Midnite-Energies

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As Ice4fun mentioned the trend now seems to be for some storefronts to host one of everything and then when you purchase they order it in. This means less inventory in the actual stores. I've heard of some looking to reduce store space but still maintain a store. Definitely a Changing face of retail

To add a bit more to what has already been said, the difference you may be seeing between independent and other ladies is in the fact that they ARE independent. They run things the way they want, tailored to their likes, needs and wants and they present themselves in a way that tries to attract the kind of client they want to see. Non independent ladies may have things structured for them, have rules and ways of doing things planned out for them. Some may be specifically chosen to fit into certain requirements. If you're looking for non independent quality providers, my suggestion would be to research the agencies or spa's to see how they work. Look for recommendations or threads that comment on the business itself and then find one that more closely resembles what you;re looking for. Then you can begin to research the specific ladies. However, if you're having really good results with the ladies you have seen, look at your criteria and how you choose or what you need and continue to look in this vein or apply it to the above. Good luck with your search.

I'm not sure how cost effective it is but I know my parents found a washer/dryer they liked, and while they actually went into the store to view it, they ordered online, arranged delivery and install and was a very good price. While I love online shopping and finding a great price, for many things, especially big ticket items, I want to be able to feel it or open it or sit on it. Just because it looks pretty doesn't mean it's built well or comfortable. For me, nothing will replace being able to see it in person before you buy on certain items.

Anything can work provided the two people involved are communicating openly and honestly and both are aware of and accepting of the terms and conditions of the relationship. In some ways, this has more chance of working because of the communication involved. So many people enter into relationships with a tonne of assumptions whether personal, professional etc. But everyone has a different set of values and beliefs and experiences. In "normal" relationships most people don't say "Ok, I will monogamous only to you but reserve the right to flirt on occasion and don't view kissing as a sexual act". While the other person may be thinking "I will be monogamous with the exception of an occasional threesome and the opportunity to explore my bi side and view kissing as very intimate". They just begin and then react when things happen. We all have things we can accept or deal with, things we won't and then those up for discussion. If everything falls right within ANY relationship and the people involved want to make it work, it can and does. Mind you this also implies that the people involved take the risk of communicating their feelings in the first place.

Have the most fabulous birthday yet. Enjoy the day!

Previous notifications were compacted in paragraph style. Now things are spaced out with extra hard returns between headers, comments etc. All the information is there just spaced out.

Notifications are back! A bit bigger than before but I'll take it!

I have officially changed Hump Day to Worship Wednesday....and intend to celebrate it every day of the week....starting tomorrow!

Little notes to say hello or "you're on my mind". Sunshine and rainbows on my walls. A no pants happy dance. Things that make me laugh. Inspiration or an epiphany. Playful banter. Positive energy and inbox surprises!

It's a beautiful day and spring is in the air. What better enticement to treat yourself to a little pleasure time. Come see what you've been missing. http://midnite-energies.tumblr.com/

I am an explorer of the senses and an appeaser of needs. My touch will rouse you from reality and release you into pleasure for a little while. An affectionate and passionate sage, my focus is on you and I give all my attention as I worship and stir your energy to heights of satisfaction and contentment. Come luxuriate in my ministrations. No muss, no fuss, no drama.....all fun! Limited availability Wednesday and Thursday

Thanks to Gabby for reminding me of this thread. Here is a post I made in another thread that better fits here! ----------------------------------------------------------------------- I wanted to make a broad post here for all you gentlemen that rely on Tineye or other image search functions. Generally, you get very good results however no results does not always mean "good. There is a flaw in the search functions and that is the picture must match in order to pop up. If you take a picture, well known on the internet and use it in a search, it will pop up many results. However if you take that same image and FLIP it in any image software, many times the image searches will NOT pick it up. So, if you have someone you're checking out that seems "clean", save the image(s), flip them and try again. Extra time and effort yes, but also extra precaution. Many are not sophisticated enough for this trick but some are and your safety is paramount. Happy searching.

Actually Google doesn't check, this is why I suggested this. I have received a few pics and did searches with nothing. When I physically flipped the pic and re-checked in Google image, the truth came out. Always best to check all information for peace of mind.

I wanted to make a broad post here for all you gentlemen that rely on Tineye or other image search functions. Generally, you get very good results however no results does not always mean "good. There is a flaw in the search functions and that is the picture must match in order to pop up. If you take a picture, well known on the internet and use it in a search, it will pop up many results. However if you take that same image and FLIP it in any image software, many times the image searches will NOT pick it up. So, if you have someone you're checking out that seems "clean", save the image(s), flip them and try again. Extra time and effort yes, but also extra precaution. Many are not sophisticated enough for this trick but some are and your safety is paramount. Happy searching.

I definitely agree some sort of note would be nice especially if the person was someone you saw regularly and seemed to have a connection with. One of the first thoughts is wondering if you did or said something to upset or offend and I personally like the opportunity to apologize if that's the case. It's also good if they were someone you would exchange messages with between meetings as you wouldn't want to continue that if it wasn't acceptable. As has been mentioned, even if you may miss someone, you still wish them the best whatever they choose to do. As for a client expecting the same consideration, if the lady wishes to end the dalliance with someone she sees regularly, for whatever reason, there is reasonable expectation that she should let the gent know. It is respectful. There are occasions where there might be circumstances that make that not a good choice but overall, I would say yes.

Many of us advertise this in our ads. Profiles and even tags. I would do a search on your area on the words curvy, voluptuous, bbw etc. Those words have taken on a screwed up context and can mean anything from size 12 on but at least it narrows the field for you. Good luck!

Honestly, I don't believe this is as big an issue in this industry as in life. those with sexual addictions feel a compulsion to do what sates their addiction, in whatever form it takes (porn, actual sexual aspects, voyeurism). This is usually a consistent and ongoing basis unless the person is working on controlling it. I'm not saying someone can't be addicted to a sex worker and that thrill or anonymity but think of the resources they would need to do that. It's easier with a full on addiction to troll dating sites or CL/BP to support the addiction. I would also assume it is also cheaper and requires less effort (no screening, no working around availability). Mind you I know nothing of actual statistics, just approaching logically. I have seen a couple escort advertising sites with disclaimers regarding addiction and where to find help. In this day an age, anyone who believes they have a problem could do an online search and come up with available local resources. Whether they utilize them is up to the individual.

Have a fabulous birthday full of everything that makes you smile...and no shoveling!

Mine and thick, juicy and sensitive. I love wearing tank tops so I can slide my hands in and fondle them anytime I like. They respond eagerly to lips and tongues and hands Oh My!

Sex addiction is like any other addiction. It is up to the individual involved to seek and utilize help available. There are many forums, services and directives already in place but they must be sought out. In regards to escort ads, not everyone who asks for bb is a sex addict. Some are those who want what they want or are testing or pushing limits. Some just have no regard for much of anything. I do not believe an escort should be responsible for the health and safety of anyone except themselves. This is why there is screening in place and why most blacklist those asking for certain services or behaving in certain ways. If an escort were to take it upon themselves to provide information to someone or to classify someone as an addict because they asked, they are actually opening themselves up to potential legal action. It is like if you work in a casino or a bar, you cannot accuse someone of being an addict or assume they are or communicate this is any way. IF the person comes to you claiming this, then you are free to talk about it. Without that crucial step, you are only permitted to have resources and information available or you may be open to civil actions. Things may have changed but this is what I was taught and trained on. Can escorts be aware and have knowledge, certainly but it is not up to them to make the decision. Independents also do not have the time and resources to commit to such a grand scheme personally. By supporting some of the industry outreaches and programs in place, they are adding necessary resources to the cause. Again, it comes down to the individual to stand up and seek help. Addicts are addicts in the sense that there is something amiss in regards to something. Every individual has varying degrees and levels to which they act, react and escalate. You cannot assume someone is an addict because they displays certain behaviors or react/act in certain ways. Yes, there are signs but not all signs lead to an addiction. Those working in ANY industry where there is potential for addiction should have knowledge but they cannot be made responsible for more than what they have control over (IE: cut off limits, spending limits, limiting behaviors when they get to certain levels, providing resource information etc.). Can we, as individuals care? Yes, to a point, after that it's on the person. If the person acts in a way that steps outside certain societal boundaries, then they can act in a way the reduces the negative impact.

It is a double standard. A reputable escort builds her reputation on discretion and security of the information you provide her with. This is why it's always stressed to do your homework especially with new or transient providers. A lady usually has a website, contact details, recommendations, ads etc. She has put part of herself out there. Apps are easy and usually cost effective in a business where it counts. A person coming to see her is screened for a reason; they have nothing except the information they provide. This is why we request information that can be verified in some way. If you use this app, you can put in whatever information you like so in essence, if you use it, she knows nothing more about you then she did before you called or texted. Many times, the app blocks the number as well or makes it untraceable. Most ladies specify, no blocked numbers. It ALL comes down to safety which is why there is screening in the first place. Every gentleman has the option to either provide or not provide the requested information. You can have the app however if a lady does not accept that, that is her option. It is a personal business, and as such, the lady chooses to do what she is comfortable with and what makes her feel safe. Double standard or not, it is what it is.

I love Bailey's Caramel and Coffee in the morning, especially when cold or rainy. I love flavored teas when the mood hits. Stash is amazing Love a great bourbon with Wild Turkey Rare Bread, Copper Pot and Evan Williams leading the way. I like a red Chilean while cooking and Rickards Red when enjoying music and conversation. As for those hot summer nights, I love strawberry margarita's or my own concoction, a s**t bomb. I do like to try new cocktails and wines though as long as they're not dry or bitter. OH, almost forgot. I love a good Guinness pour in the pub! Sexy in a glass

MOD said it was a viral problem which he has resolved. Notifications were being blocked at the mail client level and he's working to get them back in order. Might take a bit though