Irina Adler

Well I'm new to CERB but I already feel very comfortable. I checked out CERB before getting into the business and it provided me with a great deal of valuable information. I love how everyone here is so open and honest, and more than that, genuinely kind. From my first day, I had members posting on my wall, welcoming me, and helping me out with useful tips. One of my first clients was a CERBie I met in the chat room- you know who you are ;) When one of the girls says her next client is from CERB, we all immediately know it should be a good session. The CERB community allows providers and hobbyists to have an open dialogue about expectations and limitations, which in my opinion, leads to a more gratifying session for both parties. The most difficult aspect of catering to a client who is new to massage is letting him know the possibilities and boundaries during the session without sounding too crass or mean. CERB offers a venue where we can get all of that out of the way beforehand, so that when the client arrives, things can just flow naturally and the experience can be more realistic and organic rather than mechanical. I think going to an actual social event would just further breakdown the societal boundaries that can sometimes prevent a more fulfilling client-SP/MP interaction. The only problem is the "one bad apple" concept. I think we are all concerned about privacy and the reason one might decide not to go to a social event is because there is always the chance that there is the "one bad apple" who will expose you. Thank you CERB <3

Personally, I'd prefer no cologne to bad cologne. Certainly a great smell can be very arousing, but conversely, an overpowering aroma will hinder my ability to do my job. If you want to be on the safe side, I'd just go with the clean, freshly-showered smell. But I do think that once you've met with your SP/MP a couple of times, some cologne may spice things up ;)

I think there are many MAs/MPs who can provide you with the experience you are looking for, all you have to do is ask :) If the girl offers a number where you can text her, or an email address, or has an account on cerb, you can discuss your requirements in writing without feeling shy. If you are too timid to go into specifics, perhaps you can refer the girl to a scene in a movie, or some other example of what you'd like. We're here to provide you with a pleasurable experience, we want you to be able to live out your fantasy! However, not all clients are the same, so we cannot cater to your specific needs unless you express them. I think what you wrote in your post gives one a pretty good idea of what you are looking for, so if you reply to a girl on cerb, or in an advertisement, just include what you've already said here. I'm sure there will be many MAs/MPs who will be glad to see you :) Good luck! Hope you have a great time at your session!

I'm new to the massage business and already, after only a couple weeks of work, I notice that my sessions vary greatly depending on the client. Of course the basics are all there, I don't cheat anyone out of what they paid for, but depending on the vibe I get from a client the session may change. If a client is immediately aggressive once the session begins, and continues to cross my boundaries even after repeated requests for him to stop, I will be more cautious about where I stand and how I maneuver my body. If a client is very respectful and perhaps a little shy, I may move in a way that will allow him to touch me more easily and feel less intimidated. I don't think any MA or SP should feel guilty about providing different sessions to different clients- we're not robots, clients come in for the human connection, and our decisions in interpersonal relationships are always subjective.