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  1. I did find this link as a local recommendation. I also believe I saw a reco on her from a local gent but I can't seem to find it. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=651725&postcount=5
  2. To anyone who has followed my blog, I just want to say thank you. Due to circumstances unknown, my blog was deleted. I am in the process of re-creating, however, it will be a slow process as I posted daily for many years. Hope to perhaps see you back as things progress *muah*
  3. After three years of running my blogs and loving my content, they mysteriously got deleted in the last while. So now everything is gone and I have to start from scratch. Le *sigh*
  4. Want to send a few hugs today to those dealing with a lot ion their lives in different ways. Lady Sophia NSguy76 OldDog Warped88 And to anyone else who just needs one....I have plenty, take all you need!
  5. Wow, another industry anniversary coming up. I love looking back and thinking about all the pleasure and the smiles that I have enjoyed while spending time with amazing people. Thank you to those who have allowed me to touch, taste and indulge my desires. Speaking of which, my energy is humming with need of sensual indulgences and I have availability next week to unleash it. I'm hoping there might be a few ravenous souls ready for a little worship and pampering willing to be my partner in desire. I'm soft, I'm warm and I kiss like fire; come feel my flame. Available Monday - Wednesday. See http://rawr4u.com for more details
  6. When I first started out, I started small with massage and was nervous because I was outside the "norm" in Halifax. As things progressed, I relaxed into myself, found what felt right to me and embraced the fact I loved what I did. Now I usually only get nervous with those who don't do a lot of communicating prior as I never know their level of knowledge of who I am or if they will be a "quiet" one (silence is disconcerting to me). Beyond that it's more anticipation and eagerness to learn, explore and connect.
  7. I have always lived by the old adage that age is just a number. I have known people who were young at 80 and old at 25. What really ages someone is their outlook and attitude; their energy shifts with their thoughts. I enjoy my age and have earned every one of my years; many the hard way so fully embrace my age. Many think I'm younger looking and I won't complain about that. I have chosen to do this because I enjoy it and feel I have something wonderful to give. I bring myself honestly to the table and that includes my age. The way I see it, each person participating is an individual with an idea of who they want to see and what they're looking for so there is someone for everyone.
  8. Warm rainy days like this conjure all sorts of connected activities, both in bed and out. Why not stop by and catch up with all the sexy you've been missing and see where it "leads' you. http://midnite-energies.tumblr.com/
  9. I generally live in the moment and take every compliment with a swell of joy. My mind is so busy that my motto is "I may forget what you said but I'll never forget how you made me feel". I always remember those who made me feel something and think of them even when they're not around. I am thankful and blessed for that.
  10. [URL]https://www.lifesitenews.com/blogs/prostitution-porn-and-abortion-three-sides-of-the-same-coin[/URL] Sept. 25, 2015 ([URL="http://www.lifesitenews.com"]LifeSiteNews[/URL]) - Never in human history has there been a time in which the buying and selling of human flesh, in one form or another, has been more prevalent. Human trafficking is the fastest growing criminal industry in the world. Pornography depicting the brutalization of women and girls is among the most popular material on the Internet. And abortion, the financed destruction of tiny human beings developing in the womb, claims the lives of almost 42 million pre-born children each year. The first time I fully realized how dehumanizing the â??sex tradeâ? is was when I was a teenager, walking through the streets of Amsterdam with a student group from my school to visit the Church of Our Lord in the Attic, a hidden house church from the 1600s. What our teachers had not realized when they planned the tour, however, is that we had to cut directly through the infamous Red Light District in order to get there. As they rushed us down the cobblestone streets with more than a little panic, we gaped at an utterly foreign sight: Rows and rows of windows with scantily clad women, their fatigue painted over with thick layers of makeup and mechanical [I]come-hither[/I] smiles, standing there. Like meat packages at a butcher shop, I remember thinking. Even the â??souvenirâ? shops sold only human body partsâ??postcards featuring only breasts or bottoms, nothing else. A human meat marketâ??one brothel owner even compared the tourists viewing the girls to men deciding which pizza to order. More than 60% of the girls and women who work there report getting sexually assaulted. We have created a commodity culture, with one trend played out over and over again: Objectification leads to dehumanization. Dehumanization leads to victimization. The same thing struck me when traveling in Hungary earlier this year. My cousin and I arrived in Budapest from Belgrade at four in the morning and climbed into a taxi to find a hostel. The driver soon took us to a less than reputable area of the city in search of an establishment that still had rooms available. I wondered, stupidly, why there were so many young girls still walking about, even though it was dark and the sun was not even stirring. And then our taxi pulled up to a stop sign, and I made eye contact with one of them. Her blue eyes were flat and emotionless. She was very young, and very pretty. She wore a light black jacket with a fur fringe, and painted-on pants that must have hurt to walk in. She must have been freezingâ??it was so ice-cold that every short breath came out in a puff of steam. An older woman, lounging against an abandoned storefront, barked something at her that I didnâ??t understand, and jerked her head towards me. She started to walk over to the car, gesturing at me and then to herself. And thatâ??s when I realized that sheâ??d been told to find out if I was a potential customer. I felt quite sick as we drove away, although I was naïve to be so surprised. Budapest, after all, is a sex tourist destination, an Eastern European Bangkok. Iâ??d read about it. Iâ??d just never come face to face with the realityâ??a girl who should have been in school, selling herself to strangers at the orders of others. Those who defend legalized prostitutionâ??although the differences between legal and illegal prostitution are fewâ??defend it in much the same way that other horrible practices are defended. â??Prostitution advocates often use the word â??choice,â??â? as Benjamin Nolot of Exodus Cry, an anti-human trafficking organization, noted in his documentary [I]Nefarious: Merchant of Souls[/I]. [I]Choice[/I] is a sacred word in a culture that worships individualism, and there is no cap on the number of lives that can be sacrificed to it. Joyce Arthur of the Abortion Rights Coalition of Canada, herself a former stripper, [URL="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHab4-aFUdw"]occasionally takes time off[/URL] from promoting abortion to advocate for the legalization of prostitution. â??I see a lot of similarity between the issues,â? she says. â??Choice, my body is my own, autonomy, and all those good things.â? It should surprise no one that somebody who trumpets the destruction and misery of abortion should also laud an industry that specializes in the degradation of all those who engage with it. After all, this is the same Joyce Arthur who defended Planned Parenthoodâ??s dealing in baby parts as a good thing, and even said that Canadian mothers, too, could offer to donate the dismembered body parts of their pre-born children to be used for research. With abortion, as with human trafficking, the pattern is the same: Humans are the sum of their parts, and humans are only valuable in so far as the monetary value of their bodies. Human bodies only serve the purpose of being useful to others. Dr. Mary Anne Layden, who researches the links between pornography and human trafficking, [URL="https://www.lifesitenews.com/blogs/fighting-porn-isnt-anti-sex-its-profoundly-pro-sex-and-pro-woman"]put it this way[/URL]: â??This is a business and I think that a lot of pimps would stop doing this if there wasnâ??t any money involved, but itâ??s a business and as soon as you tell somebody itâ??s a product, as soon as you say this [is] something you buy, then this is something you can steal. Those two things are hooked. If you can buy it, you can steal it, and even better if you steal it because then you donâ??t pay for it. So the sexual exploitation industry, whether itâ??s strip clubs or prostitution or pornography, is where you buy it. Sexual violence is where you steal it â?? rape and child molestation and sexual harassment is where you steal it. So these things are all seamlessly connected. There isnâ??t a way to draw a bright line of demarcation between rape and prostitution and pornography and child molestation. There are not bright lines of demarcation.â? And when the intentionally sterile sex occasionally results in the production of a child, most pimps and rapists immediately avail themselves of the happy-to-help abortion industry. The motherâ??s body, in their mind, is only useful to serve the sexual needs of paying customers, not to nurture with love and tenderness the tiny, fragile body of her son or daughter. The sexual exploitation industries sell the bodies of women and girls to men, and the abortion industry waits patiently to destroy the unwanted sons and daughters of victims and rapists. Sometimes, they can sell the body parts of those sons and daughters to research firms. All body parts are put to good use. The market gods are happy. A culture without morals meets capitalism without ethics, and what we have created is a commodity culture. Pornography dehumanizes women for a mass audience, and human trafficking and prostitution allows men to play out their fantasies in real life. When I interviewed anti-sex trafficking activist and Member of Parliament Joy Smith, she told me that pimps use todayâ??s pornography to groom their victims into accepting assaultâ??and that in studies done of johns, huge numbers of them report using prostitution so that they can live out fantasies they would never try on â??real women.â? And the abortionists, of course, can take care of any resulting children, since they are not, in the eyes of our culture, â??real children.â? Commodity culture, with one trend played out over and over again: Objectification leads to dehumanization. Dehumanization leads to victimization. Itâ??s because our materialist society no longer believes in the soul. Theyâ??ve forgotten that we are not a body, we are a soul that has a body. Indeed, it is the soul that comes up time and time again when those who have been involved in the exploitation industries struggle to explain the depth and brutality of the damage that has been done. â??Every time I sold myself, I felt like I was selling my soul,â? said one former prostitute.â? No one understands â??the pain and destruction to a womanâ??s heart and soulâ? that is inflicted by the sex trade, explained Annie Lobert, a former sex worker. When I brought young women onto the porn sets, â??I watched their souls die,â? one former porn producer told me. Again and again, former victims and former perpetrators struggle to find words to describe the destruction our commodity culture has wrought, and time and time again they find themselves drawn to words that beckon towards the transcendent. They know, because they have felt the pain and the horror, that human beings are not simply two randomly-ordered bodies of flesh coming together for brief pleasure. We are so much more than that. We were not built for abuse and degradation, but for love and dignity. Many times throughout the history of humanity, we have forgotten these simple truths. And that is why, more than two hundred years after the great Christian abolitionist William Wilberforce triumphed in his battle against the slave trade, we are again fighting the same evils. We tossed out God and truth, and the pimps and flesh-peddlers came creeping back in. We announced that humans were simply animals, and human traffickers and pornographers obligingly treated them as such. We taught everyone that materialism explained everything, and that souls did not existâ??and the abortionists nodded and busied their tools to begin the work of dismembering and discarding the soulless clumps of cells we once recognized as our perfectly created sons and daughters. Things have never been perfect. Prostitution and infanticide are as old as time. But we used to recognize these things as awful practices that preyed on the most vulnerable, and sought to stamp them out. Now, we live in a culture that has abandoned the moral framework necessary to recognize transcendent concepts like the dignity of the human person, the sanctity of human life, and infinite preciousness of the human soul. It is when we begin to recognize these things that, through the human rubble and sex-driven carnage, we can begin to turn to a place where we realize that the value of a human being cannot be monetized, and that to try such a thing is an evil that spawns unstoppable wickedness.
  11. Hello and welcome. I believe many great things and much heart can be put into a few words so never feel you have to have verbal diarrhea lol. Be yourself and enjoy the site whether that be reading and being a voyeur or contributing. The important thing is to enjoy *muah*
  12. Welcome and congratulations on your new life experience. As has been said, there is a wealth of valuable information not only here but many other places. Many of the ladies have screening protocols on their websites or pages to give an idea of safety precautions and many would be happy to answer any questions you may have. Twitter is also a great resource for connecting to others and many of us are there. I have heard Montreal is a bit of a different beast in terms of the industry so finding someone to speak with locally would be a great step. Good luck and enjoy!!
  13. Welcome. There is definitely a lot of information and rules to get through but a lot of it will make sure your forays into dates will be as great as possible. Enjoy *muah*
  14. Have a magical joy filled birthday beautiful lady. May smiles follow you everywhere today.
  15. Happy Birthday sweetie. May your day be filled with joy and smiles and may someone spoil you in ways that have meaning! *muah*
  16. Awesome lady, great actress even a recording artist. Secret Diary was fantastic. Happy Birthday Billie and rock on Doctor Who!
  17. Meaghan, You don't have to worry about any viruses or anything. Gmail looks for certain validation points in every email sent via them however if an email is routed through another server, privacy sevice etc. Gmail can't authenticate the email and then gives a standard "this may not have been sent by" message. Nothing to be concerned about at all!
  18. I honestly don't think your present settings impact these. If they were held with whatever service we were using before, it's just now spitting them all out and clearing itself. If you look at the dates, it's all when they came through the service initially. Hopefully it will stop soon
  19. I assume this is a catch up from when notifications were offline. I've received 15 notifications so from all from March.
  20. Look! Your very own thread lol. Have a very special and wonderful birthday. I hope many smiles return to you today! *muah*
  21. Have yourself an amazing birthday. I hope you have many smiles and get a little spoiled! *muah*
  22. Even if I weren't sensitive I would pick a Sliquid product, they're the best of both worlds. As I said, I love Sassy and with just a little added water, it renews. It's thicker so it's great for any sort of play. Depends on your use. If you need for steady play, especially backdoor and condoms aren't an issue, go for a silicon or combo product. Little more to clean up but long lasting and slick. I tried a number of lines but found most lacking in some area. I've never had a problem with this one.
  23. The best lube ever is Sliquid. Paraben and glycerin free, great for anyone sensitive. They have water based, oil based and a combination. They also have washes, massage oils, warming lotions and clit stimulators. www.pinkcherry.ca usually has them on sale. Can't go wrong with this line. Sassy is my favorite.
  24. Mmmmm special hugs and licks for your birthday! Hope you have yourself an amazing day *muah*
  25. Following a number of people on various platforms and hearing the chatter and seeing some comments has got me thinking. The way the anti's and the government talk about us as workers and clients and describe us to the population at large especially with this new bill in place, seems to have had a noticeable impact on how workers are treated and how clients behave. I'm not saying this as a blanket statement about all but a definite increase. We knew it would cause harm yet there isn't a lot of chatter about the actual impact yet )beyond a few conversations). Our little community doesn't see a lot of this as the board doesn't allow it plus many are like minded people with a positive view of both workers and clients. Have you seen or heard instances where you see negative or bad behavior directly related to how people are being treated or a shift in how workers are being viewed by clients? Or have instances of this increased?
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