position to be in! My face would have been ten shades of red lol