OralBigGuy

So how does a man get a job as a professional bra fitter? I may have found my next career. :lol:

Did the ladies specify email as their preferred contact method? Are they active on the forums now? They could be on vacation since it's that time of year. You could try reaching them by private message unless their guidelines specify not to.

Yes please. :D

I started losing my hair, just like my dad, in my mid-20s. I've also had a beard since I was a sophomore in high school, probably to prove that I can grow hair ... just not on top of my head. :D I just turned 50 a few weeks ago. My beard, which I always keep closely trimmed, is now very much salt & pepper, but my hair remains black. I've never worried about going bald one bit, because the more hair I lose, the more head I get. (Badum-TAH ... thank you, I'm here all week. Don't forget to tip your server.) :lol: I won't ever color my hair, nor will I be a client of Hair Club for Men. It's who I am and if that's good enough for me, it's just going to have to be good enough for everybody else.

I've only been on CERB for a couple of weeks and have yet to meet any of the MAs or SPs ... yet :D. But I am almost positive that if you look through this board for recos of well known MAs, whether indy or spa based, you will be completely safe. That's the beauty of a community such as this. If you choose to see someone whom many of the CERB guys have seen, the lady's reputation is already established and you'll have nothing to worry about.

Had to add a pic, because I am loving all these pictures of beautiful REAL women with REAL curves wearing sexy lingerie. :bowdown:

Any other hobbyists using these supplements? I've just turned 50 and don't typically have these issues, but a little insurance can't hurt, right? :D I don't want to go down the drug road because of the possible side effects.

As a man who enjoys using many colorful words when the company and moment is right, there are only two that will ever earn me time in the dog house ... c**t and tw*t. So I avoid those like the plague, even though that darn c word has a habit of slipping out of me when someone cuts me off in traffic. And I guarantee I use it 99.9% of the time on some jerk guy rather than on a woman. :lol: I agree 100% with what the ladies before me have said ... words themselves should not be able hurt someone's feelings or make them feel less of a human being. It is the intent, actions, and emotions behind them, and the body language and forcefulness with which they are delivered, that ultimately determines their true meaning.

Where do I begin to say how amazing this forum thread is. I guess the best way is to review it like a movie ... "I laughed, I cried, I fell in love". Not with OD (although the whole bacon sandwich thing is tough to resist, he's just not my type ;)) but with how great the entire CERB community is. As someone who lives 4 hours away in another country, and who has been on CERB just a week, all I can say is thank you to OD and the entire community for being so helpful, entertaining, and instructional. While I could barely stop laughing when reading through this thread, the amount of excellent information here is staggering and a must read for anyone new to the hobby. I'm nowhere near as active now as I was 10 years ago in Montreal, but having spent a bit of time hobbying there and interacting on the local Montreal boards, let me assure you that the CERB community is far superior to anything I experienced there. Lastly, I want to say thank you to the providers whom I've contacted to setup dates with when I'm in your wonderful city in a few weeks. Reading OD's post about Lara's blog, and seeing the horrific misogyny that was perpetrated on that poor SP :mad:, made me wonder why any woman would expose herself to a new client without a note from his mother and 10 letters of recommendation from past service providers. As someone who has no such recent history upon which to draw, I am grateful to the CERB community at large, and especially to those lovely ladies with whom I am setting up appointments, for letting my words prove that I am like most of the CERB hobbyists and know the proper way to treat a lady. Thank you OD for this thread and thank you everyone else for making this entire experience a fantastic one even before I've met even one of Ottawa's most lovely and affectionate SPs and MAs. OBG

Thanks curious, I have PM'd Vitto. ;)

I am clearly spoiled for choice as the responses to this thread and the PMs I've received so far are making my head spin. Phaedrus, thanks for the mention of Moonbay being FS. Your point about language is a good one as well. I have lots of research to do over the next couple of weeks with all the lovely ladies whose names I've been given so far. Thanks much and keep 'em coming. ;)

Great thread and as a new CERB member, I'm especially glad that it's recent so I don't feel that I'm commenting on something that's months old. Judging by what the guys have posted, I think I'm pretty normal when it comes to what turns me on. And judging by what the SPs have posted, the way that I like to treat any lady I'm spending time with is spot on. :D I like to laugh a lot, so if the SP smiles and laughs with me right from the start, we're already on the way to something awesome. I don't take myself too seriously and appreciate the same from my partner. Whatever we do together should be done as ourselves, with no need for anything fake. The whole GFE thing works both ways ... I don't treat an SP any differently than I've treated real life girlfriends. Obviously I'm not talking about specific erotic acts because that goes with the territory, just an overall level of mutual respect and affection between two human beings who want to have a great experience together. Kissing, caressing, and exploring while clothed, followed by undressing each other, are big. I'm with the guys who like a partner to start out wearing normal clothing. It's a date after all, so what you're both wearing during the first hug at the door should be what you'd wear out to dinner and a movie. That's what makes removing it in private so much fun. ;-) As for all the rest ... it's pretty simple. Just enjoy each others bodies as passionately and honestly as you both feel comfortable with. Forget the cares of the world and what happened to you earlier in the day or week and focus on making yourself and another human being feel really good.

There is no wrong answer here, both CIM and COF are the most intimate and sexy things an oral lover can experience. To me it's very important that it be the SP's choice, though. But when it is, and especially when you know it's given enthusiastically, it is an out of this world treat. I vote for 75% COF with 25% CIM, preceded and followed by luscious DATY to say thank you! :D

I'll be in Ottawa in mid-July on business and have looked through this forum for recommended massage providers, both agency and independents. While I have SP experience from living within two hours of Montreal for most of my life, this will be my first time in Ottawa ... and after reading through the forums, I definitely want it to be my first time with an MP as well. I've never gone down the MP road in Montreal because I don't speak French, but that shouldn't be a problem in Ottawa. So what I am looking for is a late afternoon / early evening GFE incall with an agency or independent who is capable of both relaxing the body and "blowing the mind" of a massage newb. Reading Katrine Cannon's reco thread and visiting her website caused my heart to skip a few beats but I am concerned that the real thing might make it stop entirely. :) I liked what I read about Hiroko at Moonbay and looked at their agency's website, but can't really get a feel for how reputable they are. Not having any experience and not being local, it seems a little more daunting to me than making a date with an SP. I'll keep researching, but any help is appreciated.

Some great advice in this thread and I was especially happy to see that Berlin is from Ottawa, where I'll be for 4 nights in July ... which is the whole reason for me joining this site. :D

Just making my first post, looking forward to finding my way around. :)