jimmytatro

Yeah definitely realize this, still figuring this out, I guess maybe it was inappropriate for me to even say that but I think I was trying to express the level of comfort I had for those SPs that did have the time to initiate conversation with me, without me texting them first. Yeah it is a delicate balance and I am getting the feeling that while there are some universals, you can't apply the same thing to everyone but thats why I am spending time learning in the "New to this" section.

Honestly for most of the providers I have kept it to the minimum amount of messages to get the basic info that wasn't provided in the ad, as I have yet to become a client I guess I am still a time waster (one of the bad guys described in this thread) but have only went beyond the basic info gather with a couple SPs some of who sent me pics a few hours after talking and send me a message every once in a while to chat... I don't expect this I was just saying it has made me feel a lot more comfortable about meeting up with these girls and I know this is also another industry "no no" but both of the SPs that I have had such extended convos with I have thought "man I wish I had met with this girl in real life at a bar or something, outside of this context" as they seem dateable (might be important to note that I am younger than or of similar age to most of the SPs). I didn't consider the whole "slap in the face" thing that may explain what happened as like I said before I immediately apologized, thanked her for her time and said ok basically when she said she wouldn't be sharing a picture. And she then sent another response which I followed with another apology and that I wouldn't contact her anymore, which afterwards I received 3 angry messages to in reply which I didn't reply because at that point I didn't really know what else to do. I didn't really consider that it would have been offensive that I was openly shopping around but I would like to keep track of girls I am interested in seeing and do my research on them. A lot of the girls I have been in contact with from BP don't seem to have any info on here, good or bad. That and I have been searching for someone who does Greek which I have found a few, rates also seem to vary by almost $100 from girl to girl so that is another thing I consider. Although I have the expendable income to be involved in this if I can't pick between two girls that offer the same services and I find equally attractive I may go for the slightly cheaper one (against the whole, get what you pay for thing I know). This board has been super helpful though, I feel like I would have ended up kidnapped in some sort of overzealous bait and switch without some of the info I have learned here.

I am a newbie, although I looked into things last year and somewhat lost interest when I learned some more about the industry. My interest has been once again renewed. I have been contacted a few girls lately to make general inquiries about rates and what not, just to get the basic info to have for making a decision of how I would like to see based upon looks, rate and restriction. I have generally found the SPs of Halifax very friendly and patient with my questions however some requests that were exceeded by every SP I talked with were reacted to with a lot of negativity from two SPs from NB I contacted, I requested a picture to use to add them as a contact so that I could remember who was who. Both refused and requested not to be added as a contact, one in particular even after I apologized and said that I would not add her as a contact as she requested and would not contact her anymore, sent me 4 more angry and vulgar texts. This was very unexpected by me as there is one SP from Halifax who has sent me many pictures and chats with me on a daily basis asking questions about life events I had mentioned previously in conversation. This is the second Halifax SP that I have had great conversation with and it makes it very easy to decide where you wish to choose to spend your money and time with such a stark contrast. I was totally surprised though in the difference in interactions between the girls I was in contact with from Halifax and the ones from Moncton. I guess everyone is an individual but it seemed like there was a difference in interaction etiquette.

Well thanks for the advice everyone, I guess a lot of it has been enlightening and generally disappointing. I don't know it was kind of bucket list but now it seems like what I originally had in mind when I came up with the idea is an experience that is either all based on misconception and impossible or just not available to me regardless of how much money I have and the traits that I thought would have made the experience easier turned out to actually work against me to make me less desirable and ineligible to receive what I was seeking. I guess it is a good thing that I did come here to get informed even if it was a disappointment.

I would suggest Chester as an area to consider, they have a decent community and while it isn't great they do have a yacht club. I guess it depends what size town you are looking for and how far from a city or airport you are looking for. Fox Harbour has pretty much every amenity you would need within including a small airport, marina, spa and golf course.

I probably wouldn't want to pay more than $4000 really as I'm not really looking for an overnight, half day or any of that and am looking for more of a PSE I guess. Didn't really think of the age thing I figured that most of the girls I would be considering would be fairly close to my age early 20's and therefore that would be more desirable than some grey haired middle aged dude in a yellow porsche lol. Also didn't consider the references thing. I like the idea of someone that only needs to do a few encounters a month but the fact that I may not qualify is kind of a surprise, I guess the reasons that make someone desirable at uni or in the dt bars doesn't really apply to this context. I'm kind of thinking that it may be better to hold off till I am in New York or Toronto or something for the weekend... that is if I don't get completely talked out of the whole idea first by the destruction of all my misconceptions lol.

Yeah I think I did have PSE in mind. As for those who mentioned a gf well I'm in university so I do have a few girls that I am "seeing" (non exclusive dating I guess) lol its university right, which is another reason why I was like I want the best. And yeah totally have ideas about the industry from movies.

Interesting, since I was looking for a one off deal I was thinking that between 1000-2000 would be expected for the higher end. The idea of someone similarly educated and cultured is an interest but at the same time I have gone home hairdressers (and the like) from the bars before. While that may make me hesitant to pursue a relationship in some instances (not always), for a night of fun it does not weigh heavily into my mind, I don't really require formal etiquette I wouldn't be bringing her to a black tie event or anything. I don't know I guess I am surprised, I was aware that there were street walkers or girls that are very accessible to the general populace but I was under the impression that there would be a much higher end as well. However, I am not really looking for a GFE or companionship. Although after chatting with Manda or Msmanda or whatever her name is briefly over email I would have gladly taken her out for an evening in a platonic sense just to learn more about her personal perspective of the industry as she seemed to be both realistic and intelligent.

Hey had a pretty decent chat with Manda from here the other day about some of my curiosities of the whole industry which was really helpful. Ha I would totally be friends with her she seems really chill. I had a few more broader questions that may be better answered here one of which is who is the most expensive or exclusive SP in Halifax? Like is there anyone that is very selective with their clients and expensive? Like I am university student/athlete with the means to afford a more exclusive experience to satisfy my curiosity since it is something that will most likely be a one time deal for me I would be more comfortable with the level that would be inaccessible to most price wise and preferably client selection wise.