Midnite-Energies

N is for necking in the back seat on a hot summers night

One of my favorite memories involves my Grampie. He's actually my stepfather's father but we always had this connection even though we didn't live close to one another. When he passed away I went to the funeral and actual gravesite which are things I try to avoid because I am way to empathic to not be affected. Grampie always had a smile and a great sense of humor. I hadn't seen him in awhile before he died. At the service, one of the younger cousins sang a song and I felt Grampie there and knew he loved hearing it. There were also a couple more times when I could sense his enjoyment and that he was close to me. I figured out of everyone in the room, I was the one who would be sensitive to him. Then when the burial was over, everyone was going back to his house for a reception. We were one of the last to go. When we went to get the keys to the car, the key was gone. I checked my spare key and it too was gone. I had the distinct feeling that Grampie wanted me to stay for awhile longer as we didn't have much time together prior to his passing. While others looked for the keys or a way to get into my car, I stood under the shade of a tree and talked to Grampie. I told him I knew he was there and that now he was happy and not changing (he was on heavy morphine that made him rather hateful which is why I didn't want to see him) and that I loved him and would miss him. I had such a wonderful feeling of love and peace and then it was gone. I reached into my pocket and my key was back and when we checked, so was the spare. I smiled all the way to the house. This is just one potent example, I have experienced others and have had friends tell me about their experiences. I believe there is much beyond our senses and unless we believe in it, we will never see or experience it.

L is for laughter as there should always be fun in sex!

I was extremely lucky to receive a new story submission today so it's now posted on my blog for all to enjoy. Bathing in the Sun is an anonymous submission but delicious! http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/

I find it's the person who is most comfortable in their own skin that is sexiest. Someone who knows their worth and isn't afraid to be themselves whether it be what they wear, what they say, how they say it or any number of things that make them who they are. Someone who is not out to impress anyone but is down to earth, authentic and open. A sense of humor is a must and especially the ability to laugh at themselves when needed. Taking oneself too seriously is definitely NOT sexy. Treating people well, intelligence, imagination, easy going, playful, non judgmental, accepting people for who they are....these are all things that I find extremely sexy. Looks play a part to sometimes guide you in but it's the personality that will keep you there.

Hearing from some wonderful (and sexy) people who made my day very special...with nice thoughts, dirty thoughts and lovely smiles!

With the exception of the MOD, you have the most posts of anyone on this board and I find that amazing because your posts reflect so much of you, your thoughts, your support, your respect and your all around awesome sauce! You are there for everyone, old and new, and share your thoughts and insights to both help, inform and to make us smile or laugh. You are a true community leader, one post at a time. Thank you for everything you do!!! PS. Sorry I was 25 posts late! tee hee

I very much enjoy reading your posts even though we sometimes diverge in opinion. You are intelligent, thoughtful and supportive but throw in a cool sense of humor as well. I very much enjoy you and am looking forward to more.

E is for the essence of you that I love to sate my thisrt with

I have become quite used to being thrifty from necessity that it's a part of what I do now and it's more natural than anything else. make sit difficult to treat myself if/when I can because there is always something else I could be spending it on. Mind you, it's still necessity. Money is like politics though, I don't talk about it. It's too much of a "passion point' with people and everyone has an opinion and seems to feel the need to share, vehemently at times. Just not worth the negative energy created. I find most people talk from their own personal "bubble" without thinking that their bubble is different than my reality.

Oh Cristy, lady after my own heart. Those scenes were amazing. They had such Chemistry. My favorite from Wild Orchid has always been the couple in the abandoned building under the water while being watched by Carrie Otis' character but there were so many sexy scenes in that movie. Henry and June had some brilliantly sexy scenes as well. Actually so many movies do. I actually prefer an R rated scene to porn a lot of times because they capture that essence of sensuality and anticipation that porn doesn't have.

Have a fantastic birthday filled with everything that makes you smile, giggle and happy dance. Enjoy!

I may have missed the fun tonight but I have a bit to share. :aol_anal: New story by request from one of my readers. Enjoy! :aol_anal: http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/ The weekend was made for an endorphin rush!!

I'd love to take a tumble with Doreah...she is delicious! Throw in Khaleesi and Kahl and I'll be off and running.....side of IMP to!

Come on everyone!!! we've all been looking forward to this event to lets' help Katherine and Penelope pull it all together so everyone can have a great time! Everyone who was attending on on the original list and still planning to go, please email the ladies. Anyone on a wait list, please do the same. Remember, it's the people in any situation that make it great. Let's get everyone together and have fun!!!! Rah Rah sis boom bah, I knew some ladies with sexy bras...will be there and we know you all love those!!!

I have avoided this thread because this is not the attitude I enjoy buying into however I do want to make one statement and that is some hagglers, while trying to gain a better price for themselves are actually taking advantage of the ladies and their situation. Yes, you ask and then politely state "it's too much" and the lady comes back with "well, how much do you have" however why do you think this might be? This business is dynamic, it ebbs and it flows. Ladies set their rates base don their own set of criteria however like anyone else, they have bills to pay. Unlike a normal work situation, they do not get paid if business is slow. They may need to take a cut rate whether they want to or not because they have bills to pay, children to feed, families to take care of. They may not WANT to but they HAVE to and they may in turn feel like crap that they have had to "give a discount" on their worth. They may then provide great service because they are good people and good businesswomen. This does not mean they enjoyed the process. The men may think they struck gold but at what cost? Discounts in this business are earned by good customers who the lady appreciates. be thankful for this, don't expect it. The main point here is this is a business of PEOPLE, plain and simple. You are haggling the price of a person. Think about that. Whether you want to pay the price asked or not, think about that. If you wouldn't haggle the price of your sister, mother, brother, SO or anyone else close to you, why do you believe an SP does not deserve the same respect? Find someone you like who is charging a price you want unless they specifically say they negotiate. It's so simple yet such a very big issue.

Penelope Davis is in Truro and while I don't know her personally, she has a huge following here and wonderful recommendations. I've seen a few other names floating around but haven't heard much recently. I would definitely start with Penelope!

Open minded can also mean that they are open to specific kinks and fetishes usually with a non judgmental attitude. They may or may not offer such a service but you can feel comfortable asking about them and not like you'll be lambasted for it. Open to communication. As Meghan said, always be open about sharing your needs and desires as it will guarantee you the experience you're looking for!

http://www.rcmp-grc.gc.ca/nb/news-nouvelles/releases-communiques/13-07-19-150202-eng.htm This and many related articles were so short, you wouldn't think they'd be able to cram THAT much ignorance in. Still trying to figure out WHY. Anyone read anything?

Z is for Zealous....as in what I think about sex and cock...and sexy men..and beautiful ladies....and music

Just the fact you posted this here speaks volumes and for me personally, is a way for you to be heard. Judgements and ignorance run rampant in regards to this industry and people spout off like they know what they're talking about based on their own misconceptions, beliefs and personal bias. This is a fact of life for just about everything; someone has an opinion based in ignorance. I honestly do not expect anyone in this lifestyle to stand up and shout loud and clear when they have faced with friends/family/SO's who are so biased and judgmental. We all have lives to lead and we have to chose our battles. As long as we are staying true to who we are as we can, that's what's important. There are those who will stand up, those who stand up anonymously, those who try to inform as they can, when they can, where they can. You are in this boat as are most of us. It is difficult when you want to do/say more and are held back by whatever circumstance you are in. It doesn't make us bad people, it just makes us human, living a human experience. Don't be too hard on yourself in this situation especially after then coming here and apologizing to the ladies. I for one respect your decision not to say anything at the time and consider it the best course of action for you. Do what you can, when you can, continue to gain what you can from being in this lifestyle, be wonderful to the ladies you see and know you are appreciated for seeing and acknowledging the struggles that are out there!

mmmm lucky me...Emiafish...those big juciy lips that I have so many fantasies about, playful personality, supportive, thoughtful....just *rawr*

You are a beautiful lady who is supportive and shares herself with others (and not in the obvious ways). Your thoughts are helpful and timely and you are also warm and sexy! Can't wait to see more....happy you are here!

I like Meghan because she just made me smile BIG time! She's also lovely! *rawr* I like fiskaa because he too made me smile and gave me plenty of mental fodder too!! *spank*