FootFetishTess

Questions! :-D For folks who love putting their feet on display: Are you a varnish type or do you bare all? For those who like to embelish: Do you just stick to varnish, or do you dress things up with decals and stick-on jewels? How do you feel about glitter? For the Natural types: Anyone tried using those nail-buffing cubes (I get them from the body shop) on your toes rather than your fingers? For folks who love to admire feet: What about you? Appreciate the organic look? Enjoy a splash of colour? Myself, I tend to go both ways (ahaha). Healthy toes with well-shaped nails, good natural colour are beautiful! So lovely. But... I'm also a complete nut for rich, saturated colours. A lush, creamy red; deep, shimmery blue; or a dazzling metalic like copper... YUM! Love 'em on my feet, love 'em on everybody else! What about you? :-)

@MalikaFantasy, I will look up Rope, Bondage and Power. :-D

No, I'm not looking to start a kinky book club on CERB (... yet). I'm just wondering if anyone has any favourites - how-to guides, novels, you name it. I'm a fan of the first Kushiel series by Jacqueline Carey, but I also love the non-fiction writing of Lee Harrington and, hey, who doesn't love Midori? Her fiction is gloriously twisted (Master Han's Daughter, anyone?) and her essays and guides are insightful and well-thought-out. :-) Who are your favourites? :-) - Tess.

Hello darlings, Iâ??m Tess, and I offer a fetish (not full-service) encounter, with lots that we can get up to together, including delicious foot worship, tease-and-dangle, stocking play, and trampling. As always, if you have something special in mind, please donâ??t hesitate to ask. If youâ??re partial to womenâ??s feet, and would like to have an adventure with me, Iâ??m available Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday of this week. [FONT="]For details, please visit my [URL="http://footfetishtess.weebly.com/additional-services.html"]website[/URL]. Twenty-four hoursâ?? notice required. Contact me [URL="http://footfetishtess.weebly.com/talk-to-tess.html"]directly[/URL] or by PM to book an encounter. Until we meet, - Tess. [/FONT]

Brilliant description! The tango metaphor is really apt. Thank you! - Tess. Additional Comments: @nlwoodchuck, Sensation Play is wonderful! I love to watch - and ride - the reactions of my partners, but bottoming for it is also a highly enjoyable experience! @piano8950, wax play can be lovely and gentle. It was one of my first forays into kinky play - spilling wax on myself (on purpose) while in the bath. (A bit of a mess to clean up after, as it turned out). It has the potential to be really intense, but can also be sweet and sensual... with just enough "bite" to make it interesting. ;-)

Hey, Summer, Looks like AESHA is in Vancouver (Lower Mainland + UBC).

@MegforFun - is your son okay? :-\ My day was great. Right up until: While I was climbing over a snowbank in order to board a city bus, the half-melted burm collapsed. Rather than getting on the bus, I wound up under it. Literally. O.O I'm fine - the bus wasn't going anywhere, and I caught myself before I hit the ground - but my left shin is a mess. (Looks "fantastic" and feels even better). So that sucked, yes.

Okay, darlings, This is the fetish board, so I'm asking: What are your kinks? What turns you on and gets you off that's outside of that narrow, confining box called "normal"? Clearly, I like feet - no kidding. ;-) I like people who like women's feet (ideally mine) and I like women's feet, myself. But I also like the crack of a good single-tail (I only just learned how to use one, so I won't be taking aim at actual people any time soon). I'm also curious about suspension bondage, about what it takes to make another person fly, about how to make the rope an extension of one's own arms. What are you into? - Tess.

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Is dinner and a good massage. Fortunately, I may be able to arrange that. ;-)

Most recent thing I purchased... Mango icecream or back-seamed stockings. Not sure which came first. :-)

Hello darlings, This is for all the foot-fellas out there. If you enjoy worshiping womenâ??s feet, have a love of soles and toes, or a taste for glamazons, you might be the man for me. Letâ??s have an adventure! I offer a fetish (not full-service) encounter, with lots that we can get up to together. You could: Enjoy the taste of my tantalizing toes, the scent of my sexy size-13 soles Practice your pedicure Indulge in a little tease and dangle Drop to the floor and let me walk all over you Savour the smooth sensations of my stockings If youâ??ve been bad, Iâ??ll put you in your place â?? under my feet, as my otto[I]man[/I] If youâ??ve been good, I might let you try on my shoes, and if youâ??ve been [I]very[/I] goodâ?¦ ;-) If you have something special in mind, please donâ??t hesitate to ask. Iâ??m available this week and next, by the hour or the half-hour, at my studio. For details, please visit my [URL="http://footfetishtess.weebly.com/additional-services.html"]website[/URL]. Twenty-four hoursâ?? notice required. Contact me [URL="http://footfetishtess.weebly.com/talk-to-tess.html"]directly[/URL] or by PM to book an encounter. Looking forward to meeting you. - Tess.

Love the cuban-heeled ones with the words on them! :-D I've been a stockings gal since I found out that straight-up pantyhose wasn't the only option (around the same time I passed 6'0"... funny thing). It's still a challenge to find them long enough, but they are MUCH easier to fit than hose. I have a bit of a thing for skin-tone fishnets. They offer many of the same plusses that sheer stockings do, but with better stretch and less likelihood of developing rips and runs.

... I think my grandparents would have liked this one. It wouldn't have been a colt for them, it would have been a calf (dairy farm + umpteen zillion other things. Monocropping does NOT work, so my grandmother told me, when you're a small-scale farmer) but... same situation.

Boulevard of Broken Dreams leads me (via title) to by Heart. Holiday, on the other hand, sends me (via the common lyric "this is the dawning") to by The 5th Dimension (dig those groovy parallel intervals, baby). - Tess.

Last thing I purchased? Breakfast for my mom (about two hours ago).

Favourite sexy song? by Pucifer (link goes to youtube video).I love it. It love the heartbeat pace of it and the low vocals. It just calls to my hips. Mmm. SJ Tucker has some good ones - " " (also a youtube link, although the video is a lot of not-actually-relevant-to-the-lyrics animation) and "The List Falls Away" - on her "Quartered" album.I also love the blues - for example - and, honestly, Hair Metal Power Balads (I know...) There's just something about those guitars. Yum! :-)

I'm definitely gartered stockings and OTK (thigh-high, really) socks kind of gal. That, or I just go bare. ;-)

I love "At Last". :-D As for goosebumps... "Never Let Me Go" by Florence + the Machine. Look it up on youtube if you haven't heard it. The instrumentals are lush and rich, her voice is so evocative, and her lyrics... Sucide as redemption, or a different kind of surrender? Gives me shivers!

Hey, Whiteman, You're right that L&C is easier to do with a small gentleman, but I don't doubt that larger fellows would want it, too. Everyone needs a little gentleness now and then. :-)

Hi, DBDB, I saw this thread and jumped on it. I love talking about the dynamics of dominance and submission (so appologies if this gets a little long). A lot of people use bdsm as a way to safely process and come to terms with taumatic experiences in their pasts, or to face specific fears in a controlled environment. Likewise, it's not uncommon for someone to turn to a professional domme (or a professional sub) when they need a confessor - someone who will hear their darkest secrets and not vilify them for what they want or need. So, from that angle, femdomme as therapy is not unusual at all. In long-term D/s relationships (at least as far as I'm concerned), it's the duty of the dominant to guide her submissive towards becoming his/her best self -- just as it's the duty of the submissive to smooth the way for the dominant in order that she, too, can be her best self. It's a beautiful, symbiotic relationship. :-) I think, in a shorter-term, professional D/s relationship this would also be possible, particularly if the client approached his dominant in a way that was up-front about his goals and his need for her guidance. With regards to your specific question about assertiveness, DBDB, you might be better off engaging a professional submissive. While engaging with any SP requires that you know your own desires and be able to communicate them effectively, a professional dominant would (I suspect - pro-dommes, feel free to chime in here) be the right choice if you needed to become more attentive to, and aware of, the needs and wants of others. If you want to practice being assertive, there is nothing in this world like being in charge of someone else's actions to teach you the clear, direct communication skills, follow-up practices, planning, and consideration that it takes to be assertive - to be the Boss - outside the bedroom. That's my thought on the subject, at least. I hope that there are a few professional submissives (and professional dominants) reading this who will also contribute to the thread. :-) - Tess.

Oh, Miss Jane. I know too many gay trans men with cis boyfriends to not know the answer to this. ;-) Two words: Buck Angel. Beyond that, there are closeted gay guys (cis, trans, you name it), and gay escorts who work with bi couples, so... Yes. Of course he can. :-) - Tess. :-)

I don't know about peepshow venues in town, but I'm going to third the recommendation that you try private cam shows online. I don't cam (currently), but I do think that one-on-one private cam shows are a twentyfirst century version of the old peepshow theatres. I don't know if you're familiar with the writing of Carol Queen, but she worked in a San Francisco peepshow theatre for a while and the way she describes her interactions with her clients sounds a lot like the dynamics shared between a cam-hostess/internet-model and the folks who visit her in private chat. :-) Good luck! - Tess.

The replies to this thread have been really helpful. I would add that some fellows who enjoy being trampled in high heels use a large sheet of plywood, thick plastic, or other protective material laid over their body so that they can experience the weight (and the view) of trampling while avoiding the marks that high heels can and do leave on a vulnerable torso. Am I the onlyperson who's heard of this technique? Anyone on the thread given it a try? - Tess.

Hi, Miss Jane, My short answer is: Of course! :-D Consider, for example, the gentlemen SPs who are "gay for pay" but don't date men in their personal lives. Alternatively, there are many straight guys (and queer women, for that matter) who love cock, and who seek out trans women or Tgirl SPs to meet those desires. Seems pretty straight-forward to me. ;-) - Tess.