Miss S. Lane

I had the same issue today. Likely just a glitch :) I'm sure they will fix it soon!!

Al this is wonderful. I have a brewing connection like this with a client (he knows who he is) and I cherish it, value it and respect it completely. Aww thank you!!! I am glad you got involved too. I have to echo your thoughts on the flip side. It is so nice to know, with all of the... Not nice men we deal with in the run of a day, that there are men out there... True gentleman who desire the same things. Thank you for showing us your softer sides ;)

All the best, theliquor... Your attitude and sense of humour is not only inspirational, but will, without a doubt, carry you through this. All my best thoughts and wishes are with you!! Xoxo, Savannah

Wow, OD... Your words are prolific and your romanticism admired. I agree with Peachy very much. It is a rare occasion when I find a client that I instantly feel comfortable with. It is a rare occasion when I find a client that I feel I can trust, let my guard down, and be myself with. I am lucky to have a new client who I already feel very comfortable with, who - on our first meeting I told things about the real ME that I don't usually share within the confines of this industry. I do not take honesty, discretion and trust lightly. It is of utmost importance that my clients feel these things with me, and I feel very lucky when I have a client I am able to return it to.

Happy Birthday !! xoxo

@phantomknight I know right? A REAL charmer lol this is great material for a "if you write me like this I won't be responding" blog post lol

Midnight-Massage, I think I like you :) I really must say that this very topic is one of the hardest parts of what we do, in my opinion. Both client and sp know the time must end, but neither wants it to when they are truly enjoying themselves. Turning it off and returning to reality is tough!!!

There are SO many places I'd like to travel to, I could likely start my own thread on it!! Machu Picchu Venice Paris Rome Amsterdam Tahiti Australia Iceland Quin Ling Mtns in China to see Giant Pandas in the wild Tokyo India - Taj Mahal!! Egypt Ireland Scotland London Africa Ahh someone take me on a round the world cruise!!!!

Oh I love and hate the getting dressed time. I love it because its a sexy time where playful interaction is genuine and passionate. I hate it because it means our time is almost over, and 9 times out of 10, I genuinely don't want it to end. It is why I don't offer HH sessions. It isn't long enough for ME. I have had situations where I've been dressed, he's been dressed, and the playful after interactions have lead to more playtime (again, neither was in a hurry) and it was very much off the clock. I have also very VERY much wanted a client to stay... And cursed to myself at their perfect manners and respect of my time! Lol I always lay out their clothes while they are in the shower also... And am always close by while they dress. Usually I can't keep my hands off them.... Mmm!

Oh there are so many things... - Sun coming in through my bedroom window in the morning - texting with clients just to chat - a baby laughing - birds singing, at ANY time of day - BACON - puppies!! - hearing someone I love on the other end of the phone laughing - thinking about someone and having them call/text/email - seeing my mom - thinking about wonderful memories with my dad - making a new friend - trying something new - red wine :) Ahh I could go on and on...

I absolutely adore this thread. It is so refreshing to see so many fine gentleman gathered in one place. I can only speak for myself, but I genuinely enjoy the time I spend with my clients. Some are absolutely incredible - some less so, but still enjoyable. If I wasn't enjoying myself and feeling as good as my clients, then I shouldn't be doing this. I have always said the moment it stops feeling amazing, and stops being fun - is the moment I quit :) And men - there are some ladies, myself included, who also get off on YOU getting off :) xoxo

I am not in Ottawa, but I can tell you from someone who's had a golden shower fetish since she was very young... that most people don't admit it freely. It could be a self confidence thing, it could just be that, as you said, it's very "taboo". I spent the better part of my life hiding my desire for it, as I thought it was "wrong". Society has a tendancy to make us believe that anything outside THEIR realm of "normal" is wrong. For me? We live once. So experience experience experience !!! Giving AND receiving are both wonderful. Even giving to YOURSELF can be a very erotic experience. Feel free to PM me sometime :)

G is for gagging (during DT! yum!)

This is an unfortunate reality to this career choice. I ignore/delete/redirect about 75% of the emails I receive. Am I losing out on potential business by being so picky? Sure I am. But I'm here by choice, not by necessity and therefore I can literally afford to be picky. I don't need to tolerate or put up with some freakshow asking me to "suck his cock and let him blow his load in my ear" (yes, I've been asked).

Lol this thread makes me laugh :) Facebook believes that I am in need of approval (for a credit card that is), I need to enter a shoe addict contest, I require welding services, love dessert and am a HUGE fan of Reese's Peanut Butter Cups. Hmm. Only partially accurate. Where the heck did the welding come from???

You had me at bacon!

I am a huge believer in LIVING, not just going through the motions. People always find a reason not to do something... Be it fear, lack of money, etc. The way I see it, we only get to live once... And I plan to continue filling my life with experiences. Feel the fear and do it anyway. I have NO regrets. I bet a lot of people, at the end of their lives when asked about regrets would say -- you regret the things you DON'T do, never the things you do.

I always giggle when a man tells me that he doesn't want me to go down on him as he wants it to be about me. Blow jobs are about me. I LOVE giving them, makes me very... VERY wet!

Proudly ended up with a 3. Damn I love sex... ;)

Emily, I am sorry for all you have been put through. I find it incredibly creepy that they hunted you for a quick dirty shot on the news. Personally, I found the article infuriating. The media has a tendency to spin things the way they see fit. They also focus on the negative; after all, "shock value" makes for better news. Sigh. The entire report itself was nothing more than a bunch of uneducated guesses about a lifestyle that remains a mystery - the way it's meant to. CBC Radio Noon's program "crosstalk" had their program yesterday about whether or not prostitution should be decriminalized. I wrote in an email, which they read "part of" on the show. Since then I have been asked to do a radio interview AND a TV interview - both of which I declined. I am NOT interested in them spinning my words to make for better news. They also wanted to focus on the time I spend with my disabled clients. I have far too much respect for my clients to expose them that way. In regards to the hotel used, I enquired about that. It was CBC who arranged the location. If I was the owner/manager of that well respected hotel, I would NOT be happy with that kind of exposure. I am willing to guarantee that CBC didn't have their permission for that either.

The swinging community in St. John's and Newfoundland in general is very private. Being that everywhere is either a small city or a small town, people talk. Everyone has to live and work here, so things are hush hush. Emily and Chuck are both absolutely correct in that you must know someone to be invited into the group. And even then, visitors aren't normally considered. There are places you can post that you are visiting and looking for fun, and you can PM me for more info as I won't share such things here. Hope you enjoy your visit to St.Johns, and find what you are looking for :)