Midnite-Energies

Have a fantastic birthday filled with all the lovely and sexy things you desire! Enjoy yourself!

Three Dog Night - Mama Told me Not to Come!

Thank you for your contributions on so many topics and in so many arenas. You share your thoughts on topics, offer advice, support the lovely ladies and also provide a few laughs on occasion. Looking forward to many more!!

This is when you bring on SOAP week: Sexual Oral Anal Pleasures week and massage of course. Thankfully I know within a day of when I'm going to start to give a heads up to those who want more. Ending is a little trickier but I take that into consideration. It's all good but I wish Aunt Flo would have a little more consideration and stay for a shorter visit and leave when I want to kick her out. Nothing makes me crazier then not being able to get it on when I want!

Samantha Fox VS Sabrina - Call Me Check out the boobs!!

Manifesting is a very real and very simple and powerful thing. The not so easy part is our mental chatter. The negative stuff manifests MUCH easier than the positive so even a few simple negative words spoken in our heads can create outcomes we don't want. Manifesting needs to be a focused intent but it's SO worth it. It also allows you to be kinder to yourself, to recognize the beauty in yourself and others and to be more positive in general. Once focused, good things start to happen which makes it easier to do which precipitates more good things. I try to be positive, thankful and non judgmental every day. Some days it's easier than others. I try to limit my venting or complaints as this creates negative energy which then feeds on the positive. As was mentioned, picture yourself already in the situation of having whatever it is you desire. See it, feel it, embrace it fully. One trick that goes hand in hand with this is after you have determined what you want, and you picture yourself in the situation or having it, see if there are any negative reactions to it. For example, if you want a million dollars, see if any negative thoughts crop up about the extra trouble it might cause or the extra work or people looking for handouts. If you notice these negative thoughts, imagine the worst case scenario for it IE: people who wouldn't give you their time before come looking for a hand out which will make you feel uncomfortable or upset. Take this thought and picture what would happen if you were to become upset. Maybe you lose those people or they call you a name and blackball you. Can you deal with that outcome? If so, you have just de-energized the negative thought thus allowing you to create more positive thoughts easier....end result. Easier Manifesting. Everything is energy and we can direct energy. This is a scientifically proven fact. Direct it correctly and you can create a wonderful existence. LOL sorry, this is all very close to my heart so I tend to get carried away!

I feel the need to mention this again as I've seen to many threads with the theme running through. I can be completely turned on, so totally into the person I'm with and wishing it would never end but NOT have an orgasm. Some ladies are lucky enough to reach orgasm easily, multiple times and with extreme wetness and squirting, others are not. Some take a little work or specific actions. I really dislike thinking someone would walk away from an incredible encounter feeling like they wasted their money because I didn't orgasm especially if I'm left feeling like begging them to come back for more. On the flip side, I'm sure there has been wonderful pleasure and dates with men who might have a little difficulty. Are those any less amazing? NO. I think there is incredible pressure put on the almighty orgasm to the point, it blocks out everything else and this is on both sides of the gender coin. Orgasms are wonderful, amazing things yet even on the basis of orgasms, people feel them in different ways. there are different types and levels of intensity. Do you feel gypped if you get one over the other? or if you have a small one not a huge one? I guess I'm saying why can't the journey be part of the pleasure, the enjoyment and the date and part of the reason you feel satisfied or chose to repeat? Destination is great but if your focus is on that, what did you miss or forget along the way? Just to clarify, I'm not dysfunctional, I do orgasm, I do get wet and I do enjoy every little thing about a date. I'm not scary LOL!

This all boils down to respect on BOTH sides. Everyone's time is valuable and worth something. Yes, sometimes things happens: sickness, accidents, people getting in the way but this can be handled respectfully, with notice and an apology. If it becomes recurrent, there is loss of respect and each party must decide if they are willing to accept that. I have felt bad every time I have needed to cancel and have offered something to make up for it later. If I can't offer the best of me, I respect someone enough to cancel. If there are things going on that can't be handled or I'm personally not doing a good job at balancing, then I need to respect myself and others by not scheduling appointments. If that becomes an issue, the onus is on me to fix the problem(s). Being upset by this is completely legitimate and it sucks when it happens. If it's something that can't be helped, chalk it up to life. If it ends up being more a respect issue (or lack thereof) then whoever is in the non respected issue needs to respect themselves and move on. There is also something to be said for communication. If you feel comfortable with the other ASK what's happening. Maybe it's something that can be overcome. We're all just people.

I didn't want to bother him/them if the only person interested was me and everyone else was fine. Needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few so to speak.

It does seem strange that SP/MA's get so much less then normal members considering communication is part of our business. I wonder if this might be open for discussion? Would those of us under the SP/MA classification be interested in higher inbox limits and would it matter to hobbyists if their limits were reduced (thus balancing out the server use)?

Happy Birthday Taylor. Hope you have lots of special moments that make you smile today as well as some wild fun and frolic to cap it off!!

Norah Jones - Turn Me On A repeat but so fitting http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jBD-VcjFqMM

Styx - The Best of Times

Anyone else notice their limits went down or know if this is permanent?

Spider Bait - Black Betty!

The Doors - Light my Fire

Actually for me it's a little more creative than that. Those little adjustable clamps (which reminds me I need to look) are great for nipples, dowels are the basis for homemade floggers, paint sticks, even diaphanous curtains have their use! lol

Triumph - Magic Power I need a little this am. I was at this show and it was phenomenal

The only thing that really matters is how you view yourself. This is not to say that if you're blind to your own faults that's a good thing but you can be happy AND blissfully ignorant of what's around and in you. Honestly though, most of us have some shadows inside to some degree and when things get said or done, those things can impact how we feel about ourselves. This is where personal work comes into play to figure out why we react that way and to heal the shadow. We generally value the opinion of those closest to us and accept constructive criticism given in the right light. While we value them, they are their own person so it's more our opinion of ourselves and how things feel to us that is the important aspect.

I agree, we do need a new law. My grand point is that there is bullying without pictures so this is only one part of a bigger problem. If they're serious about a new law, make it worthwhile, cover the bases and place responsibility directly on those doing it.

You never fail to have something up your sleeve for everyone. Whether boobies, bums, fripples or music, you give us our daily dose of sexy. You also support all our community members so for that, thanks and keep em coming!!

I just think there are better laws to put into place to address many of these issues. These are the days of social media and people think nothing of snapping pics of friends, lovers etc. and putting them wherever. I'm just saying that if you don't gain consent, should the relationship go bad at any point, this can work negatively. As an SP it doesn't really impact me, this impacts us as persons and I was speaking, as a person not an SP. I just find our government is very quick to jump under pressure and put things into place that are not well thought out or completely thought out. I would have to see how the final law read but as written there, I can see many loopholes causing even greater problems. Does this type of thing need to be addressed? Yes. Do the people who bully, threaten and act maliciously need to be dealt with? Yes. Is this the right avenue? I don't know.

And how would one gain consent and in what form is legal? The only possibility would be written consent and how many people will do that? If it's not written then who is to say that consent once given can't be rescinded if there is "malicious intent" on the opposite side to hurt (IE: relationship gone wrong, now I can get you charged). I hope they cover the bases here or this could stir up a whole new set of issues.

You'll like THIS one OD....I guarantee it!

I LOVE CIM or a combination where you take things to the edge and then as the yummy hot jism starts to flow you move it from your mouth to your lips and then all around mouth, cheeks etc...painting yourself. Of course you need to scoop and lick some afterwards *rawr*