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Michel Sean Stanley - violent high-risk sex offender http://www.ctvnews.ca/canada/more-sa...nder-1.1482012 Has targeted children in the past, but you can never be too careful. Mod - may want to post in SP Only Area too. Stay safe ladies! Gabby xoxo

I had recently posed the same question, on another board, surprised by the number of requests I received when travelling to a new area (not Wpg): I often see warning posts about SPs who advertise or offer bbfs and bbgr. I also appreciate these warnings to the community, as my personal safety is top-of-mind to me. As SPs, we also have our own "blacklists" for undesirable dates, and mine includes gents who request uncovered penetrative services. My question is this: how does a typical conversation go with your potential provider or client for you to ascertain that they deserve a special seat on your no-fly list, and/or sharing with the community to warn others? Here's an example for me: DUDE: Hey u available? ME: Hi there! Next tonight in city at time or time. DUDE: Ok, this time works for me. ME: Great, how long are you looking to spend together? DUDE: An hour. ME: Sure. Have you had a chance to learn more about me on my website? DUDE: Yup. Is bbfs available? ME: That request gets you on my blacklist. All the very best to you. And the conversation ends. I'm really not concerned about whether he's "asking for safety reasons", or any other further texts that follow. I'm done, and so are you. Variations that I find concerning include: "I hate condoms", anything that involves the word cream or creampie, questions about whether I like the feeling of a "man cuming deep inside me", and allusions to having surplus amounts of cash or "knowing how this industry works". What are red-flag phrases for you? Do you allow the other party a chance to explain their questionable response or flag them and move on? Safety first, Gabby xoxo

I wouldn't like too either. I can't think of any reason this "would" be necessary, lol... Gabby xoxo

Haha Nicolette - me too! I've heard from partners "am I just a piece of meat?!" My response? "Well, you weren't using that morning wood for anything..." ;) Quite obviously, I've chosen the wrong partners in the past haha. Yes - at least twice a day. Perfect way to wake up, and end the day. No complaints with a frisky afternoon siesta too. In my opinion, sex is fantastic - amazing endorphin load, circulation benefits, nervous system relaxation, and some studies are now showing orgasm shares some restorative benefits of sleep (see if I can find a link...) - and should be enjoyed as often as possible. I see a problem only when the thought/need/desire is so distracting that it interferes with daily productivity. My anticipation is that this problem is more prevelant with an inadequate amount of sexual release, and not an abundance of pleasure. So, to answer the OP's question - never too much off a good thing... Gabby xoxo

Thanks for noting this! This might be a case of where those little white lies come in: "No, I'm afraid I can't extend your appointment tonight..." As a client, if a gal hesitated to see you a second time because of the above, would you rather know that and be allowed a chance to try different sexual techniques, or prefer to assume she's just "booked up"? Gabby xoxo Additional Comments: I also agree that good communication before your date is ideal. As a gent, my understanding is that you know your capacity, to a large degree. If you know you're going to pop within 10 seconds in a hot mouth, but then able to recharge quickly, share that with your potential sp, and I'd like to think she'll style your date to accomodate that. Alternatively, if you know that you're only going to be able to muster one load, perhaps your date might focus on kissing and touching and playing and dining ;) to prolong the anticipation until the "act". Many reputable providers here on cerb seem to provide a gfe experience styled to meet the needs of their companion, and are open to engaing in communication - get chatting! I personally love the opportunity to engage with my new partners over email before we meet - adds a great element of intimacy, and moves our encounters more to an experience, as Emily notes, than just a SOG. Gabby xoxo

Hey there! Another beautiful day in the city that rhymes with fun (Regina forecast above 30 again!) and I can't help but stop and count my blessings on fabulous hot sunshiny days like today! I'm a Prairie girl through and through - so much beautiful scenery here, especially in the skies! I recently wrote a blog post about the beauty around me here at home, and can't help but share this paragraph with you, which really summarizes the love I have for the sky where I live: The scenery in the sky. I'll never take for granted the beautiful view the Saskatchewan sky affords us. While we busily go about our days, a whole world above us dances majestically along. The beautiful moon waxes and wanes, the colourful sunrises and sunsets captivate all who stop to watch, the clouds roll in and out and bring thunderous power and awesome lightning displays and create formations that awe weather watchers worldwide, the northern lights prance across sky and remind us of the awesome life-giving power of our sun, the stars move across the massive clear skyscape in a billion year old dance that captivates our curiosity and humbles our little existence. Please, take time to stop, and look up. Where are you and, when you're not playing indoors ;) hehe, what do you love about where you live? Can't wait to hear about the wonders in your world! Gabby xoxo

Bahahaha. I continue to be entertained by emails from men (young, mostly) who claim they're "ashamed" to share their kink - as if we haven't done it/heard it/thought it/seen it - only to finally have it disclosed reading as copy for a hardcore porn film. I'm very open-minded. Wanna philosophize? :icon_wink:

Definitely! I believe we teach other people how to treat us. New here, and I've had the pleasure of seeing generally attached, professional men. These are the clients who have no concerns with reading and following instructions - imagine that! Thrilled to read that so many cerbites agree that our companionship should be on our terms (personally, when I'm relaxed, it's much easier to get excited bahahaha...). Otherwise, if I start to compromise on something like my contact/booking procedure, I'm sending a clear message that other things might be up for negotiation. Things like my safety and well-being. Sorry dude, I don't care how much money you have or who you think you are: my business, my rules.

Mine too! My immediate thought was - under what influence or motivation is this new SP entering the industry? New here myself, but applied the same etiquette an entrepreneur in any industry would - understanding of regulations and laws, industry etiquitte, marketing strategies, administrative organization, etc. My anticipation is that a professional, independent gal approaches her business in this manner. Not to mention a clear focus and long term goals in mind. Otherwise, starting with an agency is likely best, to gain some industry exposure and general business know-how. Finally, from what I understood, isn't there some implication for the OP if he's receiving compensation (which I don't believe he noted) from the SP - something about living off the avails of prostitution? My own newbie two nickels. :D Gabby xoxo

Haha - definitely agree! :icon_biggrin: I have several tattoos, each with it's own sentimental value. Some aren't very nice stories, actually, but involve pain and loss. In the past, I've never had issues sharing the meaning behind my ink, but I'm wondering, on this new path, if friends I meet want to hear about my late matriarchs while we're kissing passionately lol? Thoughts? SPs - If asked, do you share the meaning behind your ink with clients, if applicable? Or do you have a quick explanation to keep the date sensual...? Hobbyists - How much of a window into our hearts are you looking for when sharing intimate conversation with a companion? ;) And, loving all the pics in this thread! Gabby xoxo