Midnite-Energies

The hardest thing about dealing with both potential issues with ourselves and loved ones and everything else in life is keeping our mind in check. Our ego has a mind of it's own and starts up all the fear talk or the what if's and it can near about drive you mad if it's not reigned in. Such a difficult thing to do. @Empty 83, try not to dwell on it if you can, keep busy, distracted and focus on the good. Worry doesn't help anyone and can in fact tear down the good within us if we let it. @Roamingguy, I know I said this before but my heart goes out to you. Waiting for things to happen and knowing they will but not when is difficult. I'm glad you get a visit. You are SO right though. Family and friends can make the journey so much better and provide so many wonderful moments. It's not only those leaving that suffer, it's those left behind and everyone needs to feel they had some sort of closure and a chance to say what needed saying. Prayers are with you both and good energy is on the way!

Thank you so much for the article. Some of the comments were good but one made my blood boil and even though I am a very nice none violent person, I wanted to throttle him because his mentality is bad for everyone not just sex workers.

Have a wonderful day filled with boobies, shoes and iced coffee. Hopefully with a cherry of surprise in there somewhere too. May your day be great!

I'll say welcome again. Definitely a great place to be to explore this industry. I can tell you'll enjoy yourself! :boobies:

I am a very tactile and sensory person so I am all about the BBBJ. I love the warmth and silkiness of the skin there especially with the solid core. The feeling of the veins and the texture of the skin on my tongue turn me on and ad to my enjoyment. I love how the feeling changes depending on how you're licking or sucking. I also love the visual of a hard bare cock. And I can't leave out the taste...oh mon dieu! So delicious and enticing. So many things to love about it that are removed when a condom is added no matter the thinness. I love everything about it and when you add in the gentleman's enjoyment, it's a truly blissful experience.

From one self professed oral addict to another, thanks for all the wonderful posts. You are by time funny, serious and always supportive of the ladies and gents of CERB. Keep on licking and we'll keep on enjoying!!!

Needed movement so.... Outkast - The Whole World!

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http://bits.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/05/26/disruptions-at-odds-over-privacy-challenges-of-wearable-computing/?ref=business It seems people on both sides of the issue are extremely passionate about their stand point. Could get very interesting both in general and in this industry as has already been discussed on CERB http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=134350&highlight=privacy

I is for irresistibly cute like Miquelon who compliments all the ladies in this thread.

LOL @stevemcqueen, that's not exactly what I meant but touche!

How have I stayed out of this thread so long....I LOVE boobies!!!

Hello all, It was brought to my attention (and then in my own search) that Mature Angela seems to have disappeared. Does anyone happen to know what might have happened with her or whether she'll be back? Thanks!

I see your point and the point that was made by numerous people about the "fantasy" aspect. I guess this is just one more way my perceptions differ from many. The fantasy IS my reality and vice versa. I don't need to lie to create because I feel it and believe it. That does ot mean I'm delusional or dishonest or that I live in some drug induced space, it's just who I am and the way I see things. For me, it's a gift, one that others sometimes have trouble wrapping their head around. I guess everyone needs what they need. Some need to be lied to, to create the fantasy. Some need to have connection, some just need some sexy lingerie and a smokin' body and they're all good. This is what makes us all unique and the world we live in interesting. Thankfully we have this place and this industry where it becomes much easier to find what we're looking for. Not only that but to have amazing discussions involving so many different views that end up supportive of all.

Welcome you lucky girl! Many magnificent men in the Ottawa area. There are lots of great resources here both written and via the wonderful people. Have a great day!

Hope your day is filled with all the things that make you smile hopefully served on a sexy platter! Enjoy your birthday and have a fantastic day!

Yello - Oh Yeah! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cC8UbZbf4pk

I don't believe in brutal honesty. That involves numerous things I try to stay away from and I agree people can be rude and hurtful under the guise of "helping" or "being honest". I also believe that non full disclosure is not dishonesty as no one has the right to your information if it does not impact them in any way, shape or form. I think we have perhaps taken a rather sad turn here....

I respectfully beg to differ Mr Green, at least on some of your point. yes there are many made up names and persona's and players using fake pictures. This does not mean most of the people fall into this category. Everyone has their own reasons for either putting themselves out there or keeping some things quiet but that doesn't mean what they say or what they put out there isn't honest or sharing some of themselves. This is why CERB is so great because it gives everyone the opportunity to discuss, positive and negative. The reco's are the positive, info on scam', fake pics, bait and switches and people willing to share info helps people avoid those not so honest types. I for one use my own name when i talk to people and what I share is truthful. It takes way too much time and energy to be fake and dishonest and it creates bad energy so I don't do it, it's not me. I hope you find some better people than those you have apparently run into, you're definitely in a good place for that! *muah*

F is for family jewels and protecting what yo momma gave you

As Cristy said, there is no place for jealousy in this business and honestly, in life. Jealousy is a fear based emotion and one that stems from somewhere. If you find out where it starts, you can resolve it and not have it as part of you. Not easy but worth it. Having said that, we are also human and I'm sure occasionally have this feeling. You're having a bad day, there is someone you'd really like to spend sometime with because you made that connection and they make you feel good. As an SP, you can't just call them and say "hey, what about it" and you know that they could be seeing others. So instead of jealousy I'd say more a feeling of disappointment. Just as when a gentlemen is in that position and his chosen SP is busy or booked. There is always that sliver of disappointment. As roamingguy mentioned, exclusivity is a factor that should NEVER play into this industry and if it is, it needs to be seriously addressed by the one feeling it especially if one sided. Having said that, there are human connections and with those come emotions of some sort. It's which ones, how impactful they are and how we deal with them that becomes the true test.

I just finished reading the new thread on "jealousy" and while contemplating what to say I had a thought, is there such a thing as too much honesty from an SP and does that negatively impact her? Do hobbyists stay away from those who lay themselves out here on these boards or does that make them more attractive? Or is it perhaps an age of the hobbyist deal where those who are older or who have been indulging for quite awhile are looking for something different than those who have a focus of enjoying the sexual interactions? So I ask you, can you know too much and that ends up being a turn off or does it attract you? I'm not just asking about the up close and personal interactions but also the sharing an SP does in the forums.

By request, I've posted a new erotic reading of one of my original stories. Hope it titillates you just a little http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/ I do so love being inspired!