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Oops ... Apparently I've already done that lol

My twitter is @izza_c*nt (fill in the star, autofilter will block if i spell it out)

And I completely agree. I know which clients i do and don't click with and am more than willing to wait for them. I wrote this post not to bash those who had written those things, but because to me as a humanitarian, I think that calling out someone's flaws is a very inhumane way to treat others. I am very confident in myself and will never adhere to societal norms just to appease people who don't understand me. I am getting the augmentation for myself but that doesn't mean I'm not upset that it's considered a necessity for women. People are comfortable telling me i "need" surgery to be a successful escort... and that needs to stop. No sp "needs to be anything but themselves. I will never agree with the practice of saying irrelevant things about a provider. Did i treat you well? Did you enjoy our time? Did i do anything that was rude or uncouthe? Those are the important matters. But detailing our personal interactions via the internet where anyone can see them is rude. Just because I was comfortable with that person does not entitle said person to speak of what transpired within our time together. I am so glad for Cerbs ruling on positive feedback only because at the end of the day. Positive interaction should be the most important part of every meeting. We all have flaws, but that doesn't make us less. What makes us less as people, in my opinion,is being that person who only regards someone by their physical representation. i don't want clients who see me just as a shell. I want people who treat me as i would treat them. Anything beyond that seems futile. Additional Comments: This is a problem as well... I have had similar experiences with clients at clubs who have tried to say that I treated them poorly in the VIP, but neglect to mention their treatment of me or unwillingness to accept that i am not willing to perform the acts in which they (usually rudely) demanded. Sometimes it isnt the girl.

Ladies? Maybe you have shared some of these feelings in regards to the way we are frequently spoken about.... I have been working in Ottawa since December. Previously, I had been a dancer and had not ventured often into the provider side of things (outside the club of course, I don't believe in Strip Club extras as it's unsafe and in poor taste. I go there to perform) For the most part, my 5 years as a worker of the adult industries has been a great, lifechanging experience. Where there was a lack of confidence, I grew into a strong and bold woman. Where there was a shyness, I now shine in a crowded room. Where there was anxiousness, there is now a re�������� calmness. People don't really understand what it's like to be in this industry. They don't know what it's like to be constantly judged, picked apart, mocked, looked down upon.... Actually, they probably do. But that's probably the most quizzical part of the problem. We are not as worthy because we are shameful in our choices. Do I agree with this? Absolutely not. But not everyone has lived the same path and so I understand that to some people there is no forgiveness in our liberties. Now... I would consider myself a partial libertarianist. I believe that we should be free to do with our lives what we will so long as we do not hurt others. But more importantly I'd like to add that I believe in the power of also caring for yourself, and to always seize the opportunity to better the planet whenever you can. So, now that I've introduced this... let me clarify a few points. I have overheard that I "...come across as a real hustler." If you mean that I am overly ambitious and have strategized a way to multimarket myself to broaden my overall impact on the industry? Then yes, by all means... I am the hustliest hustler ever. But I treat people very well, provide light and attentive interactions filled with laughter and sensuality. I entertain with flair. I will never stop driving towards my goals. I have overheard that I have "...some sag in (my) boobs", "...some sag in her belly as well", "...kinda floppy" ..... May I add that these were comments from people who have indeed admitted enjoying my service in the same reviews? I get it. People can be superficial. But people have also loved my breasts, despite the fact that you didn't. I am getting a breast augmentation not because I want one, but because it hurts to hear people constantly pointing out my flaws, no matter how wonderfully we have gotten along during our session. I have overheard some lovely things! From some people who have backed me up and said that I'm doing a great job and they respect me. People who have applauded my need to become an advocate for the industry. People who saw beyond a shallow misperception of who I am based on judging me by my outershell, or a small glimpse of a slightly grandiose personality via the internet. Why all the negativity? And it's not just me! People feel comfortable talking to me, which is fine. I shall never judge nor share those things... but the fact is that they tell me similar awful things about other dancers, providers, women, friends, girlfriends. I don't like it. Can we all please just try to be a little more human? And girls, stop taking advantage of, or mocking clients in the same way. We all just need a little happiness sometimes, so why not make it easier to find?

Sexy, witty, and nerdy as f***! Come see Mystique performing onstage at Tease Inc. allll night long. Plus, I give the hottest, most sensual, lapdances around! Guaranteed to drive you wild ;) Are you ready to come play?

So, I'm working today and have found it to be a very contentious , annoying, cancelations all day sort of day. Definitely in need of a change of scenery. Nothing cheers me up half as much as getting out and putting on a superstar pole performance. (Pole champion 4 years running) But, I hate going out to the club if there's no one to perform for. Yes, I'm that much of a diva lol. (But seriously, my talent deserves more than paying some club to entertain their clients for them) So, I ask this.... Who wants to see me perform at a club tonight??? We can have drinks, I'll blow your mind with pole wows, we could get better acquainted if you enjoy my company. Its definitely a win-win Or should I just stay in and hope someone comes to warm me up and put a smile on my face ;)

They work almost everyday... like daytime shift ^.^

I prefer to work through agencies because I find it's more efficient. I got a good offer from one company but I am hoping someone here has heard of or worked with them. The name is Yes Girls Entertainment. Anyone have any details? Thank you ^.^ Mystique xx

Okay, and I cannot state any more clearly.... I wasn't trying to attack the moderators. Im sorry that I quite obviously ruffled some feathers but I was opening a topic for discussion about an ongoing, industry-wide issue.. Offering a possible suggestion to the aforementioned retainer fee was just a thought. It was in no way meant as a demand. Seriously, I sincerely apologize, and dont worry, ill try to limit my debatist topics from this point forward.

Allow me to redirect my final point, I apologize for blaming CERB itself. I understand it's a government mandate (I agree and take extreme issue with the failures of the new law) I was going to edit my main post to include my apology and realization, but can't figure it out. In regards to legality issues you currently deal with... Maybe a sitewide wikipedia style fundraiser could help with that. Minimal effort, who knows how much support?

Happy New Year folks! :) So yesterday I posted in the shoutbox with a clever caption about starting the New Year with a b.a.n.g. A witty, appropriate figure of speech. But because some people are idiots, we have autofilter. Now my shoutbox awesomeness looks like I said start new years with a f***. I would never write such filth. The problem with autofilter is that it takes away the chance to educate people on the etiquette of escorting, and limits those who are above that behavior. If we didn't have autofilter, we could teach people that it's not okay to say things that could get us arrested. We could report and ban people who repetitively violate this. Most importantly, we wouldn't wind up with posts that look like you said something much worse than it was originally intended. Witticisms are okay. Any lawyer can destroy a case over cleverly written lurid humor. Sorry CERB, it's time to evolve.

I personally tend to leave kissing up to my comfort with the gentleman. I generally greet new friends with either the double kiss (which immediately shows me if they're uncomfortable with kissing) or a light nibble on the neck. After we've gotten settled, I've had time to analyze whether kissing is a good fit for us both and will initiate light kising, with heavier, passionate kissing depending on their cues. The first meeting is always a bit awkward anyway. I just try to make light of that fact and do my best to make my gentlemen feel more comfortable. Great post btw!!! ***Quick edit*** Just realized, that was more for the ladies. My advice to you is once you've gotten settled in with her, pull her close, slowly brush past her face with your cheek, and whisper in her ear "May I kiss you?" To me, that would not only take off the pressure e of figuring out your comfort, but also, its such a sexy gesture that id be instantly turned on.

Happy birthday!!!!! I h op its wondrous, fantastically magic ^.^ Xxxxxxxx Cheers! M