Miss S. Lane

Then I wish you nothing but the best and admire your "no regrets" approach. I will reiterate the importance of communication and transparency :) good luck!!! Xo

I'm guessing you mean after the first "date" as an SP?! For me, it was exhilarating!!! There was so much excitement and nerves leading up to it. It was such a relief to have the first time under my belt. I felt incredibly confident and surprisingly relaxed :) I thought to myself... What's next? Bring it on!

LDBF123, I'm going to direct you to a thread I wrote a while back. While I do know that SP's and clients sometimes do transcend the boundaries and develop successful relationships, I would hope you explore the idea behind this other thread, and keep the lines of communication with the sp you speak of WIDE open :) Good luck! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=462048&postcount=14

Zut! Je ne parle pas francais! Lol

Happy Birthday, Excaliber!!!!!

It is a very fine line and one that must always be re-defined and re-established. For myself personally, I prefer to get to know my clients on a deeper level. I encourage conversation and sharing prior to appointments and continued communication after the fact. For me, this deeper connection improves the time we spend together for me as much as for them. As humans, we have emotions. And I have learned over the years that human connection and emotions are something that I require. I have also learned not to let emotions control me. I feel what I feel, but I always keep things in perspective. This is just what works for me :)

Having to lie about what I do and where I am to members of my family and other people in my life and community, and the fact that the ones who DO know have to uphold that lie also :( I guess this goes back to judgements that are placed on other people, as that's the whole reason for the lies... Sigh.

Canada vs Russia!!!! Coke or Pepsi?

I will be there this week and offer Greek as well. Ad posted :)

hotwife A married woman she has sexual relations with other men, with the husbands approval. Usually while the husband watches or joins. "Mary is a hotwife, not only does she look great, but she loves to screw other men." cuckold A submissive husband with a wife who takes on alpha-male lovers whereby the wife's sexual pleasures become the husband's vicarious sexual pleasures and experiences. "The cuckold husband developed an erection as his imagination ran wild with sexual thoughts during the preparation of drinks for his wife and her new lover." Add this to the plethora of "share my wife" porns, or porn about men cleaning creampies from their wifes pussy, and there's obviously something to this fetish :) I find it interesting, and was merely curious how it may apply in the world of escorting. Whether clients enjoyed thinking about an escort having been with other men, or if they'd rather be first, or rather not think about it at all... Etc. :)

Ice4fun, you are the FURTHEST THING from a cheap bastard :) Most clients do not tip. I have only ever been tipped maybe... 8 times. It's not that common! Gifts are more common... And none of it is expected or requested!!!! :) Always appreciated however!!!!! :)

Fireside, Salty's, Economy Shoe Shop, Estia -- and those are just the ones I've had the chance to eat at! LOL there's sooooo many more!

Surfing cerb, making spelt pancakes and bacon, getting ready to have some hot lemon water and looking outside glad I don't have to go anywhere (it's freezing rain and wind gusting to 100km/h!! - YUCK!)

When I receive a monetary tip, it has been anywhere from $20-$100. It is absolutely never expected and always greatly appreciated. Usually shows me, as others have said, that the client really enjoyed our time together and that in itself makes me happy :)

I agree Summer, but that's not the same as what I'm referring to. I'm talking about men who want their woman's pussy stretched out by another man prior to having intercourse with them. That thinking about a woman having had another cock inside them before theirs is a huge turn on. Etc. It isn't simply about watching :) xo

With an increase in public awareness about the cuckold and "hotwife" lifestyles, I have seen an increased trend in men being aroused at the thought of either their wives having sex with other men -- or sleeping with them after they have slept with another man. For some men it's the idea of a bigger cock than theirs. For others it doesn't seem to matter. My question is -- how many hobbyists find it arousing having a woman after she's had sex with another man? Does the idea excite or repulse you? Or would you rather not think about it? I'm looking forward to hearing your responses :)

Painted!!!!!! I feel naked without it (and not the good naked!) Socks or no socks?

I found this quote by Robert Jordan: "Any fool knows men and women think differently at times, but the biggest difference is this. Men forget, but never forgive; women forgive, but never forget." I am not a fan of blanket generalizations, however I see some truth to this based on personal experience. Thoughts?

Watching Olympics, drinking coffee, folding laundry, texting, and surfing cerb :)

Without - who needs the extra sugar? ;) Pancakes or French toast?

Happy Birthday a day early to a woman who I've come to know as a very good friend... One I hope to be friends with for years to come :) enjoy your day, you deserve it!!! Xo

Cock dipped in chocolate!!!! Steak or chicken?

Happy Birthday!!!

Happy Valentines Day everyone!!! Xoxo

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