Midnite-Energies

There are so many things to love about doing what I do but the thing that makes me love it beyond all else is when someone expresses to me that they feel wonderful or kingly or that I positively impacted them in some way (even if only sexually), THAT floats me higher than anything. Sometimes this expression isn't verbal but it's still received loud and clear. I have had (and continue to have) some absolutely amazing clients and they make me smile.

There are certain people I associate with CERB more due to their thoughtful posts, their apparent connection to others and their overall generosity of spirit...roamingguy is one of those people and I enjoy reading his posts and his presence.

Cruising hard.. Ram Jam - Black Betty Personally I love this remake by Spiderbait

Personally I love both giving and receiving especially when the gentleman in question is receptive. This is something I have also advertised and spoken about. As it's been said, hygiene is extremely important and expected no matter the encounter, ass play or not. I am very much a "flow" provider in that I like things to progress naturally in whatever way they are led in the moment so I am always prepared for anything. Not only does the rosebud have tonnes of pleasure nerve endings but when you delve deeper into prostate massage, it feels amazing AND it's good for the overall health of the prostate. Who says you can't have fun being healthy! It seems to me this area of play is becoming much more accepted, explored and enjoyed especially with the new openness and awareness of prior "hidden" erotics. 50 shades may have sucked from a true D/s view but at least it got people talking and exploring and THAT is a great thing.

Kissing lights my fire and either puts me on slow burn or disco inferno! Touching, cuddling, enjoying the other person is an amazing exchange of energy that releases good chemicals into the brain and gives you that happy euphoric feeling. Sex is amazing, don't get me wrong, but everything else is just as good and sometimes even better. There is something called sensual intoxication which I have experienced. It comes from being so in tune with and connected to another person that the simple act of touching them (kissing, stroking, cuddling etc) can give you the same feeling as having a few drinks. It's pretty amazing.

I am a very exploratory person by nature and love discovering new things that stimulate me personally or that I can do to others. I'm still exploring the kink community as time is a premium. I love anal play in many forms, I have an unexplained attraction to flogging I have yet to explore so don't know if it's giving or receiving, I love power exchange and often find myself taking the lead and enjoying it. Spanking is a new love I have discovered and I look forward to delivering more. Rope bondage has already been mentioned and although I have no experience with it, it's very beautiful to witness. Men in panties, strap on play, tease (still learning the denial part), electrical play, fire play, bondage, sensory deprivation....my list is growing all the time. Life is about exploring and continuous learning and I intend to keep enjoying the ride while helping others enjoy theirs.

I am very sensory and tactile. I love spending time afterwards touching, kissing all over...just enjoying the person I'm with. Conversation is just a part of that connection and when it's right, it's amazing and I could revel in it all day. When you're in the throes it's a different sort of passion than after but it's all an amazing pleasure and I thank each and every person who allows me to indulge myself in them.

I use email, PM and texting to give and receive information and set up appointments. I spent so many years with a phone attached to me that I really dislike it as a form of communication and rarely answer it unless I have been expecting a call. However, if a gentleman wants to speak with me prior to meeting, I am always open to that. A voice call can give a lot of information both ways and I would rather someone want to see me and be excited about this fact than be iffy so if a call can do that, I'm all for it.

Oh THIS has to be done! The Big Lebowski! Kenny Rogers & The First Edition - Just Dropped In (To See What Condition My Condition Was In) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=od_6M8cFdUA

As I move through life I sometimes hear or read things that touch me in a profound way. They change my perception, thought process or the way I behave. I love those little gems that come out of nowhere as if they were made just for you. I wanted to share a couple of mine and hope others might do the same so that maybe more of us can't enjoy an "AHA "moment. Here are three of my more recent ones: It's a challenge to see every problem as a lesson and approach it positively asking what can you learn from it but to do this gives us power by helping change our perception and then problems that arise, shrink in size. Honesty and full disclosure are two separate things. Honesty means what you say is true and to me this is very important. Full disclosure means to say everything there is to say. I own my information so if I chose not to share it because it has no impact on you, I'm not being dishonest I'm simply indulging my privacy. A secret shared between individuals that has no bearing on anyone else and is not told, is NOT dishonesty, it's privacy. I am finding more people think full disclosure is honesty and when you don't share everything, it's dishonesty. This is untrue. Children are people and individuals. They are not property. They deserve the same respect you would grant any adult and they will learn and give respect as an adult. If you wouldn't do/say something to an adult than don't do/say it to a child, find a better way. We give more patience to older people trying to maintain control than we do to those learning it when it should be equally important and deserved. It's a difficult lesson to put into practice but worth it.

You are pretty amazing yourself and I SO enjoy our time. :makeout: --RAWR-- xx

Just to clear up a misconception being an intuitive energy worker myself, the breathing is probably a personal meditation tool that many people use. The "laying on of hands" is (assuming here) an energy exchange meant to use her own energies to clear blockages and stagnant energy from you or to infuse you with positive energies. At least this is what I do when I do that. However, if that's all the service is, unless she is adding the sensual element as I do, there is no real sensuality to it. It is therapeutic only. I can't comment on herr state of mind as one poster said but there is great benefit in this, just not if you're looking for something of a more sensual nature.

It would be nice if you could both thank and leave a comment yet have it only count as one action, just as if you do one or the other counting as one. Sometimes you want to say thanks and have a short comment versus a full fledged response (I say this just NOW having discovered how the comment feature works). No idea the complication involved in doing this but it would be nice.

I mistakenly mixed a drink once and after feeling the effects I dubbed it "The Slut Bomb" It was summer and wonderful with fresh orange slices....and a man! Sangria Vodka Ginger Ale I generally only serve this to myself! lol

Saw these guys live..Jerry Mercer was amazing!! April Wine - Sign of the Gypsy Queen

Massage Warehouse has this product as well as many unscented natural options including, I believe, some vegan options. I am in the process of designing my first order so can't comment on the service however most products have customer recommendations from both sides of the table and these are great in getting a feel for the product. Even if you're not ordering from the warehouse, you can research the product there and then find a Canadian supplier. The ones I looked into seem to only carry one or two lines so it's more difficult to compare. Hope this helps.

This one takes me back... XTC - Dear God!

THAT is the true test. If you find yourself at peace doing what you're doing, than it is the right action for YOU.

PANSEXUAL! This is when you are attracted to the PERSON regardless of who they are. Gender, race, age, sex etc. doesn't play a role. I would love to see more of a flow to this descriptor then people becomes free to just do what and who they please without labels, repercussions, guilt etc. I find there is too much pigeon holing of people and then if you deviate, it's a big deal. The problem here is it shouldn't matter to anyone except you. If you want to do something, do it. Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind! Who you're attracted to or what activities you want to undertake should have no bearing on you as a person. I AM...the two most powerful words because what you put after them directs your course. I AM completely me!

Chilliwack - Crazy Talk http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSq8jKLZpnY Love this in the shower!

I love erotica in its many forms as well as telling stories about my desires and encounters. Hope others enjoy as well. http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/

I find men to be of bigger disadvantage than women because they lead with mind and logic while women lead with heart. We are trained when growing up and into adult life that relationships must be structured in "this" way, you must behave like 'this", you must feel guilt and shame when you step outside this structure and that jealousy is normal. I believe every person has something that is right for them whether it be monogamy, polyamory or anything in between. Unfortunately this means having to listen to yourself, making choices that are unacceptable to others, accept that shame, guilt and jealousy are all fear based and are trained behaviors and can be unlearned and lose friends and family who care about "propriety" instead or love, tolerance and acceptance. One thought is that sometimes it IS that you're with the wrong person or the person you're with should be more of a good friend than wife/GF. If you're honest with yourself about what you want then WAIT for the person that fulfills this. If you're already with someone, be honest about it. Partners might feel the same way or they might not but at least it opens up the lines of communication and allows for honest conversation. Maybe your partner is really a closet adventurer or maybe they have no interest at all. So many people just accept it as reality and don't take the risk to perhaps improve. Fear again because it could go the other way to. Another thought is that you like your partner as you connect in so many different ways that are good. Sex is not among them. There is nothing wrong with getting your needs met outside the relationship without entanglements as this generally makes the main relationship stronger by taking away resentments, stress and a slew of other negative things that may impact the relationship. Using an SP to meet needs does not detract from the love you feel for a partner it can actually make you feel more loving because you are more content. We all have needs and if they're not met, they are detrimental to our health and happiness. This has been proven in many studies. I would love to see more people focusing on taking care of themselves and learning what they want and need instead of being so focused on what others expect or demand from them. If you couple this with honesty, open communication and respect, it's an equation for building a more blissful life on your terms. Who are you? What do you need? How can you get it? Are you worth it? Is it hurting anyone? So much to this one topic and all relative as individuals.

Couldn't have said it better myself PassionVitto! truly delicious!

There is just something about the chorus in this song that always drew me in Midnight Oil - Beds are Burning