Midnite-Energies

I come from a management background with a main goal of supporting and growing my team. So here's my question, if an SP approached you and asked you for feedback to improve her business (you being a non returning or non regular client) would you be able to provide constructive feedback that in no way put down or criticized? Would you think it was weird or pro-active? Would you be comfortable? Have you ever wanted to say something but figured it was entirely inappropriate and so just let it go and stepped away? From an SP viewpoint, are you even interested or would you want to know?

J is for joyful...how I feel when I get to spend some special time!

G is for gyrate as in our hips as we're melded together

Queensryche - Another Rainy Night

B is for BRA which I try to wear as little as possible!

Kim Wilde - Keep Me Hanging On Laura Branigan - Self Control http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p8-pP4VboBk Ratt - Round & Round Platinum Blonde - Doesn't Really Matter The Romantics - What I Like About You The Knack - My Sharona Foreigner - Urgent Rick James - Superfreak Additional Comments: How could I forget this song. This is one that always stays with me, always gets my head in the right space and makes me *rawr* Rod Stewart - Passion

You were one of the names I seemed to see everywhere when I first joined CERB. You posts made me laugh, smile in agreement and in some cases, get excited. You always supported the wonderful people here and I know have made quite the impact, Ninja Style! Keep on kickin'!

Thank you Jade-S for all you do to make CERB a better place. Your posts are interesting, entertaining and fun to read and you keep then gentlemen on their toes. Keep on posting, it makes this place great!

Olddog, you are a truly amazing man, I know I have said this on a couple occasions. What you give to everyone on this board via your posts, your humor, your communications and friendship far exceeds average in every way. You by turn make us smile, think and touch our hearts in so many ways. Thank you! May the universe bless you with bacon in every pot and ladies giving you kisses at every turn!

Soft Cell - Tainted Love http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yDT0yn9jk7M

I shall curse you in the most delightful way oldblueeyez Cameo - Word Up!

For me, lighting is all about creating a sensual sexy little oasis no matter the time of day. I love the nighttime so keep the curtains drawn and because I have a love of lights, I use mine to create the atmosphere in my space that puts me in a sexy state of mind. It is light enough that you can see everything...the sheen of sweat, the shimmer of juices, the licking of lips and that lustful look in my eye. I find really right light or direct sunlight puts me in the right mindset to I fully control it. It's like the movie theater, no matter what time of day you go, it's always conducive to focusing your attention.

P is for prostate as in massaging and milking

Thank you for your input gentlemen. This is one of those questions you think you know the answer to but then you wonder if the times have changed or not. I don't like assuming so would rather ask.

In this world of technology, things are getting easier. As a hobbyist, if given the preference, would you take advantage of POS debit/credit ease to pay for your date if you could or do you think that would be detrimental to your budget and bank account? Would you do it only if there were no additional fees involved or would you be willing to pay a small fee to use (ie:$2) Do you think there are benefits to offering POS options?

Honestly I try very hard not to be offended by anything which means if something seems off to me, I put myself in the other shoes and try to think about what may have prompted that. Like you mentioned it could be habit, self protection or a host of other things. As we all acknowledge, there is a not so nice side to this business and even with great research, sometimes things happen. When you're with someone knew, there should be at least a small expectation of getting to know one another to be comfortable. Trust is earned most of the time. The only thing that really offends me is outright rudeness or people who try to hide rudeness under "honesty" or "awkwardness". I've met a few awkward people and they are rarely rude in fact most are very self aware are go out of their way to not be.

Just to add to this, cell phones may also potentially cause memory loss. I had a phone in the early days and started to have memory and focus issues out of the blue. I had a battery of tests run including MRI's and brain scans and nothing was found. The only link that could be made was to the cell phone. There have been a few studies done but nothing substantial. I gave up a cell until the last couple years when smart phones came into play. I now very rarely use the actual phone part of my cell and try to never carry it on my body anywhere. Just something to be aware of!

Thought I'd pop by and send more *kisses*. You now need to change your ID. You're not just "some" guy, you're somebody special! Keep on posting, we'll keep on reading and for the others, they'll keep on chatting!

My blog is updated daily with sexy pictures and today, another delicious submission by our own Loki318, check it out!!!! Voodoo http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/ New stories cumming soon.....

There is nothing abnormal about anyone here or anything you are dealing with. Unfortunately sometimes the nature of relationships, people and communication make it almost impossible to support a marriage without going slightly mad. This is when it's important to take care of yourself so that you are better able to take care of your SO. I'm sure if you've been browsing and reading, you know the ladies here are wonderful, approachable, warm and friendly. Find a lady you're drawn to and start a conversation and then jump in with both feet. Everyone has certain needs and when those needs aren't met we get a little tense, cranky, distracted etc. Good luck gentlemen, with everything! <hugs>

I'm including a previous thread from two other members who were candid enough to share their experiences. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=89049 The ladies of CERB do not participate in B&S scams and those who do are generally caught. The MOD"s here are serious about keeping this a safe and sane place for everyone. Most ladies here are in the business seriously and have good business standards and practices. Having said that, some do not show their face because they have lives separate from their professional lives and do not wish the two to cross. Some have other jobs, family who wouldn't understand or numerous reasons. Not showing their faces is a legitimate choice for them. If, to you, this is not acceptable, you will need to research those who fall into your guidelines. Please do not judge people on whether they would show their face or not. I'm not sure you would want your face posted so everyone knows you're a hobbist. You must be new to CERB and not have explored much of this site. The ladies place ads here to titillate and excite and we like to get a little creative. Just because it is written differently does not mean there is a pimp involved. Research reco's, profiles and talk to other hobbyists. You will gain more insight and better information this way. Most ladies here have recos' and participate in some way. As for a photo of the occasion, you will have to speak to specific ladies and ask them. Many would not allow this to happen for their own safety. Pictures are proof that could end up anywhere and be used in many ways that are not acceptable. Again, ask! BBBJ again are the preference of the lady, so ask. Only YOU can determine who you are attracted to and whether they meet your needs. Communication is key. I will offer one small piece of advice based on your thread, some of what you said comes off rather judgmental and negative. Most ladies here are wonderful with newcomers and with new to sex partners as well. They are welcoming, warm and have your best interests at heart. Talk to people, start conversations, ask questions and above all, make sure this is the right route for you. Read threads on what makes a good client and be that person. Good luck with your search

I know I'm slightly early on this congratulations but I know you'll make it up to me! It seems I've followed you around CERB on numerous occasions from interesting and thoughtful posts to interesting questions you have posed as a thread starter. Some of your posts have been honest and candid and others make people drool with their sexiness. You also add some fun and that is important! Thank you for all your posts and I look forward to watching your ass as I follow you through threads....rawr!

Here is the discussion that was already ongoing on this topic...good info here! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=135892

It is VERY common on either side that when emotions become involved, the person with the emotions steps back to provide some breathing room to give clarity to what they're feeling. Unfortunately the only advice I can give you is to deal with your own feelings of losing someone you considered a friend. You have to respect the wishes of the SP to step back. At this point there is no way to maintain a professional relationship. That doesn't mean that might night change. Feelings change and if she realizes that what she was feeling is different than what she thought, she may open that door again. I wouldn't count on it but it's always a possibility. I assume feelings are not mutual because of your comment so maybe take a look at other SP's and find one that interests you. Good luck, it's not an easy situation to have to deal with.