Midnite-Energies

Little River Band - Night Owls I have no idea why this song has always stayed with me

Do you have any venues in mind yet Lexy?

I like emiafish because, while I never thought I would be saying this, every time I see his little bug eyed fish icon I get excited. Now it's happening in other places. Walmart had clown fish on a shower curtain, I stood stupidly in the aisle wondering why I was turned on and THEN....I realized it. I giggled a little! DOH! Mind you, they were missing the big sexy lips!

Have a wonderful day filled with things that make you smile (both happy and evil ones). I hope you encounter a few lovely surprises as birthdays should have them!! Enjoy!

Nancy Sinatra - These Boats Are Made For Walking

There was already a thread on this person closed by the MOD due to being outside the boundaries of CERB regarding positive feedback and keeping members safe. There has only been one positive comment so my suggestion would be to contact that person via PM to ask your questions and not to keep beating the dead horse. Sometimes what is not being said speaks volumes.

XYZ - After The Rain http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mb1NuFxf_4o

There is a pervasive perception in this industry that rate=quality. The lower the rate, the lower the quality of the woman behind it and the experience you will receive. To this I say, take your judgments and misconceptions and ***** them. Until you meet someone and interact with them, you will never know the quality of them so to make the above statement is judgment clear and simple. Personally, a rate reflects more than just the quality of the encounter because like any business, there are more things taken into account than the service provided. There is the space used for said services, how said services are presented, bells and whistles that accompany the service, the availability of the service and the service itself. I do not consider myself any less or any more quality than anyone else and to others, that is a subjective thing anyway. You could pay $50 or $500 yet if you don't connect with the person, that impacts the value you believe you received. Rates are personal to each individual and are set based on their own criteria and what the market will bear. Are rates set based on how each individual views themselves and the worth they believe they are bringing to the table? For some people, yes. This does not mean for everyone. Some offer lower rates due to the place they live and work. This is a business and as such, you need to be in the business to make money. If you're spending out more on business related items and not making anything, this is not a good business model. All I'm saying is that just as there are many individual providers with individual personalities, likes, dislikes, turn on's, turn off's, so are there reasons behind rates. Just as the value and quality of a hobbyist shouldn't be based on how big his wallet is, SP's shouldn't be judged on how much they charge, high or low. I know people won't change unless they chose to, this is just a "food for thought" topic because I for one, am not cheap or lower quality. It also works on the other foot as well, SP's shouldn't be judged if their rate is higher. They shouldn't be classified as a greedy or a snooty b**ch. Lower rates shouldn't make higher rates look bad. These are all judgments and perceptions that we are in control of. We CHOSE to make these comments that then create tension and negativity. Think about it...maybe.

Oh Crank you lovely beast! You make me laugh even if you are a little slow on the draw sometimes. I know I just need to wave my "cushion" and it will all be alright! Crank up it baby!

Here's a REAL life example and the parents just don't seem to understand Holden Hiscock That poor child....

I love when you can let it out with someone who is into that and it adds to the excitement and passion of the encounter. I enjoy sweet nothings just as much. I especially love when the dirty talk is whispered in your ear in the middle of things as either a descriptor or a promise of things to come. One thing I can't control it seems is the use of the F bomb when something feels really good. It just comes tumbling from my lips so I always hope no one minds that. I'm not screaming so maybe it's okay LOL!

This is one of the important things about ANY relationship: FOCUS. If you focus all your time and attention on what's wrong, you'll never see what's right. If you focus on what's good and right, the negative things get smaller or fade away or at least become easier to handle. I still think of everyone I've ever cared about. Some are gone, some have chosen to be gone and some I stepped away from but they all hold a piece of me and I wish them happiness. I think about their impact in my life every now and then and smile for the good.

I most assuredly believe in love and love in many different forms, variations, intensities and ways. I also believe love is a choice just as relationships are a choice because they take work. I believe people have to start being more honest with themselves and others as well as addressing personal issues like beliefs, learned behavior, ego etc. There are many people who don't know what they want in a relationship or they do but won't admit it or accept it. They settle for someone because they feel they should or it's time or they're scared to be alone. You can have feelings for someone or even love someone and not belong with that person. Sexual incompatibility will always lead to stress and frustration yet people are in these relationships every day. Different goals, ideas, needs and wants all impact. Relationships are work, even the good ones. You have to chose to work through problems instead of throwing in the towel, chose to change or step outside comfort zones. You must also realize when it's time to walk away. I believe if you want something bad enough, you WILL make it happen, good or bad. If you're honest with yourself about what you want, you're willing to take a risk, you have a clear focus, it will happen. I also believe in can happen more than once...at a time. Love is a wonderful uplifting thing that makes us feel wonderful. It's when the ego gets involved with its jealousy and control and ownership that things get fuzzy. I too believe that the SP/client relationship is intrinsically honest. Each partner knows what they are getting, there is communication and boundaries and these are discussed. I also believe within these boundaries real love can and does exist. Love doesn't care that it's a business transaction it only knows how the people feel and what value these interactions add to life. If one or both partners have an SO that doesn't detract from the honesty of the SP/Client relationship. Honesty means what you say is true, it does NOT mean full disclosure. If I have a secret that has no bearing on you, if I don't tell you, that doesn't make me dishonest. If you ask me and I lie, then I am dishonest. Love comes in many forms and if you're open to that, you can and will find it. If you're only looking for the "fireworks and lifetime" descriptors that seem to be societal norms, you are shutting yourself off from anything outside this which means some bliss may be passing you by. This is such a big topic with so many ins and outs but it boils down to "listen to your heart, follow your intuition and be open". Screw what everyone else says or does, this is YOUR life and you have to do what's right for you, including love.

I see what you did there roamingguy but I have a parry for you. HA HA Yazoo - Don't Go http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bW6h6AM5mzM

Meat Loaf - You Took The Words Right Out Of My Mouth (Hot Summer Night) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FRTHW4tgUdI

Realizing how many wonderful people I know (even those I have yet to meet in person) and being thankful for each and every one of them and the smiles they give me!!

With ease I expect Cristy!! All you need to do is show up and be yourself! <<<On another note, If I came to O town how would I ever live up to all the expectations>>>

I can't list all the reasons i love roamingguy so I'll just say he's awesome, send some kisses and leave it at that! *rawr*

I'm sorry for what you're having to deal with right now. It's never easy for those left behind. May memories and smiles of times together heal your heart and help you through your grief.

I should move back home there seems to be a lot of horny gents up that way!

Fortunateone, it's interesting because I have heard this from people recently which is total BS when you can buy everything you need nowadays to offset whatever you have. There are medical plans you can get as an individual and you can pay into the pension plan. People are just too stuck in their "learned behaviors" to see anything differently. This is a huge reason we're stuck. We need to unlearn those behaviors we were taught that no longer have a bearing or at least ask ourselves why we believe what we do, is it something we truly believe or someone elses belief.

My heart goes out to you RG. I hope you find small thigns to make you smile with loving memories and knowing that there is no more pain and suffering will give you small comfort. Feel, love and grieve. We're here for you!

I read a latest article regarding the Bedford events this week but that's not what started me thinking, it was a comment made afterwards. His argument was that if everything becomes legal surrounding prostitution then it becomes a legitimate profession which means it will then need to be brought up in schools and via guidance/career counselors as a legitimate and viable option. Of course he went on to say do we really want to give this options to our children or have it discussed in schools and no, we do not. My thought is WHY NOT? The only stigma surrounding it is what people place on it. If there were a sudden shift in perception of course it would be legitimate. I'm sure there are people out there who have the right attitude and skills and interests that this might be a career choice for them. Porn was always a career choice and yes, people wanted to get into porn, still do. It's funny that there is less of a stigma there than with prostitution. My point is, this SHOULD be an option for those who want it. Just because others don't doesn't mean it shouldn't be on the table. Everyone focuses on sex (which already causes people to become hinky) but there's so much more to it. This is a profession of HEALTHCARE and MENTALCARE and even those in it for the money or for the notches on their belt, get the benefits whether they are focused on them or not. Whose to say that decriminalizing prostitution won't have positive impacts in other industries. Sex Surrogates or Sexual Psychologists who could never touch only talk, might now be able to show and make greater strides with those suffering. Pleasure might make it into nursing homes and elder care where even the aged deserve to feel good. HEALTHCARE and MENTALCARE!! Think about it. Yes, it's sex but sex just doesn't make us "feel" good, it makes us feel GREAT and studies on the positive impacts of sex prove this. There is so much more at play here then just incalls, living off the avails etc. This is about bring the benefits of sex out of the shadows and from behind closed doors and giving it to the people. Letting them decide what's good and right for them. So, hells yea! Offer it as a legitimate profession and all the other professions that could benefit from it as well even if indirectly!

Carl Henry - Dim the Lights I was enjoying the monkeys *pout*

Alan Parsons - Damned if I Do! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ya1cGyaeaXw