Midnite-Energies

LOl I'm not the only one who can do this....everyone can! Pisaqlove I very much enjoyed your thank you post and say congratulations here as well. This community is built on involvement which is what makes it so special so those adding to it should be recognized. This site could so easily be like others but it's not and that takes the effort of many. Thank you for being part of it. :lovers:

I love how something starts so simply and then looking back years later has become this amazingly important thing. Happy CERBaversary and may there be many many more! :lovers:

I am SO loving this one...all animal lovers... Puppy Love

I'm reading WAY too many instances of expectations and "should's" placed on relationships. If you're really my friend you would or wouldn't do this, if you really liked/loved me you wouldn't/would do this or that. We are all adults with lives and situations. Every one is different. If I have a friend who is struggling and I need their services and want to pay them as opposed to having them "free" me the service, does that make me any less a friend or the relationship any less important because they take it? I've known people who host dinner regularly because it's become a friendly habit but when things get tough, they do it anyway and then have regret later. Is that true friendship? To me, and this is only my opinion, friendship is about love and caring. You share parts of yourself with someone else. You're honest with them, you care about what happens to them and you are interested in them, not for what they can do for you but for what they add to your life by being there. You can have friends you don't have full disclosure with, you don't tell everything to and you don't share all with. Does that make it any less a friendship? I think everyone is stumbling over the unimportant stuff instead of focusing on the central theme. We are all people, SP or hobbyist. we all have feelings and needs and wants regardless of what we do. We can find love and friendship within ANY relationship and the way it's set up depends on the people involved. There are so many situations and stories outside the realm of thinking I've seen here that to make it black and white detracts from the range of human emotion IMO. Not saying I'm right because I can only be right for myself. Just as everyone here has to be right for themselves. I'm just saying, before you judge or state yes or no, give some thought to what might be outside your knowledge, personal experience, biases etc. and think that there may be situations where anything can and does happen and many times, for the right reasons. Okay...heading back to my blog to look at erotica!

I like Joseph1952 because he has this joie de vivre that comes out in many of his posts and they make me smile. Plus he is helpful to others and shares what he knows.

There are so many rules and stigmas that society places on us and we tend to look at every situation through this biased filter. Every person is unique and so is every relationship had by two people. There are so many variables in any situation base don the people involved that how can anyone say for sure that it will or will not be this way or that? If one wants to follow society rules and ignore their inner voice or their heart then sure, it's gets easier to structure life and relationships but I for one would rather determine how a relationship works based on who is involved and their situations at any given point in time. You cna be a friend and a client, you can be a friend but not a client. You cna also be a lover in either situation. Or you can determine that nothing can happen because it's not traditional or fitting with the rules and perhaps lose out on something amazing. I believe relationships can be whatever we want and need them to be. They just have to be consensual, positive, open and honest.

Beauty, brains and a very dirty minded creativity are the beginning of your charms. Open, honest and forthright also come to mind. You are supportive of this community and definitely add a wonderful flair. Looking forward to many more!

Positivity attracts more. The Law of Attraction is a wonderful thing or it can be a silent killer. Keep your thoughts positive and deserving and you'll attract good things to you. Go the other way....well, it's much easier to attract negative than positive. Happy things worked out on the original thing, hope more good things come your way!

Have a fantastic day! Happy Birthday

Have a day as wonderful as you are..

For me personally, it's about balance between the two, actually balance in everything. There is nothing wrong with the pursuit of pleasure and in fact, some people view that as a goal to achieve. I believe we all have lessons to learn in this life and while we may not understand either our own or others, they are just as important and real. Someone that is pursuing pleasure with determined focus may in fact be learning lessons in connection, balance or fear. While someone on the flip side who holds themselves rigid from pleasure may be learning the exact same thing. For me, I need to share something from my pleasure. If someone is simply taking and not sharing enjoyment with me, that pleasure then loses it's appeal where if someone is present and sharing, it amps up all the pleasure found within the pleasures. I also need to remain spiritual within pleasure by listening to my inner voice and being true to that. If I'm not, I find the pleasure principle is removed. M belief is it boils down to individuality and what works for each individual. We are all on our own path of discovery and what works for one may not work for another. Some it's balance some excess in one or the other or perhaps none of either. I think what's unhealthy for us is ignoring the voice inside that directs us and instead following the voice of our ego which is fear driven and existing but not living.

Even though your ID means someone random or unimportant in a crowd, I think everyone on CERB has knowledge of you and you've gone beyond just "some guy". You support the community, try to make it fun, playful and interactive and are willing to offer advice when you can. You may watch too many movies but I think there are a few who will give you a run. Keep posting and participating and we'll see what you come up with next!

For me it's: Water (crave it), Tea (especially when stormy), Bourbon (Evan Williams and Jim Beam Devil's Cut...used to be Wild Turkey 101 but they discontinued it up here). Coffee with Bailey's Caramel Candy Cane Hot Chocolate from Second Cup Strawberry Margarita's

Happy Birthday you amazing man! Good luck with your gallbladder gift, we know bacon will be on your mind. Then maybe a couple bacon wrapped ladies...

It was almost just yesterday my friend that I congratulated you on 500 posts and now you're at 1000. Sometimes they flow too easily especially when one is giving of their passions in life. You do this in a very honest way not to mention fun, playful and expansive. Thank you for giving as you do and I look forward to many more.

YES, that Traci Lords

Happy Birthday. May your day be filled with everything you deserve!

This is definitely a delicious form of pleasure, both giving and receiving. I very much enjoy it. Many ladies state in their ads or on their website that they do one or the other or both. Those that don't that you happen to be intresteded in, ask respectfully as per their contact request. I'm sure you'll find someone to indulge this pleasure with. If you're simply inquiring whether we enjoy it, then yes,I do as do many others. I know this had been discussed before so as simple search would turn up the past discussions. I find it quite sexy and erotic.

Do everything possible to take care of yourself nlwoodchuck. I hope you recover quickly!

I can't keep up with you anymore. I just post one milestone and your dirty mind and pics have you at yet another so I will simply say Grazia! Keep us enticed and smiling and we shall love you in return!

Well my friend, you have finally arrived at 500. I have enjoyed your contributions whether they be asking questions to make us think and share, laughing at your bobby distraction or just enjoying what you have to say. Just don't forget to take care of yourself among all those posts that way we see more from you! :boobies:

I seem to find you on many threads that interest me and have often enjoyed what you have to say. Whether you are offering advice, sharing knowledge and support, calling stupidity as you see it or letting your human side show, you definitely add to this community and I'm looking forward to your next 500! Thanks :makeout:

Thank you SO much for this. I didn't realize it had already begun airing in the UK again. Love this show and am downloading now. SO excited. Benedict Cumberbatch and Martin freeman are excellent together and of course having Mark Gatiss and Steven Moffat of Doctor Who as the creative team...*drool* I was initially on the fence about Elementary, LOVED Jonny Lee Miller but not sure about Lucy Liu but have to say I love their chemistry.

Hope your birthday rocks...I'll bring drinks