Midnite-Energies

G is for the gush after the finger banging!! mmmm

Is it getting hot in here or is it just me??

As a side question to this thread because a few people have mentioned this but also added to it which leads to my question. When you are looking for multiple builds (and they are being provided) do you communicate you proximity to orgasm to your partner or do you leave her to intuit when you're close? And if it is the latter, would you be willing to communicate this for your own benefit if asked? I ask because some days I'm tuned in and some days I'm not and it also depends on my partner and my newness to him (or him to me). I had the pleasure of being lead through a tantric session and it involved communication about proximity and I found that communication in itself became stimulating to me but also guided me to provide the most pleasure. It could be as simple as saying the number "9" when you're almost to the point of not being able to hold back (or saying more if so inclined). Would this get in the way and interrupt the flow or would it be okay?

V is for voracious sexual appetite!

Interesting question on the kissing. I am definitely a closed eye kisser. I let my lips and tongue do the walking and I enjoy all the sensations. I think it would be a little disconcerting to have someone looking at me that up close and personal.

m is for mutual masturbation and learning!

I was reading a thread earlier today where the comment was that the gentleman liked a lady to keep her eyes open during orgasm but most didn't. There has also been comments made about eye contact during blow jobs and hand jobs. This is a multiple choice poll! My questions to the gents: Do you like eye contact during hand jobs or blowjobs? Or do you think it's hot when a lady is totally into what she's doing and is either watching your cock closely or eyes closed and humming in pleasure? Do you like eye contact during orgasm....both hers and yours? To the ladies: Is it a subconscious instinct to close your eyes during orgasm or do they stay open? Do you try to control this at all?

This is fun....I needed that! Real name -Azia Sinn CERB Handle -Asia Jiggles (this works, I have a tendency to jiggle)

Thank you for your contributions as I have enjoyed many of them. You are thoughtful, caring, touching and have made me laugh. Looking forward to many more!!

Alice Cooper - You & Me (original video) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=142egTUg7i8

Since I'm indulging some musical therapy this is appropriate! The Doobie Brothers - Listen To The Music http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5kl0rAnLvJs

Couldn't let the day go by without saying Happy Birthday to you. I enjoy your contributions but more, you as a person. Have a wonderful day and a fantastic year ahead!

I have always classified myself as odd when it came to looks. I was always attracted to different aspects than most of my peers. The big Hollywood heart throbs weren't mine. From a young age I realized that personality played a huge factor in making people beautiful or not so beautiful. I was lucky enough to be exposed to a number of people on both sides of that coin so it hit home and stayed with me. Attractiveness and beauty to me has always been more about personality. That vibrant energy that surrounds someone and makes you feel at home with them or that smile always lurking abut the mouth and eyes. Sense of humor, caring, the ability to share and be open to people even if those people are not the type you really like. I've been blessed with some of the most amazing clients. They make me smile and/or swoon depending. Each one has such wonderful beauty in them that adding a sexual aspect just amps that up a thousand fold. Yes, we all have personal preferences and for some people they are more ingrained then others. I'm thankful for my ability to look inside first then outside because as stupid as it might sound to some people, it makes my world better.

Have a wonderful birthday filled with special things. May your next year be bountiful!

I guess you got your itch early which means you're in for a heck of a ride from now on. Thanks for all the posts (since I've been here) and I'm sure for being a great member and resource for countless people!!

I view this the same way I view life, dynamic and full of variety. Many people in this industry plan for an encounter, treat it like the wonderful experience it is and enjoy the full embodiment of it. There may be some people who say they have never felt the call of the wild but I expect it's few and far between. You know that feeling where you're just so horny you start losing reason and you just want to fuck? Yes, I said fuck because sometimes sex is about fucking. Regular diet? No but definitely a need and a want. At those times I can see why someone offering this service would be popular especially in an established SP. I can see it not being everyone's cup of tea but personally, the thought of someone being so ravenous they just want to see me and use me (in the sexiest way possible) is a huge turn on. It's not something I would offer to unknown clients but known clients who are feeling the need, I would love to be the outlet. I know there are probably SP's would never entertain the notion but this is the wonderful thing about the industry, there is always someone willing, somewhere. I would be a bit wary of anyone who only offered this service as that would say something about the person in general. I say that trying not to judge but if a focus is wham bam then there is no opportunity for any sort of connection or interaction so no possibility for more than immediate release. I would expect someone who is only looking for this type of service would be well watched up and it's great they found one another but for most here, it's an exception not a rule. That's one of the great things about all things sexual and sensual, everyone is different, hormones are varied and there is so much to be explored. Find a person who wants to explore with you and everyone is happy....whether it be friend, SO or SP.

Nick Gilder - Hot Child in the City! Loving the 70's

Giggling now...love this song (don't tomato me) Neil Sedaka - Bad Blood http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d4lfsuDgctQ

Q is for Queening...

My favorite for coffee is with a shot of Bailey's Caramel. SO delicious. When it comes to tea, I LOVE Stash teas and they have some amazing flavors like mint chocolate, Christmas Morning and Pumpkin Spice. When not stocked or fancy...triple triple!

F is for Fuckery.....fun, frantic, fantastic and forever!!

No advice but I'm really sorry you have to give up something you love. Maybe there is a solution that you can employ while you groom to prevent a flair up? I'll hope for that answer for you!!

As in everything, there are those people who mind and those who don't, those who give in relationships and those who are parasites. I think the big questions here are the ones you need to ask yourself. Do you want to continue as an SP in a relationship or not? What are you looking for in a partner and a relationship? Once you know the answer to these questions to make yourself happy, you simply look for partners who will blend with you into what you're looking for. If you want to be an SP yet you have someone completely monogamous or jealous, it will never work, don't delude yourself thinking it will. If you want a strong man who does not sponge off you, then don't allow him to and if you see the behavior send him packing. Life is all about choices and making life into what we want it to be. You either chose things that will do this or you don't, either way, you have a choice. Good luck!

I am going to say something that probably doesn't get said much but must be taken into consideration as part of the equation. Pleasure is wonderful and best shared however much of what I've been reading is that there is this focus on a woman cumming. Yes, it's fantastic when it happens and it's enjoyed all around however there are some women who get just as much, if not more without an orgasm. Amazing right? Sometimes it's the journey, the giving, the tease and the build that is wanted and enjoyed and an orgasm is not needed. This is probably a small percentage of the population but I had to put it out there because sometimes that IS the person you're dealing with. Wonderful for you to want to get your partner there but if it doesn't happen, it does not impact the overall wonderful and amazing nature of the encounter. Just to clarify, there is nothing "wrong" with them, they just view and experience pleasure on a larger scale. I suppose it comes from knowing (or getting to know) your partner and what really gets you going.

Just stumbled upon a post about your 100th post so didn't want to let it go without saying thanks!! You add many beautiful and sexy images for the rest of us to enjoy!