Midnite-Energies

You will be missed...I'm sorry to see you go but hope you find whatever it is your heart seeks in this world. Take care.

Congrats on your first milestones of 100 posts. I'm sure the club ladies in Ottawa appreciate your enthusiasm and input on your experiences. Hope 2014 sees more from the both of you as well as many pleasures you're hoping to find!

I know I'm a couple posts early but I also know you will probably be caught up by the time I post this. 10,000 posts, second only to MOD, is quite the achievement. I think everyone who has ever browsed a forum has read words of wisdom from you and learned something. Many of us appreciate your candor, thoughtfulness, sweetness and playfulness as the occasion warrants. So happy you're here and as always, looking forward to many more posts. Big *MUAH* for you. :bowdown:

Excaliber and Jafo105, I'm so sorry for everything you're dealing with right now. Sending positive energy, strength and hugs to get through this time. JAFO105, your mother has already proven she's a fighter and she'll fight this as well. Excaliber, prayers to your family!

The two gifts I recall the most were not toys. One was a am/fm cassette player with built in speakers, very high tech for the year I go it and I wore it completely out. Music was my life. The second was a violin shaped music box that played Edelweiss, a song that was very dear to me for no apparent reason. I also always got a GC for a bookstore and would spend hours picking out my books. Back in the day when you could get a few for $20.

I'll step off onto a limb here. Many times it's fear of the unknown that holds us back. You have someone you have a great rapport with, value as a friend and has many qualities you like. No one would want to lose that in their life so for fear of that, they hold themselves back from perhaps a bigger and greater relationship. As some have said, it could be a signal that there is no interest. You are the only one who can determine if it's fear or disinterest and it may take some heart searching. As I've said before, I would rather risk and have no regrets then play safe and always wonder. I have learned from every chance I've taken, both good and bad. Even during the bad, I would never wish I didn't have the experience. Considering you would fuck her, that says she hold some attraction so maybe you either fear taking it further and having to commit to a relationship or you have no interest beyond the physical. Again, only you can determine that. Good luck.

Hope your birthday and the holidays are full of the things that make you smile, the people you love most and all things that bring joy!

Sending hugs and positive energy your way. Sometimes good things are in not so great packages!

I like curiousm7 for many reasons including his heart, support and openness to new things. :biggrin:

You may not post often but when you do it's with insight, thoughtfulness and support, all things very much appreciated in this community. Looking forward to more!

I'm sure anyone who loves redheads, boobies and fripples applauds your efforts in posting beautiful and sexy pics for the masses. Throw in side orders of support, insight and well wishes and you have a wonderful posting combination. Looking forward to more!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Follow your heart wherever it leads and may the road be paved with pleasure galore and things to make you smile!

'IwlIj ghogh yIQoy I will miss you!

First my apologies sweet friend for missing your milestone when it happened. I have enjoyed, read and commented on many of your posts. You put yourself into many, are thoughtful and share your experiences to help and support others. Plus you have lots of pics, music, inspirations to entertain and entice. Good luck with everything and keep on keepin' on! *muah*

I'll chime in again here after spending some thought after reading EmilyJ's latest Blogasm entry http://www.blogasms.xxx/war-on-christmas/ As I said on Twitter, I don't believe all traditions are anti-progressive. Some traditions should be kept, maintained and added however, these are more personal traditions and are related to people's beliefs, families, love and caring. As Emily J pointed out, some traditions such as traditional marriage, rights for women and of course sex workers, should be changed to reflect the times. Why am I stating this in the Christmas thread? Because of the War of Christmas that is being spoken of. I do believe it is government, political and media hype that stirs us to cast a critical eye, be judgmental and pick up the gauntlet. I grew up hearing Merry Christmas in stores, from neighbors etc. This was back before there was such a melting pot. I did experience the change where working in the public sector we were directed by corporate to say "Happy Holidays" so no one would be offended. Just like the slew of other political correct stuff you're supposed to do or say so that others don't get offended. So many things that just happened and are now "norm". I would rather police myself and my reactions then have someone tell me what I can and cannot do. As many have said, I take greetings and acknowledgements this time of year in the spirit they are given. After examining my thoughts today, I realized that part of my upset was caused by the lack of tradition in school concerts. I completely agree with Brad that other religions, beliefs or non beliefs should not be forced to do something which is not comfortable for them in order to participate. So honestly, my upset in personal because I miss the days of traditional songs where everyone knew the words and sung along. A little more thinking shows a completely different state of "PEOPLE". It's the technology state and it's more about cell phones, video and the latest gadgets to capture the whole ordeal. So after all this rambling, my upset is completely personal because of the shift overall. It is up to each individual to make the holiday whatever they chose to make it. Be upset or not, be happy or not. It's all a choice. Peace on earth, goodwill towards men. A traditional statement but one that shouldn't be abandoned because it is as meaningful now as then. Live and let live. Be tolerant and treat others as you wish to be treated. If politicians or governments step in to take that away, stand up and be heard. My apologies is this is rather disjointed, still thinking but wanted to throw a different perspective out there that yes, maybe it IS all in our heads and we need to step back and re-examine our thinking.

D is for dashing through the snow to make it to your date on time!

What can I say mister, you are lovely. You share many a sexy pic for the entertainment of the masses, share your thoughts, advice and stories in a fun, sweet and meaningful way and you also have a very delicious and naughty mind. Keep on posting, it wouldn't be the same without you! *muah*

@realnicehat, the "instincts" I'm speaking of are of a more spiritual nature and involve what's best for the person. Self control, moderation, sex, love etc. are all human needs/instincts and each person deals with them in different ways. Some are positive for us, some are negative. They involve choice as most things in life do as well as risk, want vs need and a slew of other "head" components. In that respect, you are correct, it IS all in the head.

I would rather risk heartache and pain and have no regrets than to not take a risk and wonder "what if" and perhaps miss out on something great. Everything in my life, good and bad, has taught me something which made me better, stronger or happier in the end. That was worth whatever happened!

I am of a more re-structured mind. Our instincts (or inner voice) is more connected to our heart than our head. Our head is the center of ego (thus the negative voice that's louder then the rest). When we quiet ourselves enough to hear the inner voice, THAT is the one that never steers us wrong. So I would say get out of your head, get out of your heart and hear the inner voice. You are right, there is no such thing as "never". If we listen to the right voice, things fall into place even if they seem impossible. Speaking from experience, I have found this to be true. Good luck.

Katherine is also someone that comes to mind http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=29603 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=30844&highlight=katherine

You're not giving a lot to go on here. There are a number of well reviewed mature providers locally. 30+ - Katherine, Lilly, Cristy, myself, Lexy and Gina Hunter. There may be others however I can't verify ages on those. Depends on what other attributes you're looking for and then who gives you that tingle. If you're looking from BP or CL, sorry can't help you there although I'm sure there are many gents who can. Good Luck!

I agree, I go through this every year. What gets me is that in society's ploy to be politically correct and not offend anyone, they are offending me because it's my holiday too. I can't talk about my holiday because it might offend others but yet they have free reign to speak about theirs. Have we really become that sensitive that someone can't say something to us without getting bent out of shape? If someone says Happy Hanukkah, I'm not going to get offended, I'm going to smile and say "thanks, same to you". If I want to say merry Christmas to a clerk in a store who then says it back, they shouldn't get spoken to because they did. We used to teach about tolerance and acceptance but because it's being pushed to rigorously, it seems to be having the opposite effect. Just like "social media" which was supposed to make us more social, has actually reduced our ability to be social with other people. We're great behind a keyboard but not in person anymore. Too many rules about too many things and not enough of the basics.

F is for fucking.....slow and dirty, fast and hard with need, over and over with greed!