Midnite-Energies

Sending a *rawr* and *kisses* to all those I have met or would love to meet. May your day be full of pleasure and bliss no matter how it's spent. Put my kisses wherever they might be needed most *wink*:icon_twisted:

I agree with everything mentioned so far. the one thing I do disagree with because it personally impacts me, is the basic guidelines to body language. Because there actually IS a guideline and most are along the same lines, people mistakenly believe they are truth when they are not. They are a guideline for a reason, a starting point. To make my point, take the arms crossed in front of your body. Many guidelines state this a non verbal communication for stay away or unapproachable. I have met many wonderful approachable people who do this because it's comfortable. the one I dislike because it has personally affected me in both personal and business settings is the whole "look away to the left or right". One denotes a lie while the other denotes thoughtfulness. Unfortunately my 'thinking" goes the opposite way so have been told that people believe I'm lying when I'm actually thinking....and no, I'm not thinking of a lie! lol Point is, as was briefly mentioned, getting to know someone takes time and effort and you may never know "all" of someone" because we are definitely not a full disclosure species. Even the things mentioned such as being one way behind a computer screen and another in person, can tell you something. Sometimes people feel powerful and confident when they are alone but lose that with others. They may not even be aware of it. It all tells a story if you care to listen.

Here is her recommendation thread. That should give you a good place to start. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=4157&highlight=exotic+touch+danielle

Hanging onto negative emotions and thoughts of someone doing us wrong is only hurting us. It doesn't hurt the person we are upset with, it doesn't teach them a lesson. By holding onto these feelings, we are giving someone power over us and how we feel. It eats away at us and focuses our energy in not so nice ways. It's not easy to forgive but there are ways to deal with it. Does hanging onto this stuff serve you positively? Do you feel better because of it? Are you relationships better because of it? Most of the time, the answer is no if we're honest. I can tell you from experience that forgiving (not forgetting) can lift weights you never even knew existed on your shoulders. This also moves into the arena of being offended on behalf of someone else. Why would you pick up someone else's baggage, don't you have enough of your own? Forgiveness is not an act but an attitude. Forgiveness is personal for our own good and for the good of others, this is why it is an attitude. If it were an act, it would be a tactic to improve, stop bad feelings or anger directed at us and it would have no meaning. It would be manipulation. Forgiveness is empowering for us and dis-empowering for others. I'm all for anything that empowers us. Spiritual whoha...my two cents.

Congratulations Frank...and thank you. Many of your posts made me smile, nod or learn something and I appreciate each and every one of them. Looking forward to many more!

*MUAH* I you!! tee hee

Congratulations Chuck. May this synchronistic moment carry over into your other sensual endeavor and shine with good fortune. I enjoy your posts and reading your POV. Thank you for being a distinct voice among many! Can't wait for more.

I have such a HUGE lady crush on Ksenia Solo from Lost Girl...I think you can see why. Additional Comments:

Suite Escapes, I wanted to personally say I'm sorry you felt snubbed and hurt by having your contributions go unrecognized. Please believe me when I say it was not personal. Unfortunately, I am only one person with many responsibilities and sometimes people are missed especially if they post numerous times around the milestone. Originally I had hoped that others would join in and notice as well however that has not really happened. If I get away from it for a few days, occasionally I miss something no matter my efforts; there are a lot of members. I know this was posted to the community however it is well known I spearhead this initiative. I'm hoping that by saying this, you feel better and from the bottom of my heart I do hope you do because it was not an intentional slight. I appreciate your openness and honesty about the situation. It was pointed out that there are a LOT of silent members. Members who may read the threads or may simply be here to seek out companionship. There may be many who feel left out or hurt. I know in the poll, the majority enjoyed these threads but there was also a group who saw no value in it. And as we've seen, this can change based on personal bias at any point and was only a handful out of the thousands of members. So, perhaps overall, it really isn't a positive venture or instead something that looks positive on the surface but underneath is not. Duality is common it is only when the balance tips that things get questionable. My goal is to be part of a vibrant exciting community of people who support the industry and the people behind it, whether SP or hobbyist. I have to think about what serves that goal best.

Notch, you transcend description but you always stand out in a crowd, entertain the masses with your sexy posts and when you have something to say, we notice. Thanks for being such a wonderfully unique person and I'm looking forward to many more sizzlers from you!

Makes perfect sense and I stand by my original comment that you should be able to find that here. The only thing you need to do is figure out who fits your bill of a sexy lady (take a look at their posted albums and use the search function to know who is out there) and then contact them and arrange the session of your choice. Be up front about what you want (sexual touching or not, kissing or not) and then enjoy your date. Good luck with it! :biggrin:

Inspirations and words of wisdom combined with sports, music and of course support for our lovely ladies gives us all something to enjoy.Thank you for all you do and congrats on your first milestone!

I started reading erotica at a very young age when I found my mothers hidden stash. Then I made a deal with the guy who ran my local corner store in my small outskirt so I could rent movies and buy the magazines (loved the small digest with stories and pics). I had an amazing stash of retro porn, hot and dirty until an ex BF stole them all. It's always been a part of my existence although nowadays, it's a much smaller part. I find I love erotica more where I can create visuals and stories in my mind as opposed to watching them. When it comes to porn, I like those that use actors who genuinely seem to be enjoying themselves. I love cool angles, close up shots and I like it dirty and passionate. I love cock so there is some gay porn I adore. I love retro porn because it was about the sex and not the bells and whistles. had a great energy to it. I dislike lesbian porn where the girls have perfect 2"-3" nails and you wonder how much damage is going to be done. I like some BDSM stuff as long as it's not into the extremes. I get off on in your face porn and by that I mean I put on three different good scenes, crank it up and let the sounds and the need wash over me until...well, you know. lol People watch porn; men, women and everyone in between. Some don't, some do. Ain't life grand!

Congratulations on your first CERB milestone. From the giggle I got when you said how your ID come about so all the comments on information you post about your local places and ladies. Winnipeg is really taking off lately and you are part of that reason. Keep it up!

Can you perhaps clarify "just massage provider"? There is a wealth of registered massage therapists in this city. However, being here I assume you are not looking for "just massage" but you are looking for a massage with either a HE? I'm sure any one of the lovely ladies in the area who offer massage would be quite happy to provide whatever you are looking for equivalent to other areas. Both Katherine and Lilly are trained and as far as I'm aware have a separate massage area with a table. Gina Hunter is another when she is in town. So it's basically whoever might strike your fancy, check out their website or ask them for whatever service you require. I know there are also a few threads on Asian massage only providers as well as those who provide extras. I have all the confidence that you will find what you're looking for.

In trying to find a balance for all, I have started a post recognition thread. This way, all recognitions can be found in one place preventing clutter of the board. It also allows us to continue to thank those contributing. Perhaps we might also want to do the same for birthdays? Thanks to everyone who commented and voted. Hopefully this will find that balance.

In keeping with the spirit of this wonderful community, this is a thread to recognize the contributions of our members in making this a vibrant and fun place to be. Not only to indulge our senses in sensual delights but also tempt and support our palates, minds, hearts, souls and everything else that makes us human. Let's use this thread to recognize and thank while also respecting those who have a differing opinion. Thank you to everyone who made your voices heard. :ThankYou:

To our beautiful and color lady. You add much to these virtual pages and an energy all your own. Can't wait for more.

I read something many moons ago that has stuck with me. It was that a true genuine smile will not just impact the mouth but the eyes. When the eyes are smiling as well as the mouth, you have touched someone. When the smile does not reach the eyes, the smile is a response and is painted on. I tend to look at the eyes and the whole face now. If a smile doesn't quite touch the eyes, if I'm in a position to, I'll make sure they're ok. I often smile "just because"...the air smells wonderful, you see a cute scene, see something beautiful or inspiring. I think even the smiles you give yourself are gifts and sometimes those gifts touch others. Just because you smile to yourself doesn't mean someone else didn't see it and in turn smile. Lovely thing about smiles, they are contagious and create wonderful energy. Pass a smile on today even if only to yourself.

I know there have been pros and cons on both sides of this issue. Some think it clutters up the threads and is another obligation. Some believe it's nice to recognize the contributions of those who are trying to make this a great place on the web for those involved in the industry. With a recent post, it had me thinking about the value of continuing to do this. Do you think it's a positive thing you would like to see continue or is it a waste of energy and not needed?

I find whenever decision makes rush the decision they are going with whatever is in their head and the addition of "talking to government and police" doesn't give me much hope for a good outcome but you never know. Would have been nice to see "we're going to look closely at this decision and not rush into new laws without knowledge. We want to speak to those it impacts, the sex workers, as well as government and police officials to get a clear picture". According to this, we'll know sooner than later

Have a wonderful birthday full of happiness and pleasures you enjoy!