Midnite-Energies

Love this song! Credence Clearwater Revival "Bad Moon Rising" ...and it is.

Thanks for the rambling @nlwoodchuck and the wonderful points on trombone playing, very informative! LOL. Love your view on sex and agree completely and love how your wife has become this sexually liberated creature...I think your patience was rewarded!

I understand the stress we can put on ourselves to be "all that" and we really aren't treating ourselves well when we do it. We are responsible for having ourselves prepared and ready, upbeat, positive etc. so that we can give ourselves in the best way possible. I love sharing with someone either new or repeat and having them share with me. As Cyclo said, it's the novelty and discovery that amps up the excitement. Within that I like to also know what feels good. Sometimes in my discovery I find them and sometimes they are a little hidden or need to special treatment, this is when communication is important to me. It really is mental as well as physical too. I love the comparison to a tango as it really is that give and take and melding of energies. Do you prefer, as a client, to be asked or to just communicate if you want something a little different in terms of pressure, tongue, no tongue, faster slower? Do you enjoy being asked knowing someone is focused on your pleasure? Personally, I love to give that "smile that lasts all day" and when I know I did, it gives ME a smile that lasts all day. When unsure, I have to fight with myself not to take full responsibility.

I had someone recently make the statement that I was responsible for their pleasure. Which started me thinking that a lot of people, not just in the SP dynamic but also in real time relationships think this way as well. I do NOT believe I am responsible for anyone's pleasure. Each person is responsible for their own, I am but an instrument of pleasure bringing my own unique talents, attitude, and body to the table. I am not a mind reader, so if something I'm doing could feel better or be done in a different more pleasing way, share this and allow me to pleasure you better. I am here for your pleasure so I want you to feel as good as possible. If your expectation is that I am responsible for your pleasure and what I do or don't do, even on first meeting, reflects my standing as an SP, then many SP's may fall on the negative side of the balance sheet which isn't fair. Yes, I know life isn't fair but shouldn't we take some responsibility for ourselves?. It's one thing when there isn't that connection or appeal, that's something you can't fake. However when I hear "it wasn't done the way I like it or how I expected" it makes me want to ask where they were because they apparently weren't fully present as a participant. So, just a frustrating happening that gave me food for thought. Maybe my thinking in flawed in that this industry does make us responsible as SP's/MP's for someone's pleasure but I really hope it's more the exception than the norm. Does anyone have any thoughts on either side of the equation?

Happy Birthday! Hope it's filled with wine, women and song...

Thank you justanotherguy74. As Katherine said, it takes two to make time together outstanding and I certainly love what I do especially with someone openly receptive --rawr--

Gentleman11, you are awesome! Thank you so much. :makeout: Finally got the new website up, hope you enjoy. http://www.midnitemassage.escortfiles.com/

Thanks for the wonderful link. I'm always interested in alternative and natural therapies and this is very interesting. I use LUSH massage bars which are all natural, melt into the skin for moisturizing and soothing effects and the ones I like contain ingredients to relax and ease muscles and overall tension. Very good for the body and skin. I am looking into alternatives that have the same impact as a base and perhaps mixing my own "therapies" for the clients needs. Magnesium oil may be a good addition.

Being relatively new to the industry and having had the pleasure of truly beautiful people, I may not have some of the wisest or most useful information but I am always here if a smile or shoulder is needed and I will offer my personal insights if asked. Start fresh from here and welcome to CERB where you will be appreciated!

This is definitely on my list of things to do. Gotten close personally a couple times but the situation got blown out of the water for a variety of reasons. I love the thought of being filled and enjoying the interactions of three people. Using toys to achieve this is great but not the same as two warm eager bodies attached to hands and lips and other delicious parts. I would also love to entertain two men looking to explore their bi sides and this being part of the couplings for the evening.....just the thought makes me needy! I must say I've enjoyed reading some of the ideas and thoughts in this thread and have giggled to myself a few times.

You are very right, the ultimate blowjob IS very subjective because everyone likes something different. The trick is to not only find a lady who absolutely adores having a hard cock in her mouth but can also adapt herself to your cues or learn what you like. To me, the better question is on techniques not who provides. Then it becomes more a question of who has a good reputation for loving what they do and who does it the way I want it done. Only my opinion....never been on the receiving end of a blow job (dang) but have seen lots of preferences.

Happy Valentines Day so all the amazing ladies but most especially the absolutely amazing men that share themselves so beautifully. I hope everyone gets to do something that brings you happiness today. --KISSES-- to you all!!

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Hello and welcome to Midnite Massage. Want your busy, stressful life to slow down for an hour? Let me work all the tensions and discomfort from your body and leave you with a smile. I am located in the Clayton Park area with both daytime availability and evenings after 9pm. Parking available. Check out my profile for details on my website and rates. Feel free to PM me with any questions you might have. Hope to touch you soon!

Thank you nominis for the feedback, I very much enjoyed meeting you. I'm just now getting my CERB feet wet and exploring what the site has to offer. Have a wonderful evening :ThankYou: