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I'm a newbie to this but can't wait to meet some of the beautiful SPs I've seen on this site
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hoffa68 started following Sex at work/office, Stacy BombShellFrench, Can't get it up / low libido / weak erections / job stress and and 7 others
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Yes. She is 100% real and saved my lunch time yesterday. I had 1 provider blow me off and I happened to be near her location and she was available right away. Her service is pretty good. She asked what I wanted and I asked what she allowed. She said no kissing or ����. She provided ���� and ����. That's what I like. Very nice body as well.
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Can't get it up / low libido / weak erections / job stress
hoffa68 replied to a topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
I have similar issues but with a little twist. I believe it is more testosterone/hormone based but with some stresses of life thrown into it. I have always had the issue that sometimes the desire and ability are not always there. I could perform regularly and then for a few days nothing. I am now 46 years old so certainly age has something to do with it but even my whole life it has always seemed cyclical. The older I get the longer my recovery. It drives me crazy that at the beginning of this week I had an erection so big and hard and yet yesterday I was "soft daddy". I've even made sure to get extra sleep this week and still I will probably have to wait a few days. I've had a couple of encounters on here where I think I'm going to be OK but then it doesn't. That's why I went to a few MA's recently. At least if it doesn't work as well I get a really good message out of it -
The one thing I would point out is that all postings on Cowboys site seem to be in reference to other sites and the scammers who use them. Many people say "Has anyone seen so and so from BP" and there are sometimes reviews on this site for those SPs. I think that I have only seen a couple of posting that were maybe negative in the quality you received. otherwise, it is all about the scammers using fake photos, trying to rip you off etc.
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Ok so I have been on this site for a little while and have enjoyed a few SP's along the way. It's been awhile as sometimes life (and finances) get in the way. I am hoping to get back into it starting this week. (Although my cell phone is currently not working so will have to wait before I can start calling). However, a certain situation has arisen and I started to look at trying to get a MA experience. It seems every time I play hockey, my body aches more and more. I am 45 after all. Last night I played 2 games in one night. OUCH So I started looking at all the information here to find out the difference between SP and MA: costs, what to expect yada yada yada. What I am hoping to get out of this (on top of a happy ending) is a really good muscle massage. Not just a standard "I've done this on my boyfriend" kind of massage but one that compares to a RMT. So understand that I am not trying to offend the MA's saying you give standard or sub standard massages. I've never gone this route and wanted to kill 2 birds with 1 stone. I've looked at places like Angels Touch and some independents. I've seen recommendations for specific MA's. I wanted to know if there is any recommendations for those MA that are incredible with the massage portion.
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I was hoping to be the first to post this but I never got around to it. I met her a few weeks ago. It was a perfect location for me as I was working nearby and only had time for a quick nooner. I only met her for HH but enjoyed every minute. She quickly asked me if I liked to kiss. She was awesome at that. Enjoyed that part of it. Amazing CBJ and right into her getting on top for a bit. Then DATY. She seemed to enjoy that a lot. She was quite accomodating
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I've only had a few experiences here and I always thought that I would only go for SP's here. I do go onto BP and look around but had no desire to choose one from there. Well one night last minute, I thought I would try to find someone. Seemed to be a dead night and couldn't find anyone on here that I wanted to see. There was one on BP that I liked and took a chance. Sent a text arranged a time ect. I was a little nervous about it but she told me she was independent. Just before I left, I actually saw her on CERB. Felt more at ease at that time. There seem to be some who come into town and aren't on CERB. They look hot. At that point I would look at Cowboys Diary. Very timely as there are a couple of girls running scams on BP
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Outside does not matter. As you said certain locations in this city are not good. Although being 6'4", I've never had an issue going anywhere but a biker bar. Location is the biggest asset. Not how terrible a neighborhood is but convenience of getting there, parking ect. Downtown can be tough sometime but is centrally located (And more expensive)
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OK here goes. I would consider myself Atheist. However in a way, I understand the need or desire for people to believe in something spiritually (What ever that may be for them). However, I believe in the fundamental value of do onto others as you would do onto you. You can be a moral person and not be religious I have no issue with religion or people who wish to worship a god. Again however, I have always said that some of the most intolerant people I have met are religious people. They interpret the bible to justify their beliefs and values and belittle those who oppose them. Understand this, the bible, the new testament and any other book of worship, were all written by man. (Sorry ladies, maybe women had a hand in it but considering it was 2 or 3 thousand years ago, I doubt it) Over the centuries, different people interpreted these books differently. Again, it is just humans interpreting the words of other humans. There are a lot of good things in any of these books. it's not hard to take a look at a cruel world and say, wouldn't it be better if we didn't do this and did do that. Morality is a personal choice and is solely based on how you live your life and how you treat others. My religion is the Religion of Humanity Sex for money (That doesn't include a pimp stealing money) is a business. Supply and Demand, Desire and Fulfillment. If all parties are willing and respectful than morally there is nothing wrong.
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Is it wise to invite a SP to you home?
hoffa68 replied to toklat77's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
I would be willing to host at my place with no issues.......except my wife and kids may have a few questions about what is going on ;) -
About 10 years ago, I was working an IT contract at a government office. (A really big one). Starting playing around with the temp secretary for the Minister Anyway, we kept teasing about finding a place for a BJ and finally near the end of the day (as most government workers leave by 3pm) She met me in a room we had locked up with some new computers stuff. She gave me a really nice BJ but that wasn't enough so we had a smal desk and I bent her over that, lifted her skirt, moved her panties to the side Well I had to tell her several times not to make so much noise. We did that one time only but it was amazing
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I met her and her Pics are real. She's nice and and easy to talk to. Room was decent and clean and so was she. ONly did a 30 min so can't give a full report but she always asked me what I wanted to do. She definetly made sure I had a good time
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OK maybe not my life but........ So I decided a little while ago that I would contribute a post on my experience as a newbie, learning the ropes as a hobbyist in the escort biz. My initial thought was that I would wait until I had a few experiences before I wrote it. As this is not a recommendation post, i changed my mind and thought it would be best to do it a soon as I can after my first experience. I'm hoping this may help other Newbies but remember, as is our pursuit of the SP/MA on this site, my experiences, needs, desires may vary from yours. So for a couple of years now, I've been online looking around. I'm married and never really knew what i wanted to do. First I went to a few sites that are supposed to be adult oriented hook up sites. Even ones that are geared to the married crowd. None of these sites seemed to pan out. The last year or so, I starting looking at BP and the escort section. I saw some very nice ads but I was always concerned with what was actually out there. I hear things from shows or around. Guys making appointments, showing up, beaten up for their money or not getting what or who they wanted, ect. Also I had a poor perception of this The other issue is always money. For the most part I can be on a tight budget. Bills, Kids and my other hobbies come first. However, recently, my desire to pursue this really increased. I starting looking at BP more thouroughly. Still some of those nagging concerns were there. But as I looked around, i started taking notice of a couple of SPs who mentioned CERB. I didn't know exactly what it was but I didn't feel like going to yet another site. Maybe a couple of weeks later, I finally said, screw it what is this CERB Well if that wasn't the best move ever. I jumped right in. Created that membership, looked around, read what I could. I learned a great deal. More importantly, I started to feel more comfortable.The reviews, Cowboys Diary even made me more comfortable with BP. So the concern is still monetary. I can't usually just drop $200-$300. At the same time, I'm not looking for the quickie $80-$100 rates either. This hobby is expensive. (Just a quick note: I have no issue with what a SP charges. It's a Niche market with security risk ect and you are more than welcome to set your desired rate, what you feel comfortable doing an so on. But my ability to pay those rates can be a challange. A challange I hope I can overcome on a semi regualr basis) Now luck would have it that it is tax season and I got back a chunk of change. Another issue is finding the time. Between work, family time, playing hockey ect, when could I get away. Well it isn't as big an issue as i make it out to be but I can't just go and see a SP when ever I feel like it (ie I'm really horny). I had big plans/dreams for this. Take some of that new found money and try and see 4 or 5 or 6 SPs in the next month or so. I also added a new weekly budget item to raise the funds on a regular basis. We call it the well encrypted "Misc" fund. Well plans don't always work out the way you want them. First off daddy needs a new set of golf clubs. So you see, I'm in a bind. I can't see all the girls I wanted to. I think I'm actually a really nice guy. I feel bad that I may choose this SP but not that SP. It is really difficult. Now money still may play a part in my selection. There is a range that most of the SPs seem to have. Usually no more than an $80 difference. The $300 and up range is too much for me. There are a couple I wouldn't mind seeing so one day, I may save up for them but there are too many SP's at a better rate. that way I can see more So finally the day is coming. I have my excuse to get away and now I have to decide which one. Certainly I have my own insecuriities. I am over weight (Although being tall and a bit athletic I've been told I carry it well ;) ). Also a little hairy. I know this is a service industry but I still am a bit shy about my looks. But as I look around and see reviews, I finally set up the time and day. So the one thing i am worried about now is the whole built up anticipation. In my own fantasy world, I picture this going a certain way. (And I'm sure I thought I would be god like). Well reality never matches fantasy. I'm going to be disappointed or worse, she is. Well I had to give myself a good talking too. Go in, relax, enjoy the hour for what it is, not what you fantasize it to be. Finally, just know, she will take good care of you I won't go into any details about my first encounter except to say that it was everything I could hope it would be. (And I'm pretty sure I was god like ;) ) My only problem now is, do I continue with the slightly too large list of SP's I want to meet or do I just keep going back to the same one because it was awesome
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Well i don't have a enough experience here to comment fully but I will say this. When starting out and researching I did get the hint (Like a hammer over the head) that the beautiful women of this site do not like to negogiate. I totally respect that and will always plan my visits according to what the SP offers and what it costs. That being said, I would hazard a guess that maybe sometimes us hobbyist don't feel like participating in all the services available. Maybe a nice relaxing 1 hr session with a BJ or 69 is in order. But we should continue to respect the SP/MAs time buy paying what her menu states. If you just want a BJ at a discounted price go look for soemone that offers that (usually see that on BP) Again this is just my humble, inexperinced opinion. (Although thanks to the original poster, no longer a newbie ;) )
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I'm anewbie here (When will I stop saying that) and I have not had much experience with CBJs. Even though it didn't seem to make a differnce to me, I still find myself leaning toward those who offer BBBJ. That doesn't mean I excluded those who only provide CBJ as I have seen several on here that I really want to meet. I certainly would not be one to pressure anyone into anything they don't want to do. There are many factors to the clinet moving on from an SP. (Although having so many beautiful SPs on here makes it difficult). Price and other restrictions can affect it. The one thing I do look for is DFK (and kissing in general). I haven't seen many on CERb but if they say they will not then I look elsewhere. What can I say, I love kssing This business is like any other business. Supply and Demand. It's the driving force behind how any product is offered. That being said, there is one factor that most business don't have to deal with and that is that something is unsafe. As for you lovely SPs, it is always difficult to figure out a line you are willing to draw and not cross. There will always be clients that will move on if you don't provide certain things (ie the DFK). There are always SPs willing to provide things you might not want to. You have already drawn certain lines. Some won't provide Greek, others at an extra cost ect. Sometimes you have to stay away from the mainstream and find a niche market. Don't worry about what others are offering or what clients you may lose. Most of you ladies on here have so much more to offer so I would only hope that only a select few customers would be lost due to this limit. And hopefully new clients will start lining up
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Who is on your wish list for 2013
hoffa68 replied to jakeloveswomen's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
Well my short term list would include, and is in no particular order: Alexandra-Sky, Cleo Catra, SexxxyRebecca, Emily J, Rosie, Peachy, Exotic Barbie There are so many others I would like to meet but hopefully I can start with a few of this list As a newbie, the choices are just so great. I'll have to plan and budget this so that I can keep this hobby going as long as possible