PurpleHaze

I searched and didn't find any threads on this topic which is some what surprising. When I lose my virginity I was hoping to do cocaine with the escort. I always thought it would be such a cool experience to snort a line of her ass. Is this an appropriate question to ask her in the email? I know the high class escorts that people such as Charlie Sheen use are fine with that, but they are paid thousands.

HARAAM!!!!! May Allah have mercy on your soul. Only joking, but yes I completely understand where you are coming from. For me as well I feel as if I cannot form a relationship with a girl while having virginity. It would seem as if everything we do is just leading up to sex and she would have to be the teacher. Really awkward for any girl and females in general completely avoid dating male virgins. Woman want guys that have lots of sex, just simple psychology but they are attracted to the player and alpha male type. Furthermore girls tend not to be the ones to initiate sex or escalate so for a virgin it becomes an even more of an impossible task to get a girlfriend or have sex. Hence why virgins refer to it as "getting lucky" but sometimes you just got to make your own luck and that is what I am doing in my case. I wasn't lucky enough to get to have sex at 14/15 like most people and I don't want to wait for it to happen by chance when I am 20+

There is the stereotype that if a man pays for sex then he must be extremely ugly, but obviously that is untrue since unless you are physically disabled you can still pull 9's and even 10's if you understand the social dynamics and some evolutionary psychology. Only about 20% of what a woman cares about is actually your physical appearance so I don't want to hear that as your reasoning. If you honestly believe that you are ugly then I have some great books which can help you understand the error in your thinking, just PM me. In my particular case I have virginity and the symptoms of my virginity are what prevents me from being able to do casual sex. Due to the sexual anxiety, not knowing anything about sex, and not knowing how to escalate (kissing, etc) makes it literally impossible to go into a bar or club and close on a girl. Furthermore this also prevents me from being to establish a fuck buddy relationship as I do not know how to escalate and thus establishing the friendzone. So for my situation the use of escorts are no different than going to see a doctor. However; I am curious why some men choose to use this option long term.

Why would you guys who did this wait until you were 25+ to finally have sex? Why did you avoid it for all your younger years? Knowing what you know now wouldn't you have rather done it when you were much younger? Maybe when you turned eighteen? Why did you wait so long avoiding sex? I am nineteen and in the same situation as you guys however I don't see why it would be beneficial to go the next six years without sex and then decide to do it in my mid twenties. According to most studies the negative health effects from virginity start taking place once you reach age 20 so I need to do it within the next year.

Yeah I figured that was why she read it but never replied. She didn't post an email so I didn't have any other way to message her. Better than doing nothing. I lease my own house and cook my own meals but I do enjoy the concept of role playing and can always use a good spanking.

Good point. Even though I didn't link her Facebook someone could use the BP url I provided to do so. I did actually send her a message on Facebook last night to let her know about this because as surprising at it may seem, I do actually care. Also, "Ignorance is a state of being uninformed (lack of knowledge)".

Never pay for anything. Here is a free VPN that you won't have trouble using. http://proxpn.com/ It is actually extremely easy to beat StrongVPN as VPNs do not protect against layer two attacks such as ARP poisoning. For example here is a nice tool called Ettercap that even comes with a simple to use graphical interface http://ettercap.github.io/ettercap/ . Furthermore SSL and HTTPS can easily be decrypted into plain text with tools such as SSLstrip which can be downloaded here http://www.thoughtcrime.org/software/sslstrip/ . You are never safe on a public WiFi as there are many assholes such as myself just waiting for morons to enter their banking information and credit cards. But honestly, anyone who would do this could not give a shit about your CERB password or email accounts. The only thing a VPN is good for is changing your IP address to allow ban evasion, content filtering, and country spoofing. If you use a public WiFi then consider everything you type to be public, because it is.

Generally in life from potential female prospects I have been told that I am a "nice guy", or the "sweetest guy". My abilities as a virginal beta male friendzone guy are so grand that I have actually ended up living in a house with four attractive girls of which I can only assume must think I am gay. So thanks, I truly do appreciate this irony.

I never saw her but I can confirm that she is legit since that is what you asked. For some stupid reason she took a photo off her Facebook, didn't rename it, and then uploaded it to BP unchanged. "link removed" So if you have basic knowledge of how Facebook works you can use the middle number "bunch of random numbers" which is the photo ID to go straight to her account. I checked and yes she is actually from Qubec. From her Facebook photos of large amounts of cash you can tell she is an escort. She should honestly protect her identity a little more though. Anyone can get her real full name and city. Complete ignorance on her part. She is also a "BBW" but doesn't mention that on her ads. So be warned.

How is that relevant? Using that to try and make my arguments invalid is known as an ad hominem and clearly shows your lack of intelligence. I never said I know everything. Although I would love to achieve omniscience; it would actually be impossible to do so. You are putting words into my mouth and I can only assume to try and feed your ego. There is a great book I have read which can help you learn to transcend your ego issues. Even if you don't think you have a problem (the ego does this) the book can benefit you regardless. I have uploaded the .PDF specifically for you, skip to chapter two if reading is not your thing. http://www.mediafire.com/view/7b39uicxn83umnn/A_New_Earth_fullbook.pdf First of all, the two options you gave are a false dichotomy. But to the point, either you have trouble comprehending what I said and so paraphrased it wrong or as before you are trying to put words into my mouth so that you have a much simpler topic to argue against (noticing how you didn't even bother to quote any of the five explanations of the falsity to your counter arguments). My exact words were "from my point of view all I would see is unprofessionalism and laziness." Never did I say a definitive statement that every SP without an website is unprofessional or lazy and no where did I say anything about them not being worthy of others seeing. Again, I am not trying to be an asshole. My opinion was asked and so I stated it. My needs here and escort preference may be different than your needs. You quoted and openly challenged me so I have responded to help you understand.

Yes I am sure of myself otherwise I wouldn't have posted it. I do have Asperger's hence the black and white thinking and the reason I need to use escort services, however; I still feel everything I said is justified and all your counter arguments invalid. CA1) Perhaps they find their page on CERB to be sufficient for their needs? As I said before unprofessionalism. I mean even drug dealers have websites on the deepweb these days but that is the not my point. My point is that it cannot do any harm and only benefit them by having a site. For example instead of using a random Hotmail or Gmail address to send emails they can use their own domain name which makes it look so much more professional. Even if the only place they advertise is on CERB they can have a link to their website on their profile and posts which will help confirm their legitimacy and appeal to a larger audience. You can turn off search engine indexing if you don't want people to be able to search for "escort+[yourcity]" and then it is just like an extension of their CERB profile. CA2) Perhaps they only do this part time or seasonally? I do not understand this counter argument. They can easily post this information on their website. CA3) Perhaps they're very tech unsavvy and don't know how to make a website or do web design? I would say over 95% of the people who own a website don't even know basic HTML or CSS. It is well understood that the general public lack computer skills and there are services that allow the creation of websites in a very simple way. Drag and drop interfaces, premade templates, etc. The majority of onshore webhosts are designed for people who know nothing, they will create your domain, give you a control panel, content management system, everything you need. http://www.hostgator.com/ is the first to come to my mind but I am not sure what our shitty countries laws are regarding prostitution advertisement online. Get an offshore host and you won't have to worry about prostitution laws, copyright claims, pornography, or any of the crap that you would have to deal with if your server is in Canada or United States. CA4) Or just don't want to? Confirms my argument about laziness. CA5) Some people prefer to be VERY private and low profile. Sadly many people do live their lives in fear. They do not need to post any information that they wouldn't already give on CERB. Domains can be registered by a third party or you can even give fake WHOIS information. Simply turn off search engine indexing as well.

First of all do not use Vista, you actually shouldn't be using any Windows operating system at all but if you must then use Windows 7. Here is a link: http://thepiratebay.sx/torrent/7049713/Windows_7_Ultimate_32_64-bit_RemoveWAT_Included, also do not use Windows 8 as that is just as bad as Vista. This not definatelty not a problem with Adobe Flash Player, Firefox, or an Ad banner. Whoever told you that is an idiot. This isn't even an operating system problem or you would have went to the blue screen of death. That is what happens you encounter a kernel mode error. This is a hardware issue. Not memory as I am sure Netbooks would come with at least 2GB and even if so you can check this yourself, just open up the task manager and check your memory usage. And still, a computer would never shut off from using too much memory, you operating system takes care of that. This is more than anything else likely to be an issue with your graphics card. I say this since you said you get jitter when you start the video. The tiny pathetic GPU that would come with a Netbook would not be able to support high defininition video. If you want me to help you further then: 1) What type of Netbook do you have? (Why wouldn't you have posted that anyway) 2) Does the jitter happen as soon as you start watching the video? 2.1) If yes: Then your graphics card is damaged. Probably from overheating or long term use. Can simply be replaced for cheap. 2.2) If no: Feel under the laptop (where the graphics card is) and tell me if it gets hot after watching videos for a while just before crashing.

I would NEVER see someone who does not have a website. It makes it look as if they don't take what they do seriously. It also helps reduce the amount of fakes or bait and switches. Given the fact that you can buy a domain name for around $5, get free hosting, and use a premade template there is absolutely no excuse for an SP not to have a website. From my point of view all I would see is unprofessionalism and laziness.

Really simple to do. Go into your hosting accout and look for your FTP details. Use a client such as FireZilla to upload your videos to the root of your website, for example /public_html/videos/ which would be the same as /vidoes/ From your website you can then use a direct link so people can download/stream it in their browser. If you want to have someone able to play the video within your website then you would need a third party app. You weren't specific so I have no idea what you want. Finally you said you were afraid to ask your host due to the content? I checked the DNS and you are hosted onshore, terrible idea. Get an offshore host even in a country such as Netherlands or Germany and you will not have to worry about your content being illegal or taken down. You definately don't want to be violating your hosting terms of use so seriously switch over to a real host.

Didn't expect to get this much feedback. I understand now the logic behind refusing to show a face picture given the negative stigma with this line of work. Personally I could not care and even posted my own picture that would be recongized by anyone who knows me. The reason I requested a face picture was because I got my orginal negative impressions from BP, where half the ads are low quality and they couldn't even be bothered to make a website ($5 domain, free hosting, basic HTML/free template) so the face picture was an easy way to determine if it was a fake or low quality ad. Given the way this site works with the reviews and moderations, that should not be an issue. However; ads in the third person are still are a red flag so that will have to be avoided. I cannot understand why a lady would refer to herself that way and morally I will not have sex with someone who is pimped out. If I was allowed to give negative feedback I would post links to examples of those ads in third person so you have an idea of what I mean. You can tell just from reading them that something is off (new account, no reviews, etc). Given the advice above and understanding that Kingston has a limited selection it seems like my best option is to wait and periodically check in to see if ladies from out of city are travelling through. Really wish I lived in Ottawa lol. Thanks for the help everyone!