Miss S. Lane

I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for such a genuine, heartfelt and well thought out response. If all clients were as kind and considerate as you are, us providers would feel much safer in our chosen profession. To the men who speak this way, I pity them. They are projecting their lack of self confidence onto providers - when, regardless of shape, size, acne, stretch marks or otherwise -- SP's tend to be, in my observation, among the most confident, strong women I know. Thank you again, OP. you are a sweetheart and a gentleman. Xoxox

Cute - mine is actually chocolate chip cookie dough - I'm not sure what that would say about me either. Lol

I am looking at a trip there in a few weeks :)

Coochy shave cream Malika - is your friend :) xoxo

Sounds like a GREAT time!

I have posted a thread regarding a potential trip to Corner Brook if I receive enough pre-bookings :) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=138235

I apologize, but I need to postpone my visit to Ottawa that was to take place this month. I will hopefully be able to reschedule it for later this summer, or early fall! xo

Happy Fathers Day Dads!!! I am missing my Dad today, as this is the first fathers say since he passed away last July. Missing him. If you still have your Dad, call him today, or go see him if you can!!!

Delete! Delete! Delete! It is NOT worth deviating from who you are, or outside your comfort zone, just to get the client. Let them go, and be true to you. Don't worry about what they have to say, just delete and continue reading through emails/texts/etc until you find a client that's willing to respect you for you, and that INCLUDES respecting your boundaries.

Would love to :) I will keep you guys posted on my plans !!! xoxo

I am planning on making a trip out west, hopefully sometime later in June. Will keep you posted :)

As with most things, I am sure that open and honest communcation up front would prevent a lot of surprises and misunderstandings. If a client has a problem with it, you will know up front and can plan accordingly. As such, the SP has the right to travel with their pet, and needs to accept that there will be those who don't mind, and also those who do. I love animals and if I were on the other side, visiting with an SP, I absolutely wouldn't mind having their pet present... so long as it/they kept their distance during the more intimate moments :)

In The Realm of the Senses Lie With Me Lust, Caution

Happy Birthday, Porthos !! I hope you have a wonderful day. Here's to a year full of life, happiness... and great sex :)

I'll take two :)

This reminds me of my Dad. He had a huge garden in the yard and carrots were always among the things he grew. Him and I loved sitting out there, pulling up the carrots, wiping the majority of the dirt off and eating them. Delicious. Thank you for this wonderful memory!!

Excellent question and one I'm very looking forward to reading the answers to!!!

OD, what you just described about "transient" workers happens HERE! I am sure in other parts of the country too, but speaking for St. John's... "Local" girls have a bad rep... And it's difficult being an upscale companion among a market of unsure clients. I refuse to price drop and believe the quality time I provide sells itself, but it isn't easy. Sorry to hijack!!! Xoxo, Savannah

When you are grocery shopping, at the gas station, in your kitchen... ALL of us have guilty pleasures. What are yours? For me.... 1. CANDY! All kinds. Licorice, gummy bears, fuzzy peaches, skittles, you name it, I love it. 2. Chocolate :) I can't get enough! I'm a huge fan of fine chocolates, but I am also a sucker for things like Snickers, Kit Kat and Reece's Peanut butter cups! 3. Caption Cruch cereal (what's with the c's? I'm sensing a theme here lol). Captain Crunch cereal is so damn nasty, but I love it. Definite guilty pleasure :) So... What are yours?? :) (I have more I will share as we go lol) Xoxo, Savannah

@SavannahLaneNL :) hope to see you there!!

I am not nor will I ever be ashamed of what I do. On the contrary! I am incredibly proud of what I do. I am a beautiful, confident, sexy woman who (really!) enjoys sex, sensuality, human connection, seduction, passion, lust, intensity, experiences... LIFE! Being a provider affords me all of this and more. I look forward to each and every day that I work, knowing that I have some wonderful clients who I genuinely enjoy spending my time with. I leave each client with a feeling of pride and accomplishment, knowing that both of us have gained something from our time together far beyond an orgasm. In fact, I may feel a little selfish at times, as I take as much if not more from my time with clients than they do. Emotional, mental and physical connection helps me thrive. Nothing could ever make me ashamed. Further to that, and what some others have said, I keep my being an SP to myself. A select couple people in my life know, but the rest aren't ready. They still haven't figured out that sex is a human need, no different than eating or drinking water - and is not meant to be denied.

This is a topic very near and dear to me and one I hope you all won't mind if I ramble about for a few :) As the subject of my post suggests, I firmly believe in there being a difference between lust and love, as well as arousal and attraction. And it is VERY easy for us, as human beings, to blur the lines between the two. I speak from experience when I say that... as I have blurred them in my past. LOVE is a choice. It is something that we CHOOSE when we commit ourselves to one other person for the rest of our lives. It is born out of history, respect, unconditional admiration and acceptance. Out of knowing things about the other that no one else knows. About seeing them at their worst, their most vulnerable, and believing that is when they they look their most beautiful or most handsome; Their most attractive. It comes from complete openness, complete honesty and complete trust. With it comes a desire to be a better person - for yourself so that you can be better for THEM. It comes a complete freedom to be yourself, no matter WHAT that entails - because you know that no matter what you say, or do; no matter how grumpy you get, or how crazy or silly, at the end of the day you are welcomed into the loving arms of your CHOSEN partner. LUST is a feeling. An intense, passionate feeling. It is born from newness, from sexual desire, from excitement, anticipation, anxiousness, intimacy and arousal. It is all encompassing, it is amazing, it is FUN. The reality of this is though, lust fades. Even in a relationship with someone you plan to spend the rest of your life with (because you've made that CHOICE to do so), lust fades. This is why marriages ebb and flow, have their ups and downs, and often fail. Too many people believe that if the lust is gone, then the relationship is over. What they FAIL to see, is that if you make a CHOICE to love someone, and ride the rollercoaster through the next down, the next CLIMB is better than anything lust could ever allow you to experience. The CHOICE to love someone is a conscious choice that requires great effort, great committment and great amounts of work. The FEELING of lust is involuntary. It just happens. It is beautiful and natural and wonderful. But it just is. Let's face it: Being with someone we've CHOSEN to love, vs an SP/client that we LUST for is very different. Even the SEX is different. Sex with someone we lust for is fun, yes. It may even be intense, or passionate. It may leave you reeling, thinking about that person and longing to see them again. It envokes all kinds of strange thoughts in your mind that you are left trying to make sense of. But really, it IS just sex. It is erotic, enjoyable and wonderful -- as is the connection that precedes it. But it does nothing for the soul in the long term. On the flip side, SEX with someone you've CHOSEN to love, and have a history and committment with is the kind of sex that relaxes you and makes you feel all warm and loved inside. The kind of sex that makes you want to stay in bed all day naked. The kind of sex that can make you cry because its as much of an emotional release as it is a physical one. The kind of sex that makes you want to crawl inside them and you still wouldn't be close enough to them. NO SP or client could ever replace that very thing with someone you've CHOSEN to love. And that is why although the client/SP relationship may be good... no, GREAT experiences, nobody will ever be better, or replace the ONE person you've chosen to let in your heart. No matter how good the physical connection between SP and client, they will never replace that very same thing in your bed.

Lumineers - Ho Hey

How could I possibly forget... CHOCOLATE!!!