Midnite-Energies

N is for never fear, Midnite is here. Never shall blue balls be present again!!

K is for keep the flames burning with a kiss, a lick, a well placed lap, a suck, a giggle and then inferno Additional Comments: L is for Lick it like an all day sucker

For me, what I do now is perfect. It's the meeting of two (or three) people intimately and enjoyably and I find more time than not I am energized by it not depleted. I've had jobs in the past where my favorite parts were when I could sneak off to silence for a little bit and make everyone go away. Too many, too much. How many would ever think to say sex workers are introverted!

Thanks Gabby. I was in a bit of a hurry when I typed out my question so left certain things unsaid. I agree, I would never add a city based on profile visits but it does give an opportunity to delve into that location a bit more to see if perhaps there might have been missed interest and a chance to branch out. I have read posts and such to determine a location however that's only with those I take an interest in. The others I just make a noise and move on. Thank you to everyone for your input. I assumed it was privacy or disinterest, it's just one of those things that coming up for me

I have noticed MANY profiles of hobbyists are very stark which I can understand because sometimes you're new and have no idea what to write or even what you might be looking for. I am finding though that there is never any location associated which I find rather frustrating personally because I enjoy knowing where people are from. Not only does it give me an idea of those who are local but also an idea of what areas may be interested. Example..if I have a lot of people checking me out from say Winnipeg, I might, if I were traveling, look at this as a place to include. On a smaller scale, I just like to know the local scene and who is around even if they are not around for me. So my question, why don't you include a location on your profile when SP's generally find this useful?

I LOVE anal. It's a very intense amazing feeling. There are so many nerve endings that it's a whole different feeling. I love sex period and wouldn't want to chose any one activity over another because it's the whole spectrum that makes it such a wonderful activity. There is also the whole aspect mentally that you're completely opening yourself to someone in ways that may be taboo to some. Mind you, in order to make it good, you need to have the right approach, you can't just force it in and entry should be slow and easy. When it's not, it can have impact on whether someone views it positively or not.

I believe there are times and circumstances that should and do require a deposit. When you are looking at a situation that requires a pre-book of some sort (IE: for a special cruise, GB, specialized service such as wine tour etc.) then yes, a deposit should be required because the SP in question is providing money up front to whatever business they are dealing with. Some of this industry relies on other businesses to function and this should be taken into account. The gentlemen who book these situations or events, should book with full knowledge of why and be held responsible for the booking. This will not appeal to many people however, it is a small selection of hobbyists that it would pertain to in the first place. For a normal encounter, cash in hand should be fine. However as Lee Richards mentioned, if it is better for the client and they wish this, then it should be available. All legitimate SP's who have clientele, are established and who are above board state rules, information and criterion for a reason. This gives the hobbyists the chance to either reject or accept a date. If you don't like the terms, find someone else. No one is twisting arms here. You can try to negotiate or play games but you're only shooting yourself in the foot. As has been mentioned numerous times, if you don't like the game, don't play it. There are many other people who play the game that you want so go find them. Pleasure is actually made very simple by most of the legitimate ladies. here is what I want, here is what you do, here is what happens. Communication on everything in between. Simple. Don't make it complicated by adding a bunch of bartering, issues, complaints that serve no one. And with that....I shall grab my vibe and sign off. I think I'm too serious!

You said shenanigans and high jinks!! I can just imagine the trouble you would get into with an adventurous woman. Emiafish, you make me smile and I very much enjoy you...just not in the ways I sometimes entertain in my head in the dark of night *drat*

Q is for quickie because sometimes, you just can't wait!

I'm sure if there is a brand/type you favor that most SP's would be open to your bringing them however I would definitely check ahead of time. There are a number of us that have sensitivities/allergies to latex which very much limits what can be used and must be taken into consideration. The nice thing about non latex condoms is unlike latex, they transfer heat. The main answer to this and all questions is "you won't know unless you ask"!

G is for Going to get that transporter technology online NOW!!!! *rawr*

E if for Enjoying being a CERB lady!

Z is for ziplock bag if you're selling panties (tee hee)

I SO need to branch out my toy and pleasures collection.

Here you go. There was something else mentioned somewhere but I couldn't locate it. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=126630&highlight=kaitlyn http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=117387&highlight=kaitlyn

I'm so sorry you're having to suffer with this. It is never easy seeing those you love in a position where you feel helpless to help. My first thought is that your dog is young and could have potentially many years of love and happiness left. Yes, it may be tempered by not being able to do normal things but there is still the ability to love, be a friend and experience life in different ways. If the surgery can provide this and alleviate some of the pain, I would at least try it and see how it works out. To me, if there's an option, it should be tried. If you were in this position, would it be fair to you to live and enjoy life and find different things to love and enjoy or to take life away from you? Stay strong. It's always good to look for support where you can and I know there are many animal lovers on this board. I'm sure you'll get compassionate advice that may help with your decision!

Ignore them or smile as that definitely throws them off. If you're still speaking of them in the terms you used today, that means they took a lot of your personal power way back when. Don't give the satisfaction of acknowledging the past and giving away power now. Or, you could always take the higher path and walk up to them and say "I forgive you" and do....then let it go. Forgiving is not the same as forgetting. Forgiving is for you. If they're lucky, they have changed their ways. If not, it will bother them but that's on them, not you.

I am by no means a legal expert so you may want to seek a lawyer to ask this question especially since the word "sue" was bandied about. Personally, I would think that if you are running a business and you have an "invitation" stating all the pertinent details including information on deposits and cancellations, to me this would be a legal document and as such provide a disclaimer for what the gentlemen is demanding. Do these clients have to sign anything to be on the guest list or do they just verbally request, pay and it's done? This would be a solid defense. However, having information on the invitation and the exchange of funds can also be legally binding as a contract. As I said, not knowing exactly what's involved and to what degree, I would say cover yourself with some legal advice so you know exactly where you stand. This gives you either the upper hand to say "non refundable" or "half" (if you want to extend the olive branch) or to know whether it's best to suck it up, cross said client off any future lists and learn from the experience. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. Unfortunately in the upper echelon there is a belief that the customer is alw2ays right even when they're not. Good Luck!

My first thought is if it was something you did/didn't do, she would not have spoken to you twice more or looked up setting up an appointment and if she did, that is not the professional way to "back away". Good reviews or no, this is very unprofessional behavior, all three times. Is she having issues? No clue but I would expect if someone is advertising a lot that having clients is important so one wouldn't behave this way. If you behaved this way towards a lady here, you would NOT have a second opportunity to to it. I understand the intrigue and interest and only you can decide if she's worth pursuing on the off chance that one day things may click and you can meet. Or you may end up with futile efforts that end in failure as the other three have. I have no idea where her reviews are but you also have to ask, are they real. I am sure that even with your particular tastes and interests that there is "someone" out there who will not give you this run around or treat you so callously and unprofessionally. If you can seriously look at yourself and say "I behaved as I normally do and did nothing wrong" then you are not the one with the issue however you are the one with the decision to make. I'm sorry you are dealing with this as well as questioning yourself from someone else's behavior. My advice would be to do yourself a favor and move on. I'm sure someone else will value you.

Thank your sharing your thoughts, insights and support with this community. You have made me laugh (although sometimes at your frustration about threads) and nod in agreement but most of all you support the lovelies that are in or travel to Winnipeg both on their own and to other hobbyists. You are also respectful when you do. Looking forward to more!

You are supportive of everyone on this board and lend your voice and experience to many threads. Not only that but you give of yourself to all the lovely gentlemen of Ottawa! Lucky fellows! Thanks for making this board a great place to be!

I must be unique in that darkness makes me horny. I get SO excited when DST ends and it gets dark earlier. Summer nights are definitely wonderful too especially if you can get outside. Don't get me wrong, mornings/afternoons on cool crisp sheets in the summer are awesome as is sex anytime...I just find my natural rhythms more nocturnal than anything. Winter is definitely a great time to get the heat turned up!

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Welcome to our crazy sexy little world where pleasure awaits and so do the bad jokes, thoughtful discussions and everything else you need to know...EVER! LOL

T is for "take it, one inch at a time"