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Midnite-Energies

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  1. Quite honestly., from your comments now and before, I would say your gf does not have the necessary tools to deal with stress and overwhelm and her reaction is to shut down everything that is not a priority at the moment. . including you. It Doesnt mean she Doesnt love you or want to be with you, it simply means that when theses times hit you go on the back Burner until it passes. You have to decide whether the other times are worth these times and whether you can handle not being ab priority at these points. As was said, this is something that, at this point, is out of her hands. Maybe you can help her find someone to teach her how to better handle these situations without freaking out and shutting Down. Only you can decide what it is all worth to you and how much you can deal with. Good luck!
  2. It's Monday so here's a little enticement to get through the day. :boobies: Shake what your momma gave you! :butt: http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/
  3. Sending a Big hug to Mrrnice2 in hopes that his immune system ramps up, kicks the butt of whatever he's fighting and gets him on his way to visit family. Also for everyone dealing with something difficult; you're stronger than you think you are and sometimes the hardest moments give way to the biggest and best moments.
  4. "Dominatrix Terri-Jean Bedford to Receive 2014 Ontario Civil Liberties Association Award (Ottawa, October 20, 2014) â?? The OCLA will present its 2014 Civil Liberties Award to Miss Bedford at a public presentation and reception in Ottawa in November. "I want to be remembered for standing against secret rulesâ?, said Miss Bedford. â??My motto is that Iâ??ll fight for my rights whether you like it or notâ?, she added. Miss Bedford has fought for the freedom, dignity, and safety of sex workers in Canada. She has joined many prominent Canadians and dedicated activists to this end. She has opposed the unjust laws affecting her profession in court, in the streets, in the Senate, in the press, and in her writings. She has even been to jail under these laws. Miss Bedford has been an inspiration to those who work to correct societyâ??s moral and legal hypocrisy, and to secure a human right of adult individuals to provide and buy or exchange personal services by informed consent without the stateâ??s interference".
  5. Layla in Clayton Park. Relatively new, inside isn't fancy and counter order but the food is amazing. The Chicken Shawarma platter is awesome. I had it with a Greek salad. YUM. Hummus is great. Watch out for their garlic paste, it is potent! heard lots of great things about the rest of their food as well.
  6. And one more thought, if she was a NCNS and you don't hear from her AND you paid a deposit that you have no way to get back, you have the "scam and B&S" section for posting details. If it is a case of something happened, I hope it all works out for you.
  7. May your birthday be a day to take care of you and make me smile just as you've taken care of so many. Have a wonderful birthday!
  8. It's always a good time for a little erotic titillation! Join Me! http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/ http://midnitelust.tumblr.com/ http://midniteponderings.tumblr.com/
  9. To give a bit of advice that is included in many other discussions at the moment, it would be in your best interest NOT to use a menu or a list of acronyms. Writing and maintaining a website takes a lot of time and energy and right now, we are in a flux point between what we are used to and Bill C36. no one knows who is gathering what information at this point to use at a further point so it is best to create your website in a way that doesn't outright describe sexual services at all. This way you are covered now and when things settle out later, you can look at making changes once you know for sure what is good and legal. Rate is for time and companionship only but many like to see the listed rate. Some SP's chose to discuss that only by phone conversation. As for the rest, it's all about you. Be yourself, determine your business model and create around that. Be aware of who you're wanting to attract as a client. Most of all, have fun!
  10. I was reading that once a bill receives Royal Assent, there is a 30 day grave period in which to adjust and adapt before it is full force. There is still time for people to find their balls and their conscience and not vote for this. The Governor General can withhold assent. It has never been done but there is still a chance. If a few cons get sick/busy and all the Liberals and NDP show up... I'm just saying there is still hope, still chances to sway this, still things we can do. It is not a done deal yet no matter how discouraging it seems. Directing energy to it in the form of "it's already a done deal, nothing can be done, when will it be in effect" only serves to promote it. Have a plan, talk about it...that's fine. What isn't fine is giving up, embracing it before it happens and dismissing all hope.
  11. Wishing you an amazing birthday and hoping you get spoiled with everything you enjoy. Have a great one!
  12. I'm sorry this happened to you. There are a number of warnings, great information and people to talk to in order to stay safe. Please use everything at your disposal. This agency has taken a lot of people and it seems to be their main mode of operation.
  13. Sending out hugs and supportive energy to everyone who is having thoughts or feelings about those no longer with us. This is a time to give thanks for what we have or people who have touched us and this can sometimes be bittersweet. Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened - Dr. Suess Love never dies, it just transforms.
  14. What is it that truly matters to you? Age, maturity level or something else altogether? I ask because there are some mature providers but not necessarily in your age range. Are there other factors than age that are important as well? I believe Willow is, I'm gently nudging. Most are more mid to late 30's I believe but definitely some quality providers.
  15. I've been in this industry now for two years and I am entirely grateful to everyone I've met who has opened themselves to me for a little while and allowed me to do what I love. On top of that, a gorgeous fall day that smells divine and feels even better as the sun warms my skin.
  16. I know you were having troubles yesterday and I hope things have improved. It's not always easy to be positive, just take one moment at a time. Big HUGS to you!
  17. From Third reading http://www.parl.gc.ca/HousePublications/Publication.aspx?Pub=Hansard&Doc=122&Parl=41&Ses=2&Language=E&Mode=1
  18. An amazing morning, amazing lunch at a new place ( I was apparently making strange mmmm noises with each delectable bite) and amazing company. Pumpkin Spice Tea (it's my only pumpkin indulgence beyond pumpkin spice muffins) AND I got to make a little person very happy (with help).
  19. No, discretion is not optional. This issue just has people passionate and frustrated looking at something that is out of their control and yes, impacts their business, but impacts safety more No reputable provider would ever disclose information about anyone and hopefully won't be put in the position of LE trying to force the issue. Any politician taking part in the business if this bill passes to law will be condemning themselves as it will then be illegal and you can bet for awhile, they will be scrutinized. No, outing people will not help or be beneficial and will do nothing but makes things more difficult for everyone. TJB will see this in the end I'm sure.
  20. Welcome to CERB. There are a number of us that provide sensual massage service, it also depends on how you define sensual massage. Myself, Katherine, Lilly, Mareana (when she's visiting, I know for sure. As in anything else, find someone who attracts you and then delve into them to see if they provide what you need. Good Luck!
  21. Sending hugs Chanel. It is not easy when you're wrapped up in worry for loved ones so extra BIG ones of support!
  22. There is so much controversy surrounding this topic because, as a sex worker, your business is built on confidentiality and discretion. I look at the much bigger picture of C36 and that is the government trying to impose it's "moral center" on citizens of the country they are supposed to represent. Within this, they are trying to restrict the rights and liberties of those citizens. It may be sex workers today but who will it be tomorrow? I'm sure every person voting on this who has partaken of a sex worker has that little voice calling them a hypocrite. Whether they choose to listen or not depends on on their own moral fiber. If someone is willing to vote to take away one persons rights while secretly protecting their own..... I don't care what race, religion, sexual choices or distinctions, gender or any other "qualifier" you are, you are a person and deserve to be treated with respect and protected for your right to be who you are. Anyone looking to impose their crap on others while doing what they want, deserves what they get. Live and let live.
  23. Being able to make other people smile even if you're not trying. Little gestures that say "you're important" That wonderful fall smell and those beautiful red leaves. One month to Candy Cane hot chocolate Having a child hold you tight and say you're the best in the world!
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