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I hope this isn't off topic, but the original post was about hygiene and I saw someone respond saying that they had received dfk from the provider who had recently prior seen another client eho had received bbbjcim I have 2 issues with this 1) As you are fully aware you hired us as a service provider, and fully aware that as this is our job there's a pretty good chance you aren't the first one who has shared our intimacy. If you are requesting the service of DFK fron a service provider, you would think that you chose this service well knowing that we encounter many different sexual requests and if dfk is something you wanted it is your responsibility and only yours to think of the pros and cons you have with receiving this service. It is quite naive for you to expect anything otherwise. Most ladies list the services they provide so you should check those out and if she offers something that your not interested in you should use that to help in your descision. 2) you are basing your disgust based on 3rd party info discussing privately the experience of another clients encounter with the lady you had just seen. For whatecer reason you decide to fully trust the experience he told you about shows that maybe you're judgement is one to be questioned and not the providers. We can only be responsible for our own descisions and choices. It's your body and if you are not comfortable with the hygiene of another you have every right to request that we freshen up But to trust the details of someone else's experience which should be private unless otherwise approved by the lady, is disrespectful and wrong. Maybe that guy just wanted to gross you out. Don't quote me on this stat but it has been heard that many have ...what's the word.... Lie would be harsh so ill say 'elaborate' on the details of an encounter Perfect example why specific session details should remain between the client and the provider

What a thoughtful question !!! I think you'll need to have several replies to establish an answer to your liking. So let me provide my point of view :) A first time encounter with a service provider and a client can be so many different things. It can be intimidating, scary, exciting, so many different feelings - so what I truly want is for you to not only be comfortable mentally but physically too! If that means a full blown 3 piece suit and tie or worn out jammy pants and your favorite tee that is fine with me. When people are physically comfortable it makes a much better atmosphere. One thing I completely dislike is when I arrive at an outcall location and when i arrive and knoco at the door, I am greeted by a man completely naked and stroking his cock. I am not sure why this irks me soo much but I find it extremely ignorant and disgusting. Maybe because the style of service I offer is a true gfe and I like a very sensual engagement starting with a warm welcoming, a small conversation at the beginning to break the ice andbthab let chemistry take over. So when I am greeted by a scene as described I find it insulting and very much a turn off. Also you could always ask the lady you have arranged your time with if she has any preference to your attire, just to make yourself feel reassured and to not be second guessing yourself. All we want is for you to be at ease and to enjoy the real meaning of the encounter. An unforgettable experience that leaves you satisfied and happy!

This may be a rant... So i apologize in advance. I have noticed the ignorance of some men that contact me that seem to think that because they aren't "old, fat and ugly" that we should meet just for the fun of it and because he can get sex for free whenever he wants that he shouldn't have to pay. Insult the rate I ask for, claim it'll be the best I've ever had and to ignore my requests to stop texting me. First of all - I don't care if you look like Brad freaking Pitt. You contacted me, obviously obtaining my phone number from an ad or listing which explained what I offer and what I expect in return. It bothers me that you assume that only gross dirty men use the services of a provider. It bothers me that you aren't going to get your free sex since you apparently can get it whenever you want, than why are you bothering me? To assume that all I provide is a wild sex excursion. Although I am an incredible romp hehe I feel my clients return because of the full experience I provide and what I put in a lot of effort. To insult my donation which insults me because when you say that's too expensive for sex what that says to me is you don't value or respect me, or what I feel I deserve for the level of service I provide. When you contact me with no intent on booking, and your only reason is to attempt freebies that pisses me off turns me off and makes me mad. The rest of your speech is already a waste of time. Why do men try to do a standard "pick up" from a lady who is very upfront and not at all misleading. Sorry for my rant .... But in three days I've had four beggars and it completely puzzles me why they don't try this with an online dating site or a bar, Anyways I am done...

I don't think he was implying that you were kicking tires I think he was answering your question. Most sps don't mind investing the time in responding to a clie t who is sincere in booking an appointment. What we do not enjoy is investing the time and effort in responding and reassuring when in the end they don't end up following through with the reason for all the questions to begin with

Roaming guy said it best. I understand especially for a newbie the need to ask so many questions. I would rather him be informed than to assume. That can cause problems. But what bothers ne the most is when I devote my time and effort to someone by spending a lot of time reading and responding and reassuring his questions only to have him not follow through with the reasonfor so many questions. I find it a sign of disrespect and a lack of value for my time.

I would like to make note that when they say prostitution is a form of violence against women they are discussing the side of this industry where the women who aren't choosing to do this cerb is a wonderful site where the majority of women are independent service providers and are for the most part on a different end of the quality scale than what you would see on a city street somewhere. I think the reason people enjoy cerb is because they get to know the woman they are going to be meeting for an intimate encounter. They like to know that the person they are going to be meeting isnt being forced to do this, and that they are choosing to do whatever is discussed on their own free will. There is a very cruel stereotype that prostitutes in general are pimped and addicts dirty and low class. People think that the only way a woman would do this is if someone is forcing them to do so. So I do enjoy the fact that as a community/discussion board the hobbyist can gather the information to reassure himself that the lady he chooses is a well established and willing participant in what is decided. We do have to remember that although not everyone is forced to do this there are women who do not choose this and are not willing. I think as a client you have a moral obligation to do your research to ensure that the lady is willing. Sometimes a cheaper encounter is a lot more appealing, but for whatever reason you choose to hobby the key reminder is that what we provide for you should always be respected and appreciated and valued. Just because you pay doesn't mean you own , and always value the service that is provided.