Midnite-Energies

CERB has set 100 as a bar to reach as it seems those who are serious about being IN the community usually reach it. Those who may be fly by night or lurking tend to have a much lower post count. No offense taken it's a legitimate question.

I am spiritual not religious. I have trouble with other people (namely humans with flaws like any of us) directly us how to live or not to live. We each have a compass inside us that leads us to do do what is right FOR US! And what might be right for us may not be acceptable or right to others. Our intuition, heart and instincts are never wrong as long as we remain quiet enough to listen and accept them as part of who we are. To me, what I do is a God given gift and I embrace it. Until I did, I always felt like I was missing something or could be happier. Work was always...well, work. As for those who partake, I believe that every person has a right to be happy, to be sexual and to be touched and appreciated. I believe they have the right to pursue this as long as no one is being hurt by it. Don't ask, don't tell, turn a blind eye...this all falls into that. I believe that a hobbyist getting his or her needs met through an SP/MP is happier and more content and brings these feelings back to their primary or central relationships, whatever they may be. To be THIS is spiritual and Godlike....to religion it is unacceptable but then again, so is much of what "religion" does. The only thing that matters at the end of the day is how someone feels inside their heart. I believe God wants us to be happy and our internal compass is there to help. If you're smiling at the end of the day and feel great with that spring in your step, you are listening!

Inserting your comments below Patrick. I think you have hit on one of the most fundamental principles of sex work (for me anyway). That is that sex is intricately important to us as humans that if it is not "fulfilling" it throws the rest of our lives into imbalance. We are sexual and sensual beings and we need to be touched and to touch in order to be healthy and blissful. There have been so many studies on touch and sex for that matter but when it comes down to people recognizing the importance for some reason there is a disconnect. I've seen people in relationships falter because their needs are different yet their egos keep them fearful or getting those needs met. They end up unhappy and yearning for something. Whatever sex work is, it is positive for everyone involved if they are in it for the right reasons. I believe in people were more open and honest abut their sexual needs and their need for touch, the world would be a much more stable place then where it is today. <<<Perhaps the mainstream has a lot to learn from sex workers and their clients because what is being said here is that there is great humanity, fun, and in the same time [hopefully] makes money. These terms are not mutually exclusive despite what the mainstream would have the world believe. This works because people refuse to be constrained by labels. Front and center though it is our acknowledgment of how human and important erotic connection is. The very word "erotic" encompasses so much of the human experience; unlike other terms it is inclusive of variation.-apologies if I'm rambling here. The thoughts are coming fast and furious. Hopefully however it is making some sense- This discussion really does blow the stereotypes out of the water! Putting front and center people's humanity and how much fun and important it is>>>

Considering I only speak when I have something to say, I apparently had a lot to say! Thanks to all who read it.

One is never enough yet I will be thankful for it. It was a fantastic evening! xo

Scorpions - The Zoo New recent find!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yg86dqEosiw

When people I care about say something sweet and unexpected. Rainbows on my walls from my crystals Hugs and unlimited love from a child Logging into CERB and seeing some of the posts that are made Taking time to snuggle under the covers before sleep and be thankful for my day....and also think some naughty thoughts to have good dreams!

I have to say, being a BBW myself, that your approach in this post may be taken more negatively than you intended. It's wonderful that you are either searching for us confident sexy providers or trying to bring attention to us however using the term heaviest adds labels that aren't in keeping with the sexy women we truly are. Just my opinion, others may disagree. Good luck in any case.

Bettie has a personal impact in my space and I love the impact she had when she was doing her own thing and daring others to say anything. She was truly beautiful and a trailblazer. Quintessential strong amazing lady.

To me, it is everything. It has been a calling for many years although I never listened to it with my heart until recently. I love to give pleasure and to add something to those who see me. For those who truly enjoy what they do, it is an art form. There are so many ways to approach pleasure, seduction, sex and the tease and each one of us adds our own personality to the mix which makes it truly unique and personal. Not only that but to personalize it for the wonderful person we are spending our time with. This is far from a hobby even though the term hobbyist is used. There are friendships and relationships created within the confines of the lifestyle and those are just as vibrant and necessary as any other relationship. Sure, there are those who want a little thrill or enjoyment every now and then but I'm sure they appreciate what they are given. It's wonderful that so many on both sides of the lifestyle have embraced it and made it into the wonderful thing it is today even if old stigmas are still attached. Thankfully we have many wonderful activists, big and small, doing their part to adjust the perception directed at the lifestyle.

SO excited I got this one! Love these guys more then Rammestein! Sexy! Eisbrecher - Vergissmeinnicht

I know I began advertising on CL before I discovered CERB and I have watched it degenerate into a hate filled negative place where people just want to spew filth onto others. Definitely not a place to find the kinds of connections we're all looking for here, that's for sure. Glad to see you came out of it alive oldblueeyez!!

rovan47 because he's greedy in a very good way and he loves to share boobies and fripples and all kinds of other yummy goodies!!!

Z is for the zipper that slowly lowers as my mouth waters and I wonder what pleasures await....

I love Vitto because her posts exude positivity and warmth and you can feel her smile. Plus I see how much she is loved and that's a beautiful thing!

Here's one of those interesting discoveries A Brokeheart Pro - You Don't Know.

Tantus Severin Butt Plug....YUM!

As mentioned, I never expect a tip or gift so am always amazed and thankful when it does happen. The best gift for me is the smile, hug or comment that lets' me know I put a smile on someone's face. If they return, I do a happy dance (and it's fun to watch too). I have been given little tokens that I love and appreciate though and of course the little extra that I might use to splurge on myself a bit is very much appreciated. Nice to be thought of outside the time together. Having said all that...the greatest gift is given every time...ones time and ones self. So thank you to all the gentlemen who give this every day! Sorry if I'm sounding a little gushy, having a great week!

It just wouldn't be a good day without a little tongue from you Sir. Here's to many more!! --rawr--

Okay, since I am a complete oral lover and after boobies got their shout out, I HAVE to say COCK makes me smile...for hours, days, years even! And the wonderful men those amazing cocks are attached to??? OMG YES!!!! BIG HUGE GIGANTIC SMILE!!!!!!!

I love this thread because I will take any excuse to smile! A friend who writes to say they were thinking of me Seeing someone joyful and exuberant The ocean Carnivals Hearing a song I love Little kids and small animals - they have such simple joy Being with someone who wants to be with me My job Life...there is always something to smile about. KISSES...how could I have forgotten kisses...and hugs!!! and --RAWR--'s

Being so sensory, I am a total smell glutton. Sandalwood Sweet orange & Black Cherry incense gas ionized air fresh baked apple pie and bread (thanks Nan) A beautiful smelling man musk Once a Year Massage Bars from Lush Wood smoke Popcorn BBQ ribs I can't stand the smell of javex Now I want to go smell stuff!! lol

One thing I love about being here is that it is a true melting pot of people, beliefs, experiences, thoughts and so many other good things and for the most part, accepted. For me, it comes down to honesty, being true to yourself and treating people fairly and openly. I describe myself as poly because I have the ability within me to give to more than one. This is part of who I am and a "need to know" for someone thinking about getting close to me in a personal sense. I love what I'm doing and want to continue to do it. There are differences between sex, intimacy and a personal relationship. Work is work, leave it at work (at least the fine details), make sure you are giving your personal relationships the time and attention they require to grow and letting the person know they are special in a million little ways. You might have a thousand ways for your clients but your personal relationship should always get more. Again, it boils down to what one can personally do and what feels right for them. I would hope there would be no hypocritical behavior in that what is okay for a hobbyist (marriage, kids) would not be okay for an SP and vice versa. I'm finding that there is much more acceptance and understanding in this community than outside it. Praise be for that!!

Some delicious new pics and a story about spanking....even if you're not into that, you might still enjoy my hands on your bum! http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/ Have a sensual evening!!