Midnite-Energies

Q is for quagmire of un-sated desires and dirty thoughts chasing me through the night!

Couldn't decide...love these both Stone Sour - Bother Seether - Broken Ft. Amy Lee

mmm Nelly Furtado - Say It Right!

J is for Just fill me already I need it SO badly!!! Additional Comments: I replied to this thread and said I didn't understand what happened since what I saw was last at I. And now here I am sticking a J in at B. Let's just say I defy convention and I do things "My Way" thank you Sinatra and Robbie Williams....my apologies folks!

When someone posts something I wholeheartedly agree with and after the momentarily "arg" that comes from not being able to comment, I smile and the original thought and say "screw it" lol!!!

MsManda's sexy style and sense of play add much to the pages of CERB and I'm sure many gentlemen would attest to that. She is beautiful and open and shares with the community. Looking forward to more this local treasure!

mmmm Bailey's and Bottle Caps......YES!!!!

mmm Roamingguy....sexy, articulate, funny, likes to be a smart arse on occasions....yeah, I have fantasies!! *tee hee*

I had a fantastic day so let's add a little Chick Rock Pat Benatar - Heartbreaker on American Bandstand no less! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZEZKE19eu-E

I'll start with part of a saying that I love "attachment is about desires and expectations. Once you begin having expectations beyond the basics you are into "wild" territory. As Old Dog said, remind yourself this is a mutually beneficial transaction of which sensual and sexual pleasures are exchanged. Keep your expectations realistic. If perhaps you do meet someone you have a connection with, ALWAYS remember that you can enjoy this connection and the feelings that go along with it but it's within the boundaries of the relationship that you discuss. If you find yourself more on the giving than receiving, that is a clear indication it's time to find another provider. If your emotions get out of control, find another provider or step back from things until you have a chance to think clearly. We are all people involved in this business and the same rules apply here as anywhere, emotions are felt it's what you do with them that counts. Know when to indulge and when to back off or walk away. You have yet to begin on this path, don't worry away great experiences. Think clearly and enjoy. Keep expectations realistic.

May your day be filled with special surprises and smiles and set you up for the rest of the year! Happy Birthday!

I NEVER feel guilty about pleasure!!!!!!! As for things I enjoy that get me excited: Candy Cane Hot Chocolate from Second Cup. I would do many things for one of those A Curley Whirley - looks like a DNA strand of caramel covered in chocolate. From the UK, available at bulk barn...OMG YUM! Laffy Taffy Grape Slushies or sno cones Moon Mist Ice Cream Alright, who started this damn thread? Now I'm craving stuff!! No, wait a minute...does cock count?????

I'm going to comments on those attributes I appreciate both in men I spend time with and men in general. An honest smile, one that lights up their eyes so you know it's genuine. A sense of humor and also someone who doesn't take things too seriously Eyes and lips, beautiful eyes and inviting lips that just make you want to taste them A sexy bum...and this is subjective to the person doing the viewing Nice hands, not just trimmed and clean but strong and that look healthy and supple. Dried, cracked, or discolored are definite turn off's. I want to imagine what they feel like on my skin or buried in me. A good heart or positive/friendly attitude, the way they treat those around them Wonderful smelling The way they look at me. It can either heat me up or leave me cold Reactive, either verbally or physically. My GOD I love a reactive man. Honesty, when what they do AND say matches up. So many quirky little things I love....but I'll save those until I see them and then I'll *pounce*!

There are many reasons to do this and as long as the reasons are good for you and important to you, then they are good reasons and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. As was already said, attraction and beauty aren't just skin deep. Attitude, manners, sense of humor, enjoyment, openness, hygiene, a positive attitude etc. all play into making someone attractive to others. Don't sell yourself short based on what you think you see in the mirror. Most of us have a skewed perception of ourselves anyway. Most SP's will welcome you with open arms and treat you wonderfully as long as you follow their personal guidelines and the common ones of being respectful, clean and friendly. Nerves will be present but don't let that stop you from jumping on board and experiencing something wonderful. Browse ads and profiles and find someone who appeals to you then begin a conversation. Follow your intuition and enjoy!

As you said, any reputable SP's would direct you to reco's or input if there is any to be had. There are many threads on the business side where SP's discuss the importance of both client and SP making a good match which involves research. Personally it sounds like she thought you were questioning her rate not just making a statement about it. It was definitely a defensive reaction. I would assume perhaps a new SP and not one accustomed to the business. All the ladies I have read about here would (and do) provide links to their reco's and feedback consistently and some even have it on websites. They understand that sometimes to make a decision especially where money is concerned, you need to do your homework. My only suggestion would be if you run into this again, don't mention anything about the rate, instead ask for links to reco's or other information. Sometimes what you think and don't say works better to get you what you want with less hassle.

N is for nestled between your thighs....doing what I do best...well couple things anyway!

Cheap Trick (based on the correct but smart ass reply of Roaming Guy because I love him so) Surrender http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=th370QmFtk8

L is for licking and lapping....two things I LOVE to do

Violet wands are modern electrical sexual or kink stimulation toys. They are used for the application of low current, high voltage (min 35 kV to max 65 kV typically), high-frequency, electricity to the body. They are most commonly used in BDSM though erotic sensation play is also possible with them. A violet wand typically consists of a hand held "wand" made of plastic which encases a high voltage electrical transformer. The base of the handle has a permanently attached electrical cord which plugs directly into a wall outlet. Though use of a GFCI is recommended with some wand designs, to protect from surges. The wand has an intensity level control and sometimes an on/off switch, usually located near where the electrical cord is attached. Some models operate on an electromagnetic disruptive discharge circuit while others are powered by electronic circuitry (called solid state wands) or combinations of the two. Various electrodes are inserted into and used with the violet wand to provide the sensations. A violet wand electrode is usually made of clear tempered glass which is sealed and evacuated and back-filled with a noble gas, typically argon and sometimes neon, in a process similar to the manufacturing of neon signs. The high voltage current causes the plasma inside the electrode to excite, emitting a glowing color when the wand operates and through which the spark emits. The appearance and process is identical to plasma globes, though the net discharge is higher in order to create spark streamers external to the glass which cause the desired sensation to the skin. A violet wand creates shock sensation when there is a gap between the electrode or the attachment and the body. As the wand is held near to the body, the spark will jump, providing the sensation. Full contact with an accessory creates a slightly warm sensation, but a violet wand provides a wide range of physical sensation properties with different settings and attachments. Some typical uses for a violet wand include temporary or permanent branding of the skin for Body modification, electrically charged impact with paddles or other conductive implements, electrified touch or massage, or erotic stimulation of the genitalia. Violet Wands can be used anywhere on the body but should not be used around the eyes. The following 'terms for techniques' were standardized by the International Violet Wand Guild c. 2005. Direct Users employ a violet wand by using various accessories which emit sparks for different physical sensations and purposes. These accessories include electrodes made of glass or metal and other conductive accessories and attachments. In-Direct Utilizing a body contact accessory the person holding the contact becomes electrified to the touch. Any part of the body can be used to pass the arc to the recipient. Additionally the person holding the contact can utilize any conductive material as an accessory. Reverse Users employ a body contact accessory by attaching it to the bottom subject, which electrifies the 'bottom' partner, and then conductive accessories are used by the top partner to electrify the bottom. Extension Using an extension handle and cable, allows the most net discharge current to pass to the subject. Extension handles are used with many electrodes and accessories. Branding Through the use of certain condensing electrodes, violet wands can be used to effectively "brand" or cauterize a design on an individuals skin which makes them popular in body modification. Violet wand brands can be semi permanent or totally permanent and are an easy and inexpensive method of "scarification" (the act of intentionally scarring ones own body) often used by professionals and avid enthusiasts alike.

Hi Amelia, Just for knowledge sake, do you have a Violet Wand Kit or a TENS unit? Figured we're already in the thread maybe you can drum up some of those sensory people out there looking for the experience.

As Samantha said, be very careful in your research and find a provider or person who has experience with this. Having said that, it creates amazing sensations and if you're at all sensory, it's wonderful. So many different things to try and of course variations on all. Good luck with your search! Forgot to mention that you will need to locate an experienced provider because these kits are quite expensive and it's not like most people just have them laying around.

It's finding that other gentleman that poses the challenge. In this kind of situation you don't have to be gay or bi but you DO have to be comfortable being around someone of the same sex and knowing that occasionally parts might meet in the heart of the moment. You also have to make sure that the two men in question will get along. Would be nothing worse than them having some sort of conflict personality wise. Personally, I love this set up and when it works, it's amazing. Definitely worth inquiring about. Good luck with your search!

Styx - The Best of Times

A bit belated but better late than never. You are so supportive of everyone in this community, hobbyists and SP's alike. Your contributions bring smiles and fun to the board as well...thank you!!! :ThankYou:

Have a wonderfully fun and sexy birthday filled with things that make you smile! :tongue: