HonestPete

I agree completely with you, but she wasn't laughing or trying to humorous. She was dead serious and dead wrong. Of course, she might have thought she was the best I ever had, but it was just my normal dirty talking, trash talking during our session to make our outcum more explosive. It's nobody's fault. Our chemistry & our communication just didn't connect or match enough for me to repeat. But her body was fit & her sweet buns were cute & tiny. ;)

I tip because I like the person; I enjoyed their service; I have money in my pocket; I believe society & government decided not to increase their wages to an acceptable level to live on; I'm a caring & considerate person; etc. So, you don't tip a barber who is also the owner? Because why? The owner's title trumps the barber's lower wages? I find it amazing the excuses people use to convince themselves they're doing the correct thing for others and not just for self-gratification. Or people who say "that's [for] another topic" when they have never created any topic worth reading in the past 5 years. But that's for another topic. Shoe stores are never big enough where I need anyone to help me, especially for 45 minutes. But why wouldn't you tip them? They've been working strictly for you and no other customer for 45 minutes.

In the back of my mind, I thought maybe I could learn things from other members, and your post confirmed that. Thank you for the link. Plus, Gents shouldn't leave it up solely to the Ladies to have regular check-ups. Which is another good message from this thread. I hope.

That's what makes you so F'ing Sexy Miss Jessica! You're a thoughtful Lady who doesn't impose your assumptions into our romantic playful fun times, nor do you need any outside toys to allow both of us from having fun together. Your 3 sentences melts my heart, as I read and re-read them over and over again. You are the type of Lady that I can never get bored or tired of. Plus, you are someone I would enjoy spending most of, if not all of, my time with just listening and talking with you, of course, while my bedroom eyes; smooth, strong hands and my other attached devices work their magic on you fantasies and sweet body. You are, indeed, some one I need & must meet with some day!!!! Additional Comments: I apologize if my interpretations of your comments were unfounded. I don't know you from Adam, so normally, it should have just rolled off my back (which would have been my correct choice, but I didn't to that). Sorry. Toys are always welcomed & sometimes suggested by me, but the Ladies I've chosen to visit with, don't seem to be interested in them. Looking forward to reading your future comments.

You did catch all the humor in my message, albeit, subtle? Correct? There wasn't any honest threat to anything. Actually, I wish she did ask me if she could "invite" Mr. Want to dance with us. But I guess some Ladies are so used to bringing him to their party, that they don't think a brand new client would object to it. This particular Lady made many assumptions and her last one after her goodbye kiss was: "Now tell all your other Ladies that you won't be seeing them any more, since you've found the best." I sure many Gents won't have return visit with her anymore, with that type of self-entitled demands. That should be another topic to post.

This is not at all a negative scenario, but only my curiosity since I have only been with one Beautiful, 5' 1", cute ass Lady who whipped out her magic wand during our romantic session to help her have more fun and it was a major let down for me and my Mr. Magic & his 2 side kicks brothers (Mr. Left & Mr. Right Love-Sacks). I don't ever want to stop my Ladies from having the best time of their lives, but my ego dropped to a new time low, when her wand tagged me out of the sparring ring. LMFAO I have thick skin, so I was able to recover, but I still gave that Wand guy the evil eye when I was back in the ring and he was on the sidelines, again. So, I want to hear from both the Lady's and Gentleman's point of view. What are some of your experiences with this type of toy competition?

God! That's disgusting!!!! I hope you're using a wee-wee pad.

I am definitely out of my comfort zone and knowledge base with this topic, so please don't think I will educate anyone on anything worth reading here. I'm only posting this question since my 2 ATF Ladies will sometimes say they can't meet me, due to their normal doctor's appointment. I know I felt a lot better knowing that they were receiving regular check-ups & I was more than happy to reschedule for a different day & it gave me a peace of mind that they were taking care of themselves. So, it got me thinking that you Ladies may have some wild stories about other Ladies who try to save money by not visiting their doctor during their regularly scheduled appointments. And your Gentlemen clients might feel better, knowing that all respectable Ladies keep their appointments. Granted, this may be a no-brainer for any Lady who truly cares about their health. So, please forgive me, I don't mean any Lady any disrespect. It's just a topic that I thought would help both sides. I'm not trying to call any Lady out for being unhealthy. It wasn't a topic that I ever thought about asking my Lady Friends in the first place. I also add "Gents" to the subject line, since it's appropriate for them to have regular check-ups, too, and guys are welcome to place their comments here, too. I feel weird about posting this question, but maybe it will assist others to introspectively consider what they should do in the near future.

No noooo Mr. Bill ... I mean, Mr. Bean. You do realize that my initial thread was only asking members who still have a "?" as their avatar to add an image to their avatar, not the members who currently have an image? Although, I would like to see your dress ... or, regimental skirt ... or dress or whatever. No!!!! I didn't mean to say that publicly. ... Where's the delete message button? ... Oh good, I found it! ... Wow! I finally deleted this public message! ... God, I didn't want that to be posted to the public to read. Whew!!!

How is he doing? What did the vet say? I just saw this post. You are indeed a very sweet, loving Lady. I hope someday I will be lucky enough to meet you in person.

I tip all those same places/people, too. Glad to hear it. I even give Christmas money to the mail person, lawn guys, snow plowing guys, masseuse, etc. Yes, Gabriella, I've never read any Lady's web site or post which specifies that a tip it required. I heard that unexpected gifts, at unexpected times, for a Lady is one of the best ways to make them smile.

Since I'm very selective in who I meet, my body always has a great time & the Ladies know it. So, I have to give my Ladies an extra donation. Plus, it makes them feel good & everybody can always use some extra in their wallet. I love to surprise them for being themselves & for being sooo sweet & delicious with me. I feel they desire it, especially if some (or a lot) of guys, either don't tip or they hassle over the donation. More importantly (IMHO), some Ladies spend time so that us guys will have such a great time with them. Here are some things they do & it all cost them: mani/pedi-cures, hair, makeup, your favorite sexy clothes, extra clothes to wear in public, drinks, music, candles, lotion, condoms, remembering who you are & what you like & don't like, driving, room reservations, setting up the ambiance, removing & cleaning it all up, waiting, cancellations, hem & hawing in emails/phone/chat conversations, ass-holes, and the list goes on and on. They do so much to make us happy, a big or small tip may really make their day. So why not give them something extra. It's not going to break your bank account. Sorry for my rant. Do you tip? If so, how much, how often, why or why not?

Would you have a tryst at your significant other home and/or bed? Did you ever have a tryst in their home and/or bed? Is it sexy or vulgar to have a tryst in their home and/or bed? Why or why not? Of course, this thread is both Ladies and Gents to reply to, since I would love to read all opinions. I'm sure it will be a very hot topic for both those that like to do it and those who are oppose to ever doing it. I'll start: Of the 2 Ladies I first invited to my Wife's home, both of them are my ATF Lady Friends. All the other Ladies, who I didn't invite, I only met with them once. Just the phrase "in my Wife's bed" (IMWB) is extremely arousing for me. Some Ladies get wet when you tell them: "I think of you when I'm making love to my Wife". I do think of my ATF, but now I think of them being in my Wife's bed getting our sheets messing, seeing their face, listening to them, etc., while I'm making love to my Wife and while I'm sleeping and waking up in our bed. I'm sure there is a vulgar side to this type of tryst, but my mind can only handle one glorious fantasy at a time. lol Just as long as my Wife doesn't get hurt. I still love her & love making love to her, but she's not as horny as me. Plus, I'm ALWAYS here for her whenever she needs me for anything.

There seems to be only 2 Raquel Ladies here on cerb: Raquel or raquelsexy. Which one are you referring to? I live too far away to meet either one, but I hope this helps a member to contact the correct Sexy Raquel that you are recommending.

For me, the best place to start dirty talking is when I'm perusing the Lady's web site photos and fantasizing about the imagery her words are having on Mr. Magic. I'm already talking to myself about how much I would love to make her scream with delight & taste her sweetness on my tongue. I will send her a nice long, well-behaved email about myself, things I do & like, compliments about her, etc. with lots of "please", "thank you", etc. Hopefully, she enjoys reading them and wants to read some of my erotic stories before we meet in person, especially if she writes back saying that she use her wand and read my stories over and over again. Once we meet, sitting on the edge of the bed, or better yet, seated on a couch with 1 bare leg underneath her buns & my strong hand caressing her smooth thigh, as if she's baby sitting at a neighbor' house and no one else is around. After many days/weeks of dirty talking to her photos, now I have all her physical, 3-dimensional beauty in front of me & her smiling face and laughter are telling me she's glad I've arrived, my passionate words of desires have to cum out as if I'm still talking to her photos, but she's responding to my caresses, my growing excitement, my words of intense enthusiasm to make her happy & wet. Then after awhile, standing up and offering my hand to her to have her stand with me & making sure she gets a eye-full of my bulging pants. If she doesn't place her free hand on my covered lollipop, then I use my hand to brush her hand against me, all the while telling her I have so much to give her. When we are both facing a mirror & I'm standing behind her, brushing her long hair off her back and onto her bare chest, so that I can kiss her naked back, back of her neck, caressing my face on her scented hair, & telling her how big & happy she's making me and how much I want her. Plus, how much I want to take my time with her, but it's soo hard to be gentle with her. This comment is taking too long. I'll just email you my suggestions. lol

I prefer all information that the Lady is comfortable giving out: 36d-25-36. But it's still just numbers, along with her height. Same measurements may look different on another Lady. Photos are great, but sometimes it takes the mystery or magic out of seeing a Lady for the first time in person. Along with her measurements, I hope she would describe herself & personality in words. I don't think there is a simple answer to your question, because thankfully all Ladies are different. Thank you for asking and thank you for including the very useful link. I love learning new things, especially from such a Sexy teacher as you. I hope you and I will have some hands on training some time in the future. ;) Additional Comments: