Midnite-Energies

I would love to nominate Cristy Curves for Goddess of the Day and should have done so a bit ago. She is very giving to those on this board and provides insight and support to everyone. She has personally helped me with her knowledge and I appreciate her very much. As well, she gives in her personal life through volunteering and I'm sure makes a very positive impact. Thank you Cristy! :ThankYou: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=51462

Happy Birthday! May the year ahead be filled with the most glorious people and events that make you blissful!

:icon_arrow: How someone treats you is their karma, how you react is yours :icon_arrow: Never sacrifice who you are because someone has a problem with it because someone will ALWAYS have a problem with it. :icon_arrow: If you admire something in someone else, you are actually recognizing that quality as being in yourself and the person is merely a reflection. :icon_arrow: I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm telling you it's going to be worth it :icon_arrow: We are darkness and we are light. To get to out light, we must go through our darkness :icon_arrow: 10% of conflict is difference of opinion, 90% is due to the wrong tone of voice. :icon_arrow: Passion should never ever be restrained

Sometimes the most beautiful people on the outside are very ugly on the inside diminishing their beauty. Then there are some who do not turn heads but who become more beautiful as you get to know them for the are beautiful in all ways.

There was this thread http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=126630 and I've seen a few other positive comments.

I know that soy candles for one burn clean which is why they are preferred as they produce no smoke. Sara Peyton has a line of LED Candles at Lawton's that are inexpensive and beautiful and even have some wax in them for an authentic look and feel. They are remote controlled and one set even has the flickering and moving "flame"

mmmm nice Whitesnake - Still of the Night

To add another voice, there are those MP's like myself who provide both services depending on what you might be looking for. Best to research the ladies you're interested in as most have websites or reco's that could provide the answers you're looking for. If not, say hello and inquire. Both services have their own beauty and each should be explored as you're able. Good luck with finding the right SP for you!!

First, I think you have to take a look at the industry we're discussing. It's not called the 'sex trade" for nothing. It IS about sex however the people involved, on both sides of the mattress, have taken what was once a completely sexual entity and added heart and soul to it and made it into something more. If you read any thread on here or look at many of the guestbooks, you will see people connecting, making friends, valuing intimacy and connection, cuddling, hugs, kisses etc. This in itself answers your questions because YES, there is a soul connection for many people. Soul connections don't have to be a huge grandiose head over heels in love sort of deal, they can be meaningful "I get excited when i know I'm going to see you" or "I love cuddling with you afterwards and having a chat". Many tend to take the grander view and miss the amazing little things that are happening. Yes, they might recognize that they enjoy this person and want to see them but they don't realize the magical thing that happened. This hobby affords so many people opportunities to meet other people and making connections in so many different ways that it truly is brilliant. I find something wonderful in each and every one of my guests, and I am thankful for that every day. Don't get me wrong, I'm not so naive that I don't understand not everyone is in for non monetary reasons and some people just want to get off but I'm seeing more good people, especially on this board, than indifferent and that is what I'm basing my thoughts on. :makeout: So yes, there are soul connections made every day and I for one am thankful for each and every one.

I knew for a long time before I got mine that I wanted one however for me to decorate my body with lasting art (which is what a good tattooist will give you) it had to be meaningful to me. It took awhile to figure out what I wanted and mine is totally custom to me and what's important to me. Having said that, I found the whole tattoo experience stimulating and arousing (while also relaxing and enjoyable) and that gave me the yen for more. I have another in mind it's just finding the time, money and right artist to draw it. I have heard different motivations for placement IE. where it won't get deformed by weight gain or loss, where it can be seen constantly as a reminder, where it's not seen for employment reasons. My thought is that those seriously into tattoos for the esthetic and meaningful, choose based on the tattoo they want and the skin they have available. Most serious "collectors" don't plan out placement, sometimes it just happens. Those who just want tattoos tend to pick the "obvious" spots....lower back, ankle, upper shoulder, wrist etc. Like everything else inn life, it's a personal thing whether it's serious or frivolous. Mine is now part of me and I would feel loss with out. However, anyone calling it a tramp stamp will automatically be kicked in places they don't want to be kicked because my placement has meaning and the meaning is NOT "isn't that where all girls put it". Boot to the head!! lol.

I'm finding the results interesting so here's a follow up question. For those who would like the SP to initiate a hug or kiss, more specifically on a first meeting, do you give a sign or some body language that says you're open to it or do you want it to happen regardless? Inquiring minds want to know!! --muah--

LOVE Toronto!! So I'm going to go OLD school and then...Canadian school Ohio Players - Fire The Odds - Eat My Brain

Let's kick it old school Headpins - Feel it (Feel My Body) Please?

I had to give the wishy washy answer of "it depends" because I've seen some hot and sexy beards and I've seen some that could hide a full tribe of pygmies and you could be speared at any moment. I like facial hair that is becoming to the man it is on and that looks like some effort went into it's maintenance. Extra bonus when it is soft and touchable because being the sensory whore I am, I need to touch, fondle and play! Both beards and clean shaven faces have their place in my heart!

Honestly, this can work BOTH ways. I know when I'm connected in and feeling good I have a tendency to say a few dirty things although will admit I sometimes try to control them if I haven't received any indication that it's ok to let loose with the verbal descriptions. If you know you have a tendency to be a little (a lot) vocal (and I'm not just talking dirty expletives I'm also talking howling, screaming or other equally surprising things), nothing wrong with mentioning this so that the person can at least be prepared and it doesn't leave them gobsmacked. I would hope that anything uttered in the heat of passion would be more taken as a compliment and maybe even a turn on than something to get upset about.

There have been a couple threads on this lately and while the need may vary I have a related question. When it comes to time spent with someone do you prefer, as a gentlemen in the hobby, to initiate the kissing/hugging (within your comfort level and connection), have the SP initiate it or wait to see how it naturally progresses? If you have a better option, please comment.

There have been a number of threads on this topic and the general consensus is that everyone is an individual. There are some hobbyists that would not be able to have a date without it because it adds so much to the time spent with the other person. This happens a lot with those people who have established a wonderful relationship with their SP/MA. There are those who will do it depending on the connection they feel with their SP/MA. No connection equals no kissing although there might be other intimacies such as soft touches or cuddling. Then there are those who just aren't into it for whatever reason...I've heard I don't enjoy it, I feel that's too intimate, want to keep things more professional etc. It really depends on the man/woman and their SP/MA. Relationships, sex and intimacy are such dynamic energies that you just never know what could happen in any given moment! I for one say YES PLEASE! lol but only if the gentleman in question enjoys that sort of thing.

I've often thought about gathering the accoutrements and offering it as a service. Think it would be amazing to do and then enjoy the time after.

Such a delicious topic! Normally there are two ways I approach CIM. One is to maintain a deeper hold and to let the cum pool and I swallow it all as I move up the shaft. The second is to maintain a shallower hold and let it slide down the throat. One let's you savor the flavor while the other does not. With bigger loads (and depending on the sensitivity of the man) you can do the "pool" a couple times or just let it slide down. I've never had a problem with a big load or gagging so I can't comment on that aspect. my assumption would be they are too deep for a big load and it has no where to go...imagine filling a narrow necked bottle too fast! Okay....NOW I'm thirsty!!! --rawr--

Squirting is an amazing and intense experience. As has already been mentioned every lady is different so achieving this also varies from lady to lady. I have had the experience through being pleasured with fingers and a couple times through actual penetration. Once you have the patience to discover what works it can be used like a secret weapon lol. Nothing like your body taking over and making you feel wonderful!

Have a wonderfully fantastic birthday. I hope someone spoils you with something you love! :icon_wink:

Happy Belated Birthday....may the year ahead be filled with wonderful things!

Watching Doctor Who, having my toes done and a good Bourbon. I'm a girly geek with a bad boy side lol

Just giving this a a little bump as I may have been a bit to BIG in my original concept. Simply put I'm wondering about those gems of wisdom that have changed your perception or way you move through life. They don't have to be big as greatness also comes in small packages. Advice, wisdom, some important piece of information that guides you through life. So many amazing people here on CERB, share your personal wisdoms?

Just a little chat about Sexual Intoxication and of course, some sexy pics. Hope everyone has a fantastic Monday! http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/ Feeling blessed today! Also wanted to let people know you can ask me anything anonymously, make suggestions etc. Just go to "Ask Me Anything". What's on YOUR dirty mind!