Miss S. Lane

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I will be on ottawa March 18-22 and didn't get the nickname Hoover for nothing ;) love DT!!!!

For me, if I'm answering the OP question, overall... He.

Just like in the US, P411 and Date Check will have to be more widely used here.

Jabba your question is not specific enough. So we expanded on the subject ;)

You should see Clarissa Delight and I eat crab legs ;)

Nordic laws won't fly... Regardless of what media says. I am waiting to see how things play out before jumping to conclusions.

I agree it is a tough decision to come to - but for our own sanity and well being, we have to do what is best for ourselves sometimes. My sister and I can be civil when together (which is almost never), but have no relationship whatsoever. And I have come to accept that. It's what's best for us both and for the rest of the family if we just stop trying. It was too painful for all involved. I have no time for toxicity in my life - and family or not, I don't deserve the kind of treatment I received from her. Oops! Sorry to hijack. Maybe we should start a "family is messed up" thread lol

Ahh yes. I can relate RG. We tolerate more with family for no other reason than because they are family. In any other instance we wouldn't put up with it. I am this way with one of my sisters who has long disrespected me. Now I go about my life and she isn't part of it. Ironic how things play out sometimes.

Remember just the chorus people. The devil inside The devil inside Every single one of us The devil inside ah ah POOF earworm cured :)

Once upon a time, I, like Ice4fun, trusted everyone unless they gave me a reason not to. Unfortunately all to often, they did. Over the years, I've learned to be more objective about who I trust. I regard this industry very differently. There are a few women in this industry who I trust completely. I would trust them with anything. They have shown me I can. There are others, SP's or clients, who have shown me I can't. I proceed with guarded caution which is very out of my element. However, it is usually easy to tell and therefore easy to figure who I can and cannot trust. It has a lot to do with actions, AND with words. Be it to me, others, in ads, posts on message boards, treatment of others, etc. I certainly don't default to "trust no one unless they show me i can" - as I would go crazy with paranoia and suspicion. Instead, I approach lightly, ask questions, pay attention. It always presents itself to me one way or the other. There are few people in my life who I trust explicitly and those I do I regard with the highest admiration and respect because to be able to completely trust someone... to be 100% of who you are, share all of your thoughts, dreams, fantasies, fears, hopes, etc. Is a wonderful gift that person has given you as should be tended and appreciated so it may stand the tests of time. That also means making sure they feel the same of you. Trust cannot be one sided.

Now you will all laugh at me for this one, but you will also try and it and be astounded. My friends thought I was nuts til they tried it and it works. Whenever I get an earworm stuck in my head, I sing the chorus to Inxs "Devil Inside" and Poof. Earworm gone. I know I know... *mindblown* :) you're welcome!!!!

Just got out of the shower. Naked, checking cerb, trying to motivate myself to get dressed and do my hair, etc, when I've been sleeping like shit for weeks lol *yawn*

Happy Birthday Robyn!!!!

I have had one arrangement like this. It quickly became one sided (not my side) and ended poorly. Just be careful.

Cashews! Rum or otherliquorthatisinferior? :)

Cream. Then their

Over easy - and turkey bacon :) Mild salsa or hot salsa?

It is expensive to get there. So for a lot of ladies, unless there are prebookings and even prepaid deposits, it is too risky. For myself, it's $1100 for the flight and another almost $600 for hotel and cab. Then there's food!!! That's likely almost $2000 realistically ... so no interest, no prepaid deposits, no touring Yellowknife :(

Square :) Bacon or bacon?

My two cents... If you have already been seeing her regularly and paying full price, why would she want to take less from you for more work/time for her? Regular income is lovely. But this entire concept can be a VERY slippery slope. You suggesting the "discount" is insulting. I agree with RG in the sense that you could approach this woman and suggest that you'd like to pay an amount monthly for set weekly times. But honestly that removes any "flexibility" for her, and in busy times, she may lose business. It cannot be up to you to define the rules. This is HER business, and if she wants to offer a reduced rate for such an arrangement, or offer more time "off the clock" so to speak, that has to be HER decision. Not yours. Remember - yes, this is a business relationship - but we are human beings - who spend A LOT of money to be part of this industry, and we are not the dollarama or a pawn shop. We aren't a bargain to be haggled over. Be very careful... And be mindful that you do not put her in a position where she feels taken advantage of. I understand and appreciate your desire to want to offer her a bit of stability... But less pay from you means more pay from someone else to pay bills and put food on the table :) Just my opinion!

Watching the AHL All Star game on Sportsnet!!!

It is expensive to get there. So for a lot of ladies, unless there are prebookings and even prepaid deposits, it is too risky. For myself, it's $1100 for the flight and another almost $600 for hotel and cab. Then there's food!!! That's likely almost $2000 realistically ... so no interest, no prepaid deposits, no touring Yellowknife :(

^^ With phone in hand? Lol