Midnite-Energies

Welcome Warlock! This is definitely one of the better places on the net to indulge in this industry with like minded individuals and providers alike. Lots of great information as well as some fun. Plus this is a great place to live especially now coming into the better seasons with much more to experience. Wishing you all the pleasure you can find. Enjoy! :biggrin:

Time to enjoy our blog updates once again! http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/ Come enjoy my erotic mind

How to have a good day.....wake up and tell yourself "it's gonna be a great day" and make it so!

You will be missed...good luck and happiness with everything in your life!

With so many different social media applications available now, they have become the top marketing strategies for most businesses. Escorts are no exception. My question to those who actually use social media (and for those who don't, why not?) What engages you on an escort's social media site beyond the sexy selfie? Do you like it a bit personal, all professional, activism, educational, all sex related? I have difficulty finding the balance especially as I keep some things "controlled" for personal reasons. Considering much of what I do is not only for myself but also for my followers/interested persons, I enjoy the input!

This made me seriously giggle so maybe other Game of Thrones fans might get a chuckle. https://24.media.tumblr.com/251b36e66e94d57bebf1469e78b72ca4/tumblr_n4q4dr8xQJ1r7konko1_400.gif Tywin Lannister, Lord of Casterly Rock, Shield of Lannisport, Warden of the West, and Hand of the King.

Finally watching American Courtesans. Such amazing woman and stories. Touches me in so many different ways.

You're going to be great....relax and enjoy the wonderful moment you're stepping into!

Congratulations on all your posts as I have enjoyed quite a few however, if you continue to be addicted to Move ABC's we will have to stage an intervention at some point...tough love and all that!

Honestly, if you're looking to do something on your own make a list of your passions, hobbies and interests. Doesn't matter how big or small, write them all down. Once you have that list, see what you might be able to roll into a business. The important thing here is to be passionate and honest about what you love. Examples include people who love dogs and ended up owning a bunch of animal spas, daycare or grooming business. Someone who loves food could open a wagon, a restaurant, be a critic, be a buyer or offer food prep services to others. There are so many viable options but only one YOU. Good Luck!

I can be no other person except myself (everyone else is taken) because to do so doesn't show any self love. Sex, sensuality and connection are very intimate things and for me, I need to be personally involved in the moment to give them meaning and energy. I give no less then 100% of myself each and every time whether it is reciprocated or not. To me, sexy, beautiful, erotic etc. are a package deal: inside and out. You can't have a beautiful sexy outside if your inside is flat and emotionless. You can have an amazing inside which influences what others see on the outside. As Brad said, it isn't unauthentic to not fully disclose or share everything, it is human nature. We all reserve parts of ourselves for certain people, situations or even just for ourselves. We may temper our true nature for the person we are with but that doesn't mean they are not getting the authentic person; we all have nuances to our personalities and desires. I think most people are interested in an authentic experience with a real person and if they don't feel they are receiving that, they move on. I'm sure there are plenty of fly-by-night SP's who believed they could just show up and not give of themselves and many clients who felt there was no involvement or connection. We're human, touch and connection is part of our need and within that we like to feel valued.

Meg, you care, you share, you're sexy and beautiful and you give of yourself to this community. You're up front when required, supportive and full of life. Thanks for everything and can't wait for the next 1000!

I'm all caught up now and really enjoying it. The creep factor is definitely turned on and Will and Hannibal play perfectly together. Considering what the show is about I find it really interesting what in fact plays on you specifically as psychologically difficult. You know that psycho shower type scene that stays with you as time goes by.

Good luck with your search. It does seem that it's mostly traveling ladies which says either there are not many local SP's or they advertise in other places beyond CERB. You might want to try a web search and see if that turns up anyone that others may then have info on.

I use the times of dressing to admire the person I'm with in ways I may not have had before that time. The bending to retrieve a sock, showing me the curve of a buttock, the lifting to put a sweater over his head revealing the lines of his sides, chest and back. The smile as his heads pops back into sight which then leads to the urge to kiss. The last few touches of bare skin before they are covered and disappear from sight. Bittersweet but beautiful.

I think it all boils down to acceptance. We are all human and as such, have fluctuations in how we feel, what we want/need and the energy we're feeling at any given moment. Some days you're in the mood for intimacy and snuggles while another day you just want to be taken and pleasured. Depending on your mood, you gravitate towards the ads (or to writing the ads) that match but it also means that those opposite might stick out. Sometimes depending on our moods, we ignore all that doesn't match us or they stick out like a sore thumb and turn us off. I don't think it speaks to the industry as much as it speaks to people and to sexuality. Even if you were not in this industry in any way, you would still have all the fluctuations. If you had a partner, one day you might want to wine and dine and then another to bend them over the kitchen table. It's also about those things that are "outside our norm" or not the way we would do things. Again, it's human nature to say "I would never do or say that". As has been pointed out, everyone does what works for them at any given time of the day. I'm sure outsiders reading it would judge the industry based on what they see but honestly, we do that among ourselves too, don't we?

I for one dislike talking on the phone except for a couple exceptions. In previous careers I was always attached to a phone or a radio or something that made me entirely dislike them. I also have had past issues with cell phone radiation and try to keep it away from my body, especially my head, as much as possible. This for me is the bigger issue. I only have a cell phone for texting, emails and other features I use regularly. I do not put my number in any advertising or on any website and actually removed a website that did and couldn't promise me control over it. I do provide my number to those I have seen and they can use it or not as they see fit. I try to be as accommodating as possible and will use the phone if someone has a reason for it. Mind you, the conversations are very brief.

Happy CERBaversary Spud! Thanks for being here and all you've done! :bigclap:

There have been a few threads on this agency. Consensus seems to be Nikki Menege runs it and it is good. Elise is a member here on CERB. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=155675&highlight=halifax+playmates http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=150868&highlight=halifax+playmates http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=168444&highlight=halifax+playmates Hope this gives a starting point

I love having my toes done all year. Barefoot at home lets me admire them, much better when the sandals come out.

I notice everyone who visits my profile and enjoy visiting back especially if it's someone new. I tend not to leave a message if it seems every other person has done so that day or within a few hours or if the person is from many provinces away and we don't seem to have anything in common. From reading this thread, maybe I'm putting too much thought into why not instead of "why not".

I believe the Bio tone oil has the ingredient that numbs the tongue making it highly undesirable if the massage is going further.

After a lot of research, trial and error, if I need to use a product I use Bon Vital Massage Gel. It has the workability of an oil and sinks into the skin like a lotion. It's also all natural with jojoba and you can actually lick it without your tongue going numb (many massage products have an additive that does this). The product is unscented and water dispersible.