Midnite-Energies

[CENTER][B][COLOR=#660066][FONT=Helvetica]A bodacious full figured woman with a streak of fire, side of maturity and whole lotta rawr. I love those who are open, honest and can enjoy lifeâ??s moments as what is done with pleasure is never forgotten. I encourage laughter, passion & conversation and I urge you to take a moment for yourself, to enjoy my company; to be worshiped and pampered, discretely & honestly[/FONT][/COLOR][B][COLOR=#660099].[/COLOR][/B][/B] [IMG]http://40.media.tumblr.com/fadfc4de75d169491209a65439243af6/tumblr_nlvkpwY2EI1qgzs6bo1_1280.jpg[/IMG] [/CENTER] [CENTER][B][B][COLOR=#FF3399]My breath & fingers on your flesh tantalize you intimately. [/COLOR][/B][/B] [B][U][COLOR=#660066][FONT=Helvetica]Availability Change Effective July 1st[/FONT][/COLOR][/U][/B] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][B][COLOR=#FF3399]For those I have met (or will meet before July 1st)[/COLOR][/B][B][COLOR=#FF3399] [/COLOR][B][COLOR=#9966FF]Available daily 11am â?? 11pm[/COLOR][/B][/B][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][B][COLOR=#FF3399]For those I have not met or new to me[/COLOR][/B][B][COLOR=#FF3399] [/COLOR][B][COLOR=#9966FF]Available after 9pm ONLY[/COLOR][/B][/B] [B][B][COLOR=#9966FF] [/COLOR][/B][/B][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][B][COLOR=#660066][FONT=Helvetica]**Pre-book ONLY w/ min. of 4 hours notice** [/FONT][/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#FF3399]There is still time to meet me before these changes take effect[/COLOR][/B][/CENTER] [/CENTER]

If that's your experience then perhaps you are meeting the wrong providers. I know many who limit the number of clients, don't book back to back and allow time so they are not rushed. Who enjoy the time spent learning about someone and making the connection. If you are finding those who cannot remove their cell from the encounter, it may be time to adjust who and what you're looking for and do more research. It's sad that you question quality time.

Enjoy every moment of your special day. Hope you have many smiles and lots of laughter to show you how much your presence means.

Thank you beautiful Bianca for everything you add to this community. You have entertained, provided support and advice and shown us that you are one wonderfully powerful lady. Looking forward to much more!

Congratulations my friend on 8000 amazing posts. I'm sure anyone with a fancy to red heads has said thanks to you at one time or another. Not to mention everything else you do in the community. Thank you and looking forward to more *muah* :tongue:

Honestly, the only opinion that matters here is your own. You have to decide what you want from companionship and go from there. Some look for a connection so want a longer encounter (this can be both provider and client) and some are more about pleasure of the moment. If you prefer shorter encounters focused on pleasure alone, then you'll want to find someone who enjoys or caters to that as some do not. If you are looking for more, a connection, conversation, cuddling etc. than of course a longer appointment would fit the bill. Only you can determine what your needs are. Good luck with your search.

LYLA is a great place to not only research those you find interesting but to also learn a lot and have a little fun in some of the threads. Unlike BP and CL, there is a community here of like minded individuals and many of the ladies participate in the threads and chat room so they build a presence and aren't just fly by night. I would definitely read a few of the threads and stickies to learn about the rules of the site and also etiquette for contacting. This will give you a much better chance of having a good experience not only here but with whoever you choose to pursue. Good luck. Hope you find everything you're searching for.

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Gentlemen, many of you have your own distinctive experience with this lady and most have been good. Everything in this industry is variable mileage because it deals with people. Everyone can have an off day, an off encounter with the same person or even encounters that are polar opposites and this isn't just to speaking about client or provider but both. We always stress research and part of that is gathering all the information you can. Elias902 had an encounter that I'm sure at the time was rather stressful and upsetting. What he says is the truth of his experience, weighed against all the other experiences know that while things may be great, there is always that sliver to be aware of. Just because one or many had a certain kind of experience doesn't mean they all were the same. Everyone's input is valuable even if it is outside the norm. It all adds to research.

If you have an album (or set up one) you can set your album to private which means only your contacts and mods can see it. This can be done at any time. Go into your album and hit edit album and you'll see the options.

Ooooo a birthday. I hope you are treated special today and get to enjoy everything you love and enjoy (and then some). Have a wonderful day!

I have always admired you for your contributions as well as your screen name which is something near and dear to most parts of me. Congratulations and thank you for all you've done!

Wishing you the best birthday possible with all the things and people you love most!

Happy birthday beautiful lady. I hope you have many smiles today and are spoiled with love and goodness!

If you go into Customize Profile, edit options and scroll down, you'll find Enable images for reputation comments: make sure this is ticked off. If you do anything in here it automatically un-ticks it and you have to tick it again. That should solve your problem.

So having not read the books (I KNOW) and hearing all sorts of uproar over Sansa's storyline, how did it play out in the books since the show is taking a 90 degree turn?

[CENTER] [B][B][COLOR=#FF3399]... from A Bodacious Sensualist[/COLOR][/B][/B] [B][COLOR=#660066][FONT=Helvetica]A sweet tongue, a dirty mind, a playful heart and a loving soul are but a few of the things you will encounter when you escape to my hideaway. Reality fades and you become the center of attention. Your experience will unfold naturally, focused on your pleasure and gratification. [/FONT][/COLOR][/B] [IMG]https://41.media.tumblr.com/8026cc8c6f35c4b629ce735cddfb0b30/tumblr_noreqsLmPu1s7p5gio1_540.jpg[/IMG] [B][COLOR=#660066][FONT=Helvetica] The best connections stem from appreciating my whole person; a bodacious full figured woman with a streak of fire and side of maturity. I appreciate those who are down to earth and can enjoy lifeâ??s moments as what is done with pleasure is never forgotten. I encourage laughter, passion & conversation and I urge you to take a moment for yourself, to enjoy my company; to be worshiped and pampered, discretely & honestly[/FONT][/COLOR][B][COLOR=#660099].[/COLOR][/B][/B] [/CENTER] [CENTER][B][B][COLOR=#FF3399]Enjoy my soft skin and voluptuous curves as I tantalize your flesh and explore you intimately. [/COLOR][/B][/B] [B][U][COLOR=#660066][FONT=Helvetica]Availability Change Effective July 1st[/FONT][/COLOR][/U][/B] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][B][COLOR=#FF3399]For those I have met (or will meet before July 1st)[/COLOR][/B][B][COLOR=#FF3399] [/COLOR][B][COLOR=#9966FF]Available daily 11am â?? 11pm[/COLOR][/B][/B][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][B][COLOR=#FF3399]For those I have not met or new to me[/COLOR][/B][B][COLOR=#FF3399] [/COLOR][B][COLOR=#9966FF]Available after 9pm ONLY[/COLOR][/B][/B] [B][B][COLOR=#9966FF] [/COLOR][/B][/B][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][B][COLOR=#660066][FONT=Helvetica]**Pre-book ONLY w/ min. of 4 hours notice** [/FONT][/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#FF3399]There is still time to meet me before these changes take effect[/COLOR][/B][/CENTER] [/CENTER]

I'm not entirely sure where you were looking but there is a large Halifax pool of ladies. Here is the reco thread for Halifax http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=137 And the advertisement thread http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=18 You posted in the discussion thread which has quite a bit of info. Perhaps if you could give a better idea of what you might be looking for in a companion, we might be able to provide better suggestions.

I'm loving my Note 3 and would love to upgrade to the 4. Not keep on the last lollipop android update but hoping for some fixes.

It's Friday!! That means a no pants dance party and checking out what you've missed on my blog... http://midnite-energies.tumblr.com/

Previous thread. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=213344

Thanks to everyone for the input so far. I do find replies are lacking from the male side of things on how you feel consent should be handled in regards to YOU. Do you want someone discussing it prior? During? Consistently verbally or reading cues? Is this an issue from a male POV? Do you feel there should be more emphasis placed on male consent?

While that second article did indeed provide a different perspective and an interesting insight, I wonder how many people will read it and believe that is a blanket attitude among providers? It bothers me that people will read that and assign it to every provider as if it's fact. Not only that but that clients will read it and perhaps assume the same thing. Yes, this is a created fantasy and everyone has their own reasons for being in it and their own approach and perspective but that article bothered me because it is not indicative of MY perspective yet many will assume it is. I do like that the industry is giving extra depth and experience to the world of consent because it is not as black and white as it has been portrayed.

Done all this and still nothing. One of these days it will all straighten out....I hope.

Thanks for that Amber, I think that was a point that I neglected to get across in my original post; consent from the client. Usually the focus is on the provider and doing what they feel comfortable with and with who. Turning it around and also having consent on the part of the provider to client is something rarely touched upon.