Midnite-Energies

You forgot sexy Mister! Beauty, brains and a dirty mind! I love this community and the variety of people here. So many different thoughts, perspectives, kinks, vanillas, support, love (and the not so great stuff too). Can I be a flagpole instead of a cornerstone? I like poles! :icon_twisted:

Another milestone reached my friend. The say a picture tells a thousand stories but I find you tell many with very few words. You share with and support this community and give us part of yourself. Looking forward to more! :makeout:

Congratulations Frank. I for one have enjoyed many of your posts and have taken something away with a smile. Thank you for that and looking forward to many more! :makeout:

Hi Jabba, Here are a couple links you might helpful with some good info. http://jezebel.com/5782240/everything-you-need-to-know-about-pegging http://straight.fleshbot.com/5896091/tristan-taormino-would-like-to-talk-to-you-about-pegging There are a few benefits for ladies depending on the lady involved and the strap on used. Some have insertable attachments while other have vibe attachments. For some, the power exchange or the giving of pleasure is highly exciting and intoxicating. Having not done it personally, but speaking as one who loves the ass in general, I get highly turned on pleasuring a man that way and I find it highly erotic when he enjoys it. To take it that step further for me seems amazingly exciting as it's just another way to share pleasure. Of course for the man it's all about communication and making sure there is a level of trust and talking about things like depth, speed, angle of penetrations etc. You have thousands of nerve endings in your derriere and of course the prostate is amazing. So much potential here if you're open to exploring it and can shake off a lot of stupid misconceptions out there. Bottom line is it's another way that two people can enjoy sex, pleasure and heightened intimacy!

While I love the thought pegging and SO want to do it, I have yet to experience this personally for a couple reasons including not being able to find a harness that fits. I have done a lot of reading and that is one of the biggest things, the harness has to fit. When looking for a harness these are some of the top things to look for. Adjustability and sizing. Measure yourself. Most good ones have a sizing guide. Adjusting O rings. This way you can swap dildos in and out for a variety of sizing to meet any need and desire. Quality. Look for solid manufacturers and customer reviews. I'll include two that I have heard many good things about not only for quality and wearability but also easy of use and stability. http://www.kittystoybox.com/SpareParts-HardWear-Joque-Strap-on-Harness-_p_65.html http://tantusinc.com/search?type=product&x=0&y=0&q=strap+on Also some women swear by the harness free dildos like the feeldoe, love rider or fetish fantasy elite. These have a part to insert and your interior muscles keep them in place while they provide stimulation for you. These take a bit of getting used to but some love them so it's an option. Happy Pegging! PS. If your dildo won't stay in the harness, see if you have removable O rings. You may just need to go down a size to fir the dildo better or if not removable, find a better suited dildo. That is if the harness works for you.

Nice to know there's some love to go around *kisses*

I didn't know you practiced Reiki Penelope. That's awesome! It will go hand in hand with massage work especially the sensual side of it. I am more the Eden style and like you, let my hands do the walking and talking.

I love when you're kneeling for a man, enjoying some cock worship and he tangles his fingers in my hair, either to hold me still (wink), pull me closer or just to connect us. It's much nicer when he pays attention to the amount of force however as there is a point where too hard and you not only have to deal with a large amount of pain but you also risk breakage. I know that sounds shallow but I have a thyroid issue that makes my hair an issue so I try to take care of it and keeping it is a big deal. lol As long as there is communication between partners and everyone is enjoying the experience, grab a handful! *rawr*

Hi Music Man and welcome to your first full fledged inclusion on CERB. Brad nailed it. You've lived your life by your rules, done what makes you happy and as you stated, you have no regrets. How many people in life can say THAT? To me, that says you know who you are and what you're all about so if you're looking for something, pursue it with passion because it's worked great for you. AS Brad said, reading posts, websites, recommendations and talking to those ladies that attract you will give you a much clearer idea about how they feel being in this industry. It will also give you a better idea if they might be the lady for you. You've already got a solid basis, follow your instincts and you'll be golden. Good luck and most of all, enjoy!

I expect unless someone is a very good actor the lady in question probably felt something was amiss or that you weren't really into the session. If you are picking your providers wisely, there should be no drama or upset if you arrive and then say you don't believe you should continue with the session. At this point, it would be respectful to compensate in some way. I'm sure every provider has their own view on what would be acceptable. I'm assuming this was simply a case of what you thought you were getting from ads, website and other sources did not meet your expectations and was not a B&S? Life is too short to be forcing yourself to do something you don't want to do especially in a "choice" area (as opposed to say family or work obligation). Walking away is good for both in this situation.

T is for tonguing all those sensitive areas and making you beg for more

Anything he does live is *rawr* if you're there

Not only do you share your insights, thoughts and playful nature but you support those within our community whether through greetings, banter or recommendations. Thanks for all you do and looking forward to more...although I get you mixed up with peachy a lot (sorry peachy). lol

As was said, clients chose a provider on what they are seeking. Looks, rates, connection, services etc. THIS is the bottom line. Every provider should do what they feel comfortable with and what works for them. I think what gets me the most are all the assumptions/judgements flying around. Lower price means undercutting which means a thought out decision to hurt someone elses business or gain more. Sometimes a lower price is just that, a lower price. There should be no assigning of guilt to it. Yes, there are ruthless people in this and every industry who make conscious decisions to screw other people but if we went through life thinking that of everyone, what a sorry state of affairs that would be. Lower rate does not mean lower quality, lack of companionship or giving. Rate does not determine the chemistry you can have with someone. Lower rate does NOT mean busier just as higher rate does not mean slower. Another assumption not mentioned here but I have thought about. Being an SP doesn't automatically mean you're rolling in money either. That you have a huge extensive wardrobe, tonnes of toys, a hotel room on call or a hundred other things. Everyone's situation is different and until you walk a mile in someone elses shoes, you cannot understand their situation. In response to those who say lady x is charging this so why don't you. This comment says more about you as a potential client than the lady charging the lower rate. To the providers that get upset at the lady charging the rate, why? It's the guy showing disrespect not the lady trying to make a living. Honestly, a lot of this doesn't matter because people are going to keep on doing what they're going to do, think what they want to think. I'm just a voice giving another perspective. Find someone who makes you feel good in whatever way you want to feel good.

Penelope, you are beautiful and give of yourself. A certificate means nothing because if you look at what it says, it is limited. Learning, growing and providing a genuine service is what's important. If you approach things with pleasure and enjoyment in mind and begin to hone your techniques, the paper won't matter. I say go for it and with the same enthusiasm you do everything. It can only add to what you have already established.

I am a very positive, spiritual person and I support everyone for what they want to do and I try my best not to judge anyone based on ANYthing. I charge $XXX/hr inclusive and that by no means indicates how I value myself. I am NOT a stupid woman nor am I blind to the market where I am. I am also open to my limitations with hours, looks, wardrobe etc. No one knows my situation nor do they know me or what I deal with on a daily basis. I am a quality provider who cares, who has amazing skills and I try to connect with my clients. I shun many of the industry "norms" because I don't agree with them. I give pleasure because I love it and I want to do it. To have someone comment there are no quality providers at my price point or that I am not attractive because of my price point or that I am not a serious provider or in it for the long haul, to that I say piss on you...I am amazing. I may not be for everyone but for those who see what I am and what I give.. I am NOT my price point. I get very tired of these threads. The bottom line is do what you want. Do what makes you happy. Do what makes you feel good about you and fuck everyone else. If someone does it different say "you go girl". There are enough people against us in this industry without driving it home amongst ourselves. Enough already. Everyone has a place no matter rates, menu, looks, age, sex, or any other factor involved. We are all in this together and we are all important. One year in the making...I hope I said it in a positive manner.

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I enjoy some erotic spanking and was privileged to have been able to provide it once even though I was a complete novice. Trust is a huge thing once you get into the deeper arenas of spanking and people should realize this aspect. Also spanking is NOT just about hitting someone's ass. There ARE right and wrong ways to spank and right and wrong places. There are some areas that you need to spank lighter and some you can go harder with. I am not an expert but I have done some research and also experienced it first hand. While I may enjoy a spanking on my nice juicy ass, I do not like it on the backs of my thighs unless it's light. Like any form of rougher play, you need to approach it first with the mind then with the body. Establish some boundaries and trust and then enjoy the hell out of it. I would hope someone, as Savannah said, on a first meeting wouldn't suddenly just go to town with no prior discussion.

I spent a lot of time "doing the drill". Trying to find meaningful work to satisfy the mind, body and soul as well as meet obligations. Mostly that turned into a huge stress factor because, while I was good at it, I didn't "love" it. I always thought it would be cool to be a sex worker in some capacity but was too focused on the "normal" stuff to think much about it. I have friends in the industry who always said I'd be good at it. So, when I hit a crossroads a bit ago I said why not. Let's try something I love where I get to play by my rules. It's taken me awhile to establish myself for a variety of reasons but here I am, loving what I do, loving the people I meet and being true to myself even if that means I do things differently. For anyone who has ever took a look at my blog or read one of my stories or read something I wrote that I was passionate about, I think my love and need for all things sensual and sexual becomes very clear. I love to please, to entice, to pleasure and satisfy. I also love to explore. There is a whole lotta love for me in doing what I do and I thank everyone who has allowed me to do it *rawr*

Easy peasy! R is for Rimming because it feels OH so good!

Which means this girl did break the law as those under 18 cannot consent to prostitution. That had nothing to do with the supreme court decision.

You are a beautiful talented lady and I have enjoyed many of your posts. You are proof that amazing is not defined by ANY age. Thanks for everything you share.

My point is the writer of the article either specifically chose to not take the article further or ignore part of the story that took into account the well being of this 15 year old. Anyone against prostitution, especially those who equate sex work with trafficking, with get to the end and see that "it's okay to be a prostitute at 15 because the Supreme Court ruled down existing laws" The big issue is what was not said. As for life experience at 15, yes, some people can have a lot of life experience by then but are the able to emotionally handle it and make a serious choice for their life at that point? Not to mention the fact there are laws in place for those under 16 and sex work at 18. I for one would like to know this girl was taken care of. Any person making a choice like this at 15 has something going on in their life.