Midnite-Energies

Z is for zodiac which can give some great indicators about how passionate your union might be

I'm so sorry. That was definitely not the way to enter into this experience. I am happy you've found CERB though as there is so much good information, people and top notch ladies here that I can safely say if you take some time to plan your next date, it will go much better. The one thing you didn't touch on was how you happened to connect with this SP in the first place. So I will touch on the best way to approach. As others have said, browse the ads in your area and find a lady or two that entice you and you are attracted to. Look at their websites, read their reco's and then contact them in their preferred way. Have a conversation and see how that feels to you. One step should build on the next in excitement factors, you should always feel comfortable yet excited. If anything seems off or uncomfortable, determine if it's your interactions or perhaps a question you need to ask. Your gut will never lie to you. I hope your next date is everything you anticipated positively for the first and more. Never forget, there are gentlemen here who have been in your situation in case you need help or advice. Good Luck! <hugs>

@Penelope Davis I think you would look amazing in either of the last two. Very sexy.

L is for licks and laps all around the beautiful labia

That's excellent. You may want to create a recommendation thread for her as I'm sure others would love to know.

We all know that a good haircut/style can either add or detract from you. For women, perhaps more than men, it can definitely make a difference and we spend a lot of time on this feature. I've also been told I sometimes have a weird perception of what men think so I'm coming to the source. When it comes to hairstyles on ladies, men what do you find sexy? Short, long, curls, straight, waves? Ponytails, pigtails, pulled back, loose and flowing? Share with me and give me the what and why...pretty please!

F is for the finger that slowly slides between my lips gathering the nectar found there and rubbing it in

C is for come hither and let me partake of your flesh *tee hee*

Ahhh my lovely friend (Miquleon)....you are such a blend of nice, playful and downright dirty...a few of the many things I admire about you. Plus you're such a supportive member to everyone with a hint of naughtiness of course!! And since I came late to the party...RG, you are in a class all yourself. A rambler, thoughtful, caring and so supportive of us ladies. Notch Johnson....you make me laugh and your naughty flair is very delightful Mighty Finn - not sure exactly what to say so I'll have to discover you!! I promise to be gentle.

My friend, you need to slow down with the dirty posts, I can't keep up. Between supporting all the lovely ladies and being completely sweet you keep all the gentlemen spoiled with boobies, fripples, redheads and all manner of sexy in between. You definitely keep the community humming right along!

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Love for everybody!!! I love a rambling man and forthright and sexy ladies. What a foursome we'd be! lol

And again, I'm bringing up the rear on emiafish....now what a visual THAT is!! Pardon me while I contemplate it for a moment.... Okay, subject at hand. "You make me laugh, you make me cry, you make me cream whilst I do sigh "please give me what I need so bad, I'm tired of this distance...so sad" Plus I like those who recognize good taste in filthy pictures although you have never once commented on my blog! tee hee

T is for Texas Titty Twister.....fellas, please do not try this with your favorite lady!

Here is another thread on this for extra value... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=142785 As has been said, the best way to know what it specifically means to a provider is to ask. In general terms, to me (YMMV) open minded means that you are open to different aspects of sensuality and sexuality AND you are also open to discussing non mentioned aspects in a respectable non-judgmental way. Your discussions are safe and could potentially lead to more based on the specific SP.

Thanks for letting me know. It USED to say Halifax...well dang nabbit!

I like that webothscore has a playful and fun loving nature that comes out with some of the other members. He makes me think and laugh....killer combo!

Thanks for the feedback webothscore. I agree, if you start delving into profiles, postings, guestbooks and even friends you get a good feel for the location of a person. I definitely understand where you're coming from as a traveler as location is a bit of a moot point and it's more about the lady herself. For me, being a stationary lady, I find I spend a lot of time determining location for those no where near me. Mind you I sometimes find a lot of interesting tidbits in my online search so i can't say it was a complete waste of time. You are correct...Halifax IS gorgeous and I can't wait for the fall colors!

Congrats my friend. Not only are you well read and have a great interpretation of the ABC's but you are also thoughtful, supportive and have interesting experiences to share. Thank you for making my reading more fun. Looking forward to the next milestone.

L is for Love to Love You Baby!

I love that you gents all have one specific thing you look forward to, I think that's awesome. There is no way I would be able to narrow it all down to just one thing though. There are so many things I look forward to, anticipate, get wet about. Not only that but there's what happens with specific people too. I'm happy I inspired the thoughts and visuals that led to this thread because I love when I get them from others posting here.

V is for voice raised in orgasmic bliss.....love that

I'm loving all these comments and discussions...like DUH, I love cock! Thanks for bringing up the BLS as I enjoy this as part of the overall lovin'. I find ball play is even more highly specific then a blow job and the one aspect I want input. I've found balls can range from "don't even look at them the wrong way they're so sensitive" to "put on those boots and trample me". I've had those who love to be licked but not sucked, sucked but not licked, hands only and everything in between. I do want to say, on a personal note, that I want to please you and would very much prefer communication, even if it has to be a forceful STOP, over suffering through. Sometimes I know I can be a little intense and I have thought to myself on an occasion or two whether I was reading or misreading cues; only human and all. If I'm being too intense or teasing too much, I would rather know especially if I am misreading. As Peachy said, we are always learning and growing and just because one is a professional, does not mean learning has stopped. Communication really is the key especially if you're only seeing someone every now and then. The longer the interactions and more frequent, the greater the ability to "learn" someone. Just remember to make the learning part of the fun and not a put down, demand or other negative aspect. let's share the pleasure, giving and receiving. Oral anyone??? *rawr*

Unfortunately it's not just this app. There are many that utilize the GPS on your phone to track your whereabouts and some even post it somewhere. The only safe bet is to turn off all GPS functions. It's also important to read the features on apps because most times we're granting full access to these apps. We seem to be becoming a society of more monitoring and that is not a good thing.

I think this is an excellent question to raise. I've always found it interesting when it comes to women the norm is "every woman is different, learn your woman" especially in regards to oral sex but you never hear the reciprical comment geared towards men. Every man is different. No two men masturbate the exact same way so why would we think they like to be sucked the same way. I have techniques I like and enjoy but I always look, listen and feel for cues. Sometimes it is difficult and direction would be great. HOWEVER, like most things, it depends on how the direction is offered. There is a proactive shared communication and there is a "jerk with an attitude" type. Most people would not react well to the latter and it would definitely spoil the mood rather quickly. Sex is all about exploration and finding what's pleasurable and enjoyable. Communication and direction applies to everything: BJ's, oral, nipples, kissing etc. We are all different and we all react differently. I LOVE having a cock in my mouth and I believe I'm good at what I do because I am passionate about it and try to be tuned in. I always say once you believe there is nothing left to learn, it's time to die. As for deep throat, it depends on the cock. With men of size, depending on the throat, it can be uncomfortable where for another shape/size, it's heaven. Sex should never cause pain (unless you're into those aspects of BDsM) so if it's feeling uncomfortable or even painful, please stop it. I'm very interested to see more replies to this topic.