Midnite-Energies

With the all the emphasis on consent lately and how it should be a requirement no matter the relationship or length of relationship; how do you feel that lends itself to this industry? Should there be more conversations on consent and less assumptions? Should it (could it) be a constant thing during a meeting or, as pointed out in some media, does being in this industry reduce consent because there is an assumption of consent by entering into the agreement in the first place? Also, considering the impact of C36 and the non legality of discussing anything sexual in relation to the industry, could this then become a fighting point against this bill as it limits the ability to openly discuss consent? Yes, you can still discuss it in private but is it infringing on the right to discuss it where and when one feels comfortable? Any other thoughts surrounding this?

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I want to add my Mother's Day wishes as well. It is never an easy job and you are always concerned about whether you're doing well. One thing I expect the ladies of this board have in common is teaching certain values that have fallen to the wayside such as respect, tolerance, acceptance and open mindedness. I hope you all receive those hugs that only your children can provide and have many smiles created by love.

Open minded, as I use it, means that I am open to many different kinds of experiences and interactions. Even if I am not into said experiences or provide them, I offer a safe non judgmental environment in which to ask or discuss. It also means that if something does interest me, I'm willing to explore it and see where it leads. I have always seen "party girl" as the term for anything goes. I try to approach everyone and everything with an open mind and no prejudices or biases. I give people the benefit of the doubt. To me it means inviting someone to be themselves with few expectations or structures. One thing I find about those who ask about "menu" is that they seem to be more into whatever act they want than the person providing it which in itself can sometimes be a screening tool. I much prefer to have a conversation about likes, dislikes and boundaries in the context of life than be asked for a menu of services.

Have an absolutely wonderful birthday. Hope someone spoils you today!

After one severely screwy week, received an email that made everything better and left me smiling BIG time!!

It's been acting up the last week but would still allow me to log into the forum with my password. Today, it won't even give me that option says "Lyla is not a supported plugin" or such.

I can honestly say, now that tapatalk is disabled, that I really miss the ease for looking at this site. Everything was readable and right in front of you without having to resize or click through different places. Every post was listed not just the thread which was great. I had to use the actual internet site this morning and how annoying was that. I will definitely miss Tapatalk.

You do you best MOD...thanks for that!

I've put every LYLA related address in a filter and made it priority and still nothing....

Sending special birthday wishes your way. Hope you find many thins to make you smile today...enjoy yourself!

Love This one...

Updated my OS on my phone to find out that a number of things that were great got changed and now they suck the big kahootie HARD. Argh. Stop fixing what's not broken. No way to go back without a lot of time, effort and voided warranty. I hope some of the developers get on fixes.

Happy Birthday my sexy friend. I hope you have many naughty smiles today, wonderful scenery to capture your eye's attention and all good things. If I could, I would send you a transporter!

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A very wonderful birthday day to you. Hope you find many special smiles today!

I experience this but in a different way. I remember conversations I may have had with certain gentlemen about certain places, restaurants etc. Whenever I go by or to visit these places, I can't help but smile as I remember. I think it happens in smaller cities and towns more because everything is closer together but I expect it happens for everyone everywhere. I love those random thoughts that are triggered by little things.

I'm running Android

MOD made a comment that TapATalk updated their app and are supposedly getting rid of any adult related comment. Still trying to find the original post her made. If it's not working, it may not be any more. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=201423 Mine is apparently still working although sluggish

Just from personal thoughts, I expect not everyone wants to be part of a community or to interact in certain ways. I'm sure there are those who enjoy doing their own thing in their own way without any rules or restrictions. There are certain expectations from being on a forum like this such as posting and interacting. Many question when someone has been here for awhile with no posts or still in moderation. All that can be done is to get LYLA out there and/or try to attract more people via word of mouth (IE: if you see a new provider or a new client). Forums like this are definitely a safer way to go and offer more support for everyone.

Plan B is a secret....at least for me. That's one of those things you don't put out there in case someone is reading it and chooses to use it against you. It's like telling announcing where you keep your jewels so they know where to look if they decide to rob you. Instead I'll say there IS a Plan B and even a C and I'm not afraid to put them in motion.

I let MOD know about this yesterday. He was looking into it. I didn't get anything for a couple days, then I did get something last night so not sure the status today.

Yea! Welcome back!! Very happy to see you and even happier that you're glad to be here. Welcome Athos! :biggrin:

I changed mine twice. When I first joined the board I was completely new to everything and joined on a whim, made my mistakes and then returned wiser and better. The second came when I realized I had outgrown my second name in different ways. I kept the first part as it was very much a part of me, just tweaked the second to envelop all of my better. Now I'm feeling like this is very much my "fit".