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Emily... the best! But, where is she??? I know she said she was going to be less available, but a total deprivation of her can be hazardous to anyone's health! If anybody knows something, would you share? (like, when is she planning to come back to availability).

Thanks guys! Especially xmy556! I'm sold and look forward to this... Don't worry, I never have an attitude with the people who hold the syringes, heh...

Hi there... I was told that the 9 circles clinic is one of the more convenient ways to get oneself checked for HIV/STI, but upon reading their website, I'm not sure I want to have one of those "educational" sessions as if I was a clueless teenage boy... does anybody here goes there for testing? And if so, do you have to go through this (not optional)? In short, what should I expect from my visit? (I have an appointment already). Cheers!

With the damn heat we're having (yes, I prefer winter over this hell!), I was wondering how many of us like to have sweaty sex, and how many don't. Since I always sweat when I'm having fun, I can say I love to exchange some moist with my partner (not drench, but enough to feel it in your hands). Unfortunately, sweating glands in ladies seem to usually be less easy to excite than in us guys, but if I can make my girl sweat, I love it! (and in this weather, it may be easier to do). What about you? :rockyou:

I will venture and say that you find them on the streets.

... I would like to ask you: What techniques do you use to put on the condom on us, specially if we're one of those shy guys who need a lot of TLC to get a hard on? Or do you put it on when it's still flacid and then work on helping getting the erection? I'm asking because I'm curious, because I'm one of those guys, and I have never been with a SP who doesn't provide BBBJ (and I'm dying to meet one with this restriction, but I'm too nervous about all this). Thanks!

Judging by your pictures, NOTHING you could wear would be boring or look unoriginal, even if it had money signs, rainbows and/or unicorns.

Is tax season!

Thanks fortunateone! I wasn't expecting such a detailed reply, so this is a great surprise. You are absolutely right: This is not a race, or a job to be done, and I try to enjoy the session as such, my problem is not that I REALLY want a second shot to happen, but that the need to cum a second time starts to build up, let's say, from the minute 40 and on. If the session would end at the minute 39, I would be a happy camper, but once we start touching each other, and kissing and stuff... well, I just want to finish again, but my body doesn't lol. But your recommendations seem VERY logical, so I will take heed of them and let you know how it went. Now, I need to find a local SP with whom to practice this, because I've only seen touring ladies so far, so I can't repeat with any of them... :/

I was wondering if anybody here would have suggestions as to what to do in order to improve recuperation time to be able to have a second shot in the same session. I've been with 5 SPs already and have never been able to do more than one shot. I would consider myself a 1-shot-guy if it wasn't that with the SO I can easily do it twice in 1 hour or less. One of the culprits of my situation, I know, is the use of the condom. With the SO I don't use one, and everytime I'm with an SP, as soon as the hat comes on, my little guy starts to shrink to the point that I have to make sure that the time lapse between putting on the hat and the penetration is minimal (once inside, I get hard again and experience no problems)... but the second time, I can get hard again fairly easily, but as soon as the hat coms on, is like putting salt to a snail (without the grossness, of course - lol). This is not a life and death issue, but I would really like to be able to finish a second time, and not been left with the sensation that I would like to finish, or having the SP finish me with a HJ. So, especially you beautiful SPs, any ideas?

Can you guys tell me if you felt the session was "scripted", or did it feel natural? Does she let you improvise or are you supposed to follow her lead? I'm very interested in her. Thanks!

Cassie (lesiren): A recommendation. I visited Cassie a couple of weeks ago. That was my first SP ever and I had been looking for recommendations in these forums (CERB and PERB) but I have seen her ad first in BP and then I found more info in EC, and finally, after texting her, she gave me her website address where I could find her rates, services, etc. Strangely, I had more recommendations for other SPs but I really liked her pics (gotta be honest here, her face reminded me of an old girlfriend I had) so I guess I became stubbornly struck by her pics and so I wanted to convince myself that she was the one to pop my pooner-cherry (lol). I had some problems booking with her, but they were not her fault, and she seemed genuinely worried and upset at this, so we started emailing back and forth more until finally the day arrived when I actually got to see her in her apartment. She has a place near downtown, close to Broadway Ave. Easy to find and the parking is not too bad. I buzzed her and she let me in the building (nice, decent apartments) up to her place. When she opened the door I was nervous as hell, and seeing her beautiful face, I just wanted to kiss her, but I controlled myself. She wasn't wearing anything overtly seductive, and that's OK for me, I wanted to see her as an old acquaintance and not as a seductress, if you know what I mean. Small chat in her living room and then she started to the bedroom. I should have taken a drink before visiting because I really was freaking nervous. I've had some personal issues during those days and in retrospection I should have waited some time to see her, but I really wanted to just get this over with (seeing an SP) and that was my mistake. She took off her shirt revealing two beautiful, big tits (I have no idea how to measure them, but they were big) and after a while we started kissing, caressing and I went down sucking her nipples while gently playing with her pussy with my fingers. She liked it that I was being gentle, so after a while I went down to the Y and started licking her lips and sucking her clit, which she seemed to like (she was wet, and then wetter after a while). Her taste was delicious, I really like to dine there, so I probably spent quite some time doing that, and she was moaning at the end very nicely. I was hard at that point. (She did asked me to not use my fingers IN her, in case you're wondering, not a big deal for me). After that, she put me on my back and that's when my problem started. I wasn't able to keep it hard! LOL. Normally I have no problems with that, but the pause between the DATY and her turn to work on me turned on my brain in a self-conscious way that didn't help my erection. That sucked... but she did too! In a good way. She started sucking my limp dick (it was only half way limp) and soon I was hard again. Yeah, that was a BBBJ, one of the best I've had. I remember her teeth gently scratching my dick in a deliciously devious way. I'm not a "big guy", but I'm thick enough, so maybe that's why this happened, but I loved it. I could have cum in her mouth right there, but I assumed, after reading these forums, that such thing is a no-no unless you discuss it before, so I held myself until I couldn't do it anymore and asked her to put on a condom on it so I could get inside her. She did (I brought my condoms, but she used one of hers - one of those things I don't know about pooning, I guess) and that pause again (putting on the condom and deciding what position was best to use) killed me. The condom part was what I dreaded and proved to be my fall. I never used condoms at home, you know, so I'm out of practice, plus nervous, then... oh well. Extra points to Cassie for patiently trying, but it soon proved obvious that I was going to have a problem with the condom, so she focused her attention on making me cum by using her mouth and hands while I played with her beautiful tits. She really relaxed me, asked me to close my eyes, but I didn't wanted to, I wanted to see her. She's not a spinner (I love that description I've read here, it makes me laugh), but not a BBW either. When I felt like cumming I asked her to kiss me and cumming that way was awesome. I was exhausted, and she must have been to, just by using her hands and mouth so much. I was a little disappointed that I didn't got a chance to penetrate her, but who knows, maybe I'll visit her again once I get my shit together and maybe can overcome my nervousness. She cleaned me up with a wet warm towel, and chatting as if we've known each other from before, I loved that. I'm usually very talkative, but I figured I was acting a little moronic (rookie). I thanked her for everything and by that time it had been 90 minutes since I had arrived. She didn't rushed me, or hinted me that it was time to go, but I didn't wanted to overstay, so I got dressed (she offered me at that point her shower, but that would have meant overstaying and I didn't want that). Five more minutes of chatting, a very warm goodbye kiss, and I was out the door. Now, after reading my own review (which I asked her if it was OK for me to do), I feel like trying my luck one more time with her. Maybe knowing now my problems we can go around them and I can finally penetrate that beautiful, tasty, and apparently tight pussy of hers. Do I recommend her? Hell yes. Before I went to her I read all kinds of reviews, most where from "uneventful" to bad, but I also read a couple that mentioned what I nice lady she was, and those were from guys with a lot of comments in their belts, you know, regular forum users. That's what I used to convince myself to give her a chance, and I'm glad I did. As a lady, she is top notch. If I hadn't had those nervous issues that time, I'm sure I would have been 1000% satisfied. But, like I said, there's always time to try again (and if I do, I'll come back with my new tale). Please overlook that this may be my first post. I know some will be suspicious about it, but I can assure you I'm real (you can ask for my SIN, driver's license and my credit card info, if you like, lol). What I wrote may not be what all of you are looking for, but I felt that the truth should be known about Cassie, and that is that: 1. She is beautiful in person. 2. She is a very nice lady. 3. She really puts an effort when things are not going the right way. What more can someone ask? (That was a rhetorical question, ok?) Thanks for reading! P.S. I'm putting the same review in both the CERB and PERB forums because I've seen her discussed in both. Cheers!

I'm sure you'll get like 100 comments about how the rules of this forum don't allow them to comment on this SP (because, you know, you're not suppossed to say anything bad about them)...

Aaaaarrggghh... I just saw your ad in BP and tonight's your last night here! And I'm stuck at the office today, and pretty much tomorrow! When are you coming back? --sniff!

How do you guys would say is this different, other than the obvious lenght of the session? I mean, does it feel more rushed? is the SP usually more direct? Would you have a hh if you didn't have the cash handy, or would you rather wait for the whole hr? Or does it depend on the SP? What are your opinions?

Mmmh... I'm not sure how to describe it, is something I learned probably out of watching so many asian movies LOL. Is like the difference between an American and an English girl, or a German and a French... sorry I'm not very "descriptive"!

Thank you guys for the tips! I have spent enough time in the recommendations thread to have a better idea of what's out there, and I hope that you mean to say that as long as she's recommended there, she will be "nice" enough to be patient with a newbie like me. Anyway, if you have any more ideas for a rookie, please let me know! :))

I have a thing for Japanese girls, although Koreans come in close second and Chinese in third place... Cheers!

So guys, I've read a lot of your posts and I almost feel like I got to know some of the SPs you mention with high recommendations, but I would like to know, from your supreme experiences, who would you recommend for a first timer like me. In other words, if you were to go back in time to that first time you employed a SP, thinking about how nervous, wondering, and without a clue you were about what to expect and such, who do you think would be the best SP for such ocassion. I'm not really asking for the best SP experience you've had, but who do you think would make me feel relaxed enough to not screw it up too much on my first time with an SP. Thanks in advance!

I'm booking her this week for a first time, so I was wondering if anyone has had the pleasure of meeting her. ------ Busty Redhead-- --Sinfully Sweet!-- I'm new here, so I'm trying to follow the rules (PLEASE, let me know if I screw up!) - I don't need a full review of Cassie, just want to know if she's legit (not a fraud), that's it! She has an apartment by Broadway and Carlton.