Midnite-Energies

If you feel this strongly about it, you should decline. As has been said, it is his will and his choice and he may have reasons unknown to you. I would be upfront with him about your reasons and say you don't wish to be in that position during an already difficult period. Perhaps it will open a discussion about things or may give a viewpoint that was not thought about previously. Either way, it seems your gut is saying no and you should listen to it.

I always have to chuckle at the vehemence most people have towards this, usually the "off" side. You rarely hear from anyone on the "on" side. I for one don't care; it doesn't impact my arousal level at all unless of course they are dirty or smelly and that is a different story. For me it's personal preference for the gent. I know some who have circulation issues and without socks their feet end up freezing which detracts from the pleasure of the moment. Some see them as a security thing. Either way, I'm more about the person being comfortable and focused on either me or what I'm doing to them. As to the whole "graceful" thing, don't worry about it. Socks are one of those things we all deal with and neither putting them on or taking them off is a graceful thing for most people. Whip em off, fall over, have a laugh and then get to the good stuff lol.

I think you just did. Congrats!

I think what Northern Guy was trying to say is that it seems you put things in the wrong order therefore should wait. If you are concerned about becoming active and what vaccines you should or shouldn't have, you should speak with your doctor FIRST and see your lady second. This is your choice depending on the level of your concerns and the risk you assign to the activities you will be participating in. Only you can make that decision. There is nothing wrong with getting the vaccines after your appointment provided you will be participating in safe activities. This is also providing you won't be worrying about this before, during and afterwards. If you are highly concerned and assigning great risk, I would say cancel the appointment with apologies and perhaps an apology gift (as this is your concern and it should have been dealt with prior to an appt), talk to your doctor and be safe. Mind you this is all dependent on how far off your appointment is and if you have time prior while still maintaining it. I hope everything works out for you.

Welcome. I think as you travel through this site and start reading some of the threads here you'll find that most of the ladies here who have established themselves in some way (not in and out as finances warrant) very much enjoy the connection with the people they meet. I know I for one love when I meet someone I connect with on some level whether it's small like an interest in a certain tv show or character, book or musical artist or big, being able to open and let your passion for something flow is amazing. When you can laugh, joke or tease or have a serious discussion while cuddling it's a great feeling. Humans are here to connect with one another and SP's are no different. Glad to see you've enjoyed some amazing experiences!

I think it would be very rare to find an SP who would be bothered by a ring. I do know a few gentlemen who prefer to take it off during time together. It could be stepping into a fantasy, remnants of guilt, respect for the lady or any number of other things. It would be a very personal choice to the person only. If you are not comfortable having it on, then by all means don't but as pointed out, make sure you have it securely tucked away so it doesn't get lost or misplaced. Most SP's only care about your level of comfort and do not get concerned over whether you wear a ring or not.

There has been a lot of activity in the "turn off's" thread so to increase both the positivity and titillating factors, let's talk about what turns us on. I for one love a vocal partner. One who makes noises of pleasure, who encourages or directs with desire and who loses themselves in the moment. It is even a bigger turn on while using your name! ! What turns YOU on??

Or let me make YOU *rawr* Either way, we'll be having a good time don't you think? Available this week for tantalizing titillation in the ways all your parts desire. Let's show Mother Nature how Spring should be sprung!

I just wanted to take a moment to formally recognize Meaghan for the wonderfully supportive woman she is. I have noticed many instances lately where she stepped up to help others, offered advice, leant an ear, offered personal support and resources and even posted to try to keep others safe. She has always been this way however, lately, she has really stepped up her efforts to reach out to those around her and really put herself into this industry. Thanks for all you do Meaghan, it does not go unnoticed!

Personally I would limit hashtags to those that either directly hit industry folks or hobbyists or at least the people who are open and into the same sort of interests (IE: bigbooty, datass etc.) especially as you stated you wnat to be discrete. To my thinking, if you do a lot of outcalls and show your face, creating a broad hashtag for your city has the potential to open some not so good doors. I know from working in hotels that they have people flagged with pictures to keep an eye out so anyone hashtagging certain locations or cities could unknowingly put themselves on the "aware" list. This doesn't mean they can't follow an escort hashtag but it does limit exposure. At least you're limiting where you might get re-tweeted to. There are those who are very open and have weighed the risks for themselves personally, and it is a personal choice. Good luck!!

One of the benefits of this forum is the recommendations from other members. That should greatly reduce your chances of ending up somewhere distasteful, dirty, dangerous etc. Most here have learned the valuable lesson of researching and watching out for one another some from having been in not very safe or good conditions. Good luck. I hope the quality of your encounters is awesome!

Welcome to you both. There is definitely a learning curve here but it's worth it for the information, research capability and community. Welcome and good luck in finding whatever brought you here and then some! *muah*

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My advice would be to calm your mind and don't get worked up by no communication prior to the actual agreed on time/date. It is a holiday weekend and ladies also have family time outside work time so she may just be enjoying that and turns off her phone/doesn't check email when she is doing that. If the arranged confirmation time arrives and still nothing, that is when I would assume something happened. You can pre-book but without a confirmation there is no appointment. That will be the key point so until that time, I wouldn't worry. It sounds like you have had good communication with her setting up the date so remember...life happens. Enjoy your time when it arrives.

Not only listening but wiggling too! Juicy Wiggle

Hello, I think the answers to your questions can be found in the following two threads: Turn off for a hobbyist :http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=181294 Turn offs for a provider: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=176753 Having read a couple of your posts, my impression is that you have had some not so great experiences or have felt not so good about the experience, pictures, lady etc. If this is the case, I'm sorry and I hope you find your experiences better using LYLA as a reference and research point.

I did that too! There were some great ones.

Hi there and welcome. The only real tricks to navigating this site it to read the FAQ's, stickies and threads. There are different rules here than most sites but this is a more positive board where you can't vent your spleen and let all the negativity hang out. I think everyone on this site has gotten infractions over something at some point, we learn and move on lol. It's really a good place to be with lots of great people. Just read and then jump in and enjoy!

The truth is there is a lot of not so good behavior, disrespect, loss of logic and common sense etc. that is dealt with regularly. Most ladies do their very best to put the information out there about their availability, time needed, pre-booking etc because that is what works within the life of that person. It's frustrating when others think it's just random BS and useless info. This is why you will see so many vents and, on the flip side, so much happy when what it written and put out there is read, listened to enjoyed. It's the simple things that sometime matter the most, it shouldn't be as difficult as it is. But there is someone for everyone so those who bother one side, are probably great for another. I sometimes wonder what the positive threads would look like from those who enjoy the "fast food" approach. Rarely hear from them.

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Happy Birthday Beautiful! May there never be too much tequila or too much fun to celebrate your birthday!

There were no redheads harmed in the reaching of 9000 posts. Congratulations! Always looking forward to more!

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