Midnite-Energies

Welcome every one! Great to see some new faces and hopefully have some new voices for the forums and recommendations. There is a lot if great info here and I would suggest availing yourself of that to make your foray much easier. The more you know, the easier it is to relax and enjoy every experience. Good luck!

Welcome funseekr, this is definitely a great place to begin your journey. I would definitely recommend reading the rules and then a few of the threads on what you should know. Will definitely make things easier as you begin your pleasure pursuit! Enjoy and welcome! :makeout:

It's always a good time to think dirty thoughts.. How about now?!! I've got the visuals! http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/ :aol_doggystyle: RAWR :aol_anal:

This is such a blessing and a gift. I have a friend who did this exact thing as well a few years back for a close friend of his. His scar is very miniscule and his recovery time was short. He is still enjoying life as he did before with no negative impact. His friend is likewise enjoying life again compared to where they were. We all have scars and marks; these are the stripes we have earned going through life. Badges of honor reminding us how strong we are and what we have endured to get where we are. If anyone will judge us negatively on these or consider us "less anything" they are not worthy of our time. Life is too short to be impacted by small things and small minds.

@Intereestedparties, welcome to CERB! What a great thing to explore together. You've definitely found one of the best places to start. Good luck with everything, welcome and most importantly, ENJOY!

Wholeheartedly agree. Whether informative, playful, fun or sexy, your posts definitely add to this community. Thank you for all you share!

Wow, such wonderful pairings already so I'll add a couple I didn't see. Cary Grant and Deborah Kerr in An Affair to Remember and likewise the real life couple of Annette Bening and Warren Beatty in the remake, Love Affair Mickey Rourke with Kim Bassinger and then soon to be GF Carrie Otis in 9 1/2 Weeks and the sequel Wild Orchid Frank Sinatra and Shirley MacLaine in Can Can Danny Kaye & Bing Crosby in White Christmas Nicholas Cage and Laura Dern in Wild at Heart (in a psycho sort of way) James Spader & Maggie Gyllenhal in Secretary

Wishing you all a wonderful day of fun, pleasure and beer...MUAH! Happy Canada Day

Nice that the country throws a huge celebration for your birthday every year. They apparently know what we do....you're great! Have an amazing day!

Welcome! Hope you enjoy everything our little community has to offer.

Considering it's 24/7 agency, you may want to read up on them here http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=146788

If you're only looking to have a blog, there are a lot of free options that you can find by reading over the blog thread of many of our members. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=178943&highlight=update+blog If you're looking to have a website that includes your blog, many of the ladies' websites will give you options based on where you're located. There are also free options such as Wix.com, escortdesign, escortbook etc (you can also pay to get your own domain here). The big thing is to determine what you want from your website and how much you're willing to pay. Have to read through the terms of service to ensure sexual content is permitted. With this new Bill C36 in the works, many are looking for out of country hosting. Arvixe is ranked as one of the top ones, affordable and sex friendly. Of course you would either need to design a site yourself or have someone do it for you. There are also easy sites such as Slixa that are paid sites but set up is easy and done by you. A few of the ladies use this. Not sure how helpful any of this is as there aren't a lot of specifics about what you need or are looking for. One thing I will say is to avoid GoDaddy.com. There have been many issues with them.

I'll add in the rest here... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=182961

Here is her recommendation thread. She had an advertisement yesterday about taking the summer off and only a little time left so you may want to keep that in mind. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=5666&highlight=willow

OMG I LOVE the journey. Sometimes it's about prolonging the pleasure not making it end with an orgasm. I love that sensual and sexual hum of energy that lights up your entire body. I don't pay much attention to statistics because half the time the results are skewed from the beginning by where the participants are found and the screening process. I think anyone who hasn't faked something at some point in life is lying, we're only human after all. However, that said, personally I don't fake much because I tend to look and find those things that excite and arouse me. If I cum, I cum. If I don't, I don't. What is heard between those points is all me. I wouldn't want a man to fake anything with me and prefer open communication. I in turn, provide that as well. I know being of the mind that orgasm isn't the end all be all seems to be the minority but it works for me and I can only be me because everyone else is taken!

I have realized I need more experience in learning to lick! :cooter:

I hope you are treated to many things that make you smile today. Spoil yourself and enjoy!

Wishing you a very special and pleasurable day filled with everything that brings a smile to your face.

Happy Birthday to wonderful you. Hope it's full of good things, pleasurable surprises and many smiles. Enjoy!

A reputable provider has built a reputation based on discretion. In this business, lack of discretion will sink you. Do your research, look for someone who has been in the business for awhile, has a website and ads. Check reco's and posts and look at the relationship they have with others. This will tell you a lot about their business practices including discretion and confidentiality.

I believe, going by her website, that she prefers a phone call so I would definitely try that as opposed to email. If you don't receive an answer after that, assume she is away and will contact you when she returns.

Thank you deepstrut for a different perspective. You are correct that sometimes when people look in the wrong places to cure loneliness that they can come out feeling more lonely and empty than before they started and that some people blur the lines between reality and fantasy. This can happen not only with an SP but with anyone. At least with an SP there won't be extended drama should either happen. In these situations, it is on the person looking at the situation to know themselves and to determine what it is they need and want and if this might be an option to gain it or a potential risk. Some learning is about trial and error and some is about putting yourself in a safe supportive environment to gain knowledge. You don't learn how to do a job by trial and error, you learn in a classroom, through mentoring or job shadowing. You then take that knowledge into situations where you apply it and learn through action to improve it. Relationships are not completely trial and error. We talk to people who have been through it, we ask advice, we read articles and then we apply those in a learn to improve capacity. In your example of a kid who can't sing. Having the support of their mother believing in them is a huge thing but not the only thing. If the mother encourages practice and lessons they are gaining the knowledge and skill before stepping into other situations that require them to apply it. SP's are not here to rubber stamp especially if someone is looking to gain experience. They share their knowledge, provide direction and make suggestions in a safe supportive environment. There are many SP's and clients who have developed friendships and provide emotional support within the boundaries they set up. This says that for some people, this can be a good emotionally supportive outlet. Like everything, it's not for everyone and as you and others have said, take a hard look at what you want/need, risks, pros and cons and determine if it is the best course of action. For the record, when I comment in these threads, I am not trying to seduce anyone to visit me. I believe there is a world of potential and possibility out there that we should be open to. That we should see our sexual and intimate needs as self care and as important as other things and that we need to look within to determine what works and doesn't work for us and to ignore those who may or may not agree with us. The world is full of differing perspectives, thoughts, biases, morals, labels, triggers etc. We are responsible for ourselves and should feel no guilt in taking care of ourselves if no others are harmed. Different perspectives are valuable as they give us ideas and thoughts and hopefully give us more options than we had before.

There is NO desperation in self care. If you were ill, you'd see a doctor. If you hurt yourself a physiotherapist or chiropractor, if you had things in your head you couldn't sort out alone, a psychologist or psychiatrist. these are all forms of self care. Sex and intimacy and the need for it as well as the desire to be better, is all self care. I find it interesting science and society can admit that sex and intimacy are important to our well being but then put moral limits on obtaining it. There are many clients who choose this route because it fits better within their own lives and restrictions. Some don't want the entanglements of a relationship or because of their job or career focus, don't have the time and believe it's unfair to date. They still want sex and intimacy just in a different way. There is nothing desperate about logical, well thought out choices. Plus...what MightyPen said because he's right some sexy smart.