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cgnex replied to WillingtoSpend's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Stripclubs & Dancers
Understand that dancers deal with cheap, creepy assholes all day long. My advice and golden rule? Don't be a cheap, creepy asshole. Be respectful, kind and clean. No matter what you seek, it will always be more enjoyable if you create an environment that is pleasant for everyone. I have been fortunate enough to meet many wonderful women who are intelligent, kind and beautiful; and happen to dance. Start with that and then proceed to question #4. Your mindset going in will determine what type of experience you seek. While I prefer some degree of connection that is heightened by intelligence and good conversation, others may be looking for specific physical features and a quick grind. Depending on your mindset, specific guidelines will vary widely but are less important than mindset and respect. -
cgnex started following Jayda @ Barefax, How to keep thing â??professionnalâ?� yet still connect, Hypnosis? and and 5 others
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When I noticed her she was sitting by the stairs but she wasn't there the entire time. I have no idea regarding name and she did not go on stage while I was there. There were a LOT of dancers working last night! Does my description make sense? Straight hair Wasn't long.
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I was at the fax last night. There was a dancer with whom I did not have an opportunity to engage in conversation. I was with a group and had to leave shortly after I noticed her. I'm hoping someone might know her name and when she works. She was on the short side, curvy, busty, straight Brown hair. I understand that is a very generic description :) She was dressed unconventionally - quite conservatively - skirt, some kind of sweater over a tank top. Was laid back and not aggressive in approaching customers. Any chance that rings a bell for someone?
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What a jerk. I appreciate cuties of all colours and find the fax is blessed with some terrific cocoa-coloured ladies. I hate to think that some wonderful ladies may move on because of one narrow minded complaint. Speaking of which, any Jayda sightings? . I think I may have seen the infamous kilt boy yesterday afternoon. I mean, does anyone else actually wear a kilt to a strip club?
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Kilt boy, any news regarding Jayda's return? I lost her number (damaged phone) and would appreciate any updates. Thanks!
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He said "erotic hypnosis". That very clearly makes this the ideal place to make such an inquiry. I have noticed You have a pattern of getting into arguments because you don't pay attention and then go off on self-important tangents related to a far removed conversation you mostly have with yourself. Let. it. Go.
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I had the pleasure of meeting Malaysia on her very first shift at the fax. I believe I was her first customer. She is special and I was equally impressed when I spent time with her. She is beautiful, bright, happy, seductive and intelligent; all qualities I find very desirable. Kiana was also there on Friday.
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With all due respect, I don't think that's what most people are suggesting. It's certainly not what I said. When I go to a club, I fully expect to spend and it is a luxury that I enjoy. I previously stated that I don't care about the $5. I am generous and tip, so that's not the point. Your frustrations about customers are valid, I just don't see how they fit this conversation about a silly tax that does not go to the dancer. The $5 is insignificant but they've made it an issue by associating it with something the customer doesn't value; a song counter. It would be like Costco charging me $5 at the door for the person that checks my receipt. It doesn't serve anyone and it's not enough money To Significantly change the club's business model. If you want to suggest higher per song rates, higher drink rates, I'd be okay with all of that because it is a luxury to me. Dances and drinks are things I value. To Meg's point, of course they can make any decision they want. That doesn't make it a good decision . I run a business and while it's not a strip club, I certainly don't go out of my way to highlight administrative tasks, create negative experiences for insignificant amounts of money, then yell at my customers for being cheap and tell them I can do whatever I want because I'm the owner. If they want to draw better dancers, then charge more per song and get them paid. If they want to renovate the club and create an upscale club, then add an extra$2 per drink and increase cover charges. They need to figure out what they are trying to accomplish.
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Agreed. As I said, I'm not concerned about the $5. It's the principle. All this was caused by a few small isolated cases of overcharging. This lead them to create an entire system that makes customers feel taken advantage of while also fostering potential conflict between dancer and client over who pays. Terrible business practice that wasn't well thought out.
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I figured. Thanks for the confirmation. I had her number but accidentally deleted it a long time ago. She was inconsistent with hours and clubs, so I had hoped she was still around and we weren't crossing paths.
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An ebony dancer named Asia used to dance at the barefax. Curvy. Anyone know if she is still dancing? I haven't seen her in a year or more.
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She works a mix of days and nights. It can vary but Tuesday nights, Thursday days are consistent. Almost always works Fridays but can vary between days and nights, sometimes both.